Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

2006-11-26 16:38:19 · 13 answers · asked by storm_icy14 1 in Friends

My fiancé and I have been together for almost two years now, and though I love him, his temper I loathe. He really crossed the other line the other night when him and I had a disagreement while with a family
After a few attempts to end the argument he a) kept arguing about it after I made attempts for peace, and making me cry in public b) LIED to me about going to the bathroom and took off ‘running away’ into the dead of night to god knows where, c) had the audacity to tell my 3 yr. nephew that all women are crazy and men are better, d) sent me into a frenzy searching for him around the entire area of Mission Valley, e) him not having the courteousy to contact me (even via text) at some point to let me know he got home okay, e) posted a blog the bext day concentrating on the argument and why he is ‘right’, having no remorse for his ditching me, f) once again implied in blog that I am ‘inferior’ in some sense due to being a woman.

I am so, so angry/sad. What move do I make next?

2006-11-26 16:37:16 · 17 answers · asked by Krystle 2 in Singles & Dating

I (female) am african american, my husband is white/hispanic. I want to fit in and be accepted by all of those in his family not just his mother. I am very outspoken and independant and I stand up for what I beleive in. My husband says I intimidate some of them by being so outspoken and honest. I have never disrespected anyone but I do speak my mind and say what is on my mind. I get along with all except his 23 yr old little sister. Now on my side is just my mother and she thinks he is a bad influence on my kids(previous relaitonship). I do not see it that way. He teaches my son(11) to respect women and to not wear his clothes hanging off his ***. But my son likes ock music and my mom thinks its because of my husband. He teaches my daughter(8) to respect her self and he shows her the important trait it is to have a dad. her dad is in jail.

2006-11-26 16:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by choco-vanilla 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he annoys me
he says i loveyou
hes crazy inlove with me
but its not mutual...
i still want to be friends
what should i do?

2006-11-26 16:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by kaybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I like my best friend who is 15 (I am 17 and a girl) but the problem is that he has a girlfriend AND I am unsure of the age diff.- I don't want to mess with his relationship, but I want him. lol But I really think he likes me back romantically.

2006-11-26 16:36:33 · 4 answers · asked by Melvina 2 in Singles & Dating

If I had different parents would they not care about me?

2006-11-26 16:35:59 · 2 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Friends

So i liked this girl and she flirted with me alot. so i asked her today how she really felt about me.She says im just a really good friend and thats all she wants..What the heck?What about what i want? Why am I always just a friend??Why can women get away with breaking mens hearts as well?

2006-11-26 16:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like a girl but the last time i liked a girl i toled my mom and he toled evry last person in are family and all thar friends and evry time i sow my mom she asked me and now i dont know what to do?

2006-11-26 16:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by blaze 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u do if you love someone so much but you cant tell them
your 18 and he's 23.. is that bad?
would he go for someone so young??
you can honestly see yourself wiht no one but him.. and its not just a saying
you've liked him sine you were 15
how do you tell him?

2006-11-26 16:33:41 · 9 answers · asked by kaybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 16:33:00 · 28 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She will sign out then sign back in lots of times. I will type something then she sighns back in. or if i am nor talkig to her she will sign in and out lots. Why is this

2006-11-26 16:32:54 · 10 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if a guy always IMs you first, but then after a while doesn't really say much of anything or doesn't seem interested in the conversation anymore, and then he says he has to go? This guy is confusing me. We're friends, so I don't know if he's just being friendly and then getting bored, or if he likes me and then doesn't know what to talk about. Have any of you ever had an experience like this?

2006-11-26 16:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this man for 5 weeks. I do understand that we haven't been dating that long, but he's never taken me out to dinner. (He has mentioned that he doesn't really have alot of money). It's not that I expect to be "wined and dined", but dinner once in a while would be nice. We go for bike rides, he has dinner at my house, and we've had lunch a couple of times at restaurants. He did spend thanksgiving with his ex and their children at a home they still own together (even though he did stop by my house for a brief visit) He's been divorced for about 6 years. In his emails he tells me he misses me and can't wait to see me, but when we do see each other, he always hugs me and has not kissed me at all, not even on the cheek. I'm very confused. I'm wondering if it's possible that this man is still in love with his ex-wife or could there be some other reason for the mixed signals. Any advice would be helpful.

2006-11-26 16:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by kimmie e 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is going to turn 21 and he wants his birthday to be in a stripclub...dose anyone know if you can throw a party in one??? and if so how much would it be???

2006-11-26 16:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Kikkis 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 16:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together 6 months. I want something thats not too expensive but something that he would like. I was thinking something electronic... any ideas would be great (nothing sexual please). Oh & he already got my gift.. I think its something pretty nice, so I dont want to seem cheap.... thanks for the help...

2006-11-26 16:31:11 · 6 answers · asked by niknak 1 in Singles & Dating

She is very young (13) and she likes to take her clothes off and show off her sectretive areas. What should I do to tell her that she needs to stop?

2006-11-26 16:30:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, so last week this Canadian guy moved into the house next to me, and OMG he is SO SEXY! I didn't even know Canadians could be so sexy. OMG I WANT HIM RIGHT NOW. I think he is single because he lives alone, but the other day this girl was at his house and I was watching like all day. Hopefully she's just a friend or maybe she's related to him because I WANT HIM! HOW CAN I MAKE HIM ALL MINE AND ONLY MINE?

2006-11-26 16:28:50 · 13 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

1) As far as beauty goes ?
2) Which type of women do not divorse their husbands high or low maintainance ?
3) What does each type expect ?
4) Which type gives and expects true love ?
5) How do you recognise whch type a woman belongs to ?

2006-11-26 16:27:44 · 15 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend told me that he couldn't have children.Now I'm pregnant.At first he wanted me to get rid of the baby. but I refused. Now all of a sudden a girl from the past pops up saying that shes pregnant by my boyfriend and the baby is due Dec.06 the girl got pregnant before I was in the picture.If this is his child.Should I be worried about this other girl? Do you think he knew about this other pregnacy the entire time and just tryed to get me to abort my baby to avoid having 2 babies 6 months behind each other?

2006-11-26 16:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by "Said&Done" 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

list the signs

2006-11-26 16:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by Miguel B 1 in Singles & Dating

My thing is, trying to get girls to like me, what kind of look do girls like on guys?

2006-11-26 16:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's funny, attractive, and kind. He talks to me a lot, even when we may be having a convo with other people, but i just have mixed emotions about him. i got to him really well, for the last few months. he's a great friend and he's a great person.

2006-11-26 16:26:37 · 11 answers · asked by marie j 1 in Friends

what types of hints or questions do guys ask on a first date if he likes u?

2006-11-26 16:26:30 · 17 answers · asked by sWeeTcHe11 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone just broke my heart. She really mean alot to me. Now that shes moved on,(which wasnt a very good seperation) my ex is back in the picture. He hurt my a while ago but now hes back and wants to prove himself. I never stopped loving him but she made it easy to get over him. That made it so much easier to fall for her...im sooo confused....WHAT DO I DO?

2006-11-26 16:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by ticklemetiti 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend has really been in a tough spot, her mother passed away on thanksgiving, she was 51. My gf is only 20 and she doesnt have any family to go to for this. I am her only outlet. I am doing my best being htere for her, trying to make her laugh, giving her a shoulder to cry on. But there are times when i see her just stare into nothingness, and there is nothing i can say. I feel so helpless... will things ever be the same again?

2006-11-26 16:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by xsuckitdx 2 in Family

2006-11-26 16:24:44 · 21 answers · asked by sWeeTcHe11 1 in Singles & Dating

I know you all probably not gonna like what I will ask, but please be as open-minded as possible. I know what I have been doing is wrong.

The thing is that: I have been with my current boyfriend for 4 years now and things have been going really good between us. But a while ago, there is this guy at work who has shown me how much he likes me and all. We have flirted a lot--hugs and kisses and all (but no sex!) I really like this guy too, but as much as I know, I do not want anything further with him. I just like the attention he gives me and all the excitement in general. Before you judge me, I know I love my BF, but my problem is, even though I love him, I also love this new stuff the new guy brings into my life. I feel really bad about kissing other guys besides my BF, so don't get me wrong. My boyfriend doesn't know this yet, and I feel extremely bad about it. What am I supposed to do? I mean seriously, I don't want to leave my BF for some excitement.

2006-11-26 16:24:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

meaning im shy...so...some advice please

2006-11-26 16:24:00 · 14 answers · asked by jdog44442003 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you just disappear..try to contact her?

2006-11-26 16:22:50 · 28 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Singles & Dating