meaning im shy...so...some advice please
2006-11-26 16:24:00 · 14 answers · asked by jdog44442003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should make some attempt. If not girls are pretty clueless to how you feel. I think there is a happy medium. You just have to find it.
2006-11-26 16:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by kakie829 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I like the serious cool type that only I can make laugh, not that that's one of the options...If I had to choose from shy or a guy coming on to me, I'd choose shy, but if I tried talking to the guy, especially if I tried multiple times, and he remained shy, I'd get annoyed and forget it.
2006-11-27 00:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate shy guys (no offense.) being raised in the south, the guys always are the ones to make a first move, so shy ones are baisically paraiahs.
shy guys have to watch outgoing guys hit on everyone...that sucks.
my advice is to have more self-confidence and just go for the girl. its survival of the fittest, baby, and if you sit around and do nothing you will be alone forever!
2006-11-27 00:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by QWERTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys that are themselves! I really like the funny, agressive guys, but are also willing to have an equal and mutal relationship.
Shy guys are cute, but in my experience they come across as very awkward and will not speak their mind. Sometimes if they don't speak or just stare...they become a little creepy.
I am sure plenty of girls like you, just be YOURSELF--that's all you can be, because I am shy too, just make sure you don't tune other people out or come across as arrogant. Good luck and God bless you! :)
2006-11-27 00:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd like a guy to come on to me but not too strong. Shy guys just take too long.
2006-11-27 01:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy is sweet and all but i prefer the guys who approach u, and just try to act natural, even if theyre scared outta their minds. but i hate the kind who walk up you thinking theyre the king of the world all pompous and all..
if ur shy and theres someone u like or really wanna get to know to know, go up to her and her group of friends with ur group of friends and no matter how scared u feel, just dont let it show. try to hang out as a big grp of friends, and once u get a bit more comfortable with her, try smsing or calling her once in a while. dont stalk her or anything, just try to keep ur cool, girls like that. gdluck :)
2006-11-27 00:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am very outgoing so I will probably start talking to you; So as long as you would actually have a conversation with a girl you should be ok
Also no worries about being shy- it can be rather refreshing
2006-11-27 00:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Melvina 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
both, shy guys tend be move things slower so u feel more comfortable around them yet bold guys tell u straight up and u know where u stand...shy guys leave u confused like I am now :(
2006-11-27 00:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by LovelyLady 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
da 1s dat come on 2 u of course but som shy guys arent bad either its just dat a lot of girls lik guys 2 come 2 dem
2006-11-27 00:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by dbertasiute 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i like the shy type...i enjoy to catch them follow by my trick
i can get him 1st...but he cant treat me like a invisible then..
cos he still have to open the car door for me, solved the problem together.. dont b a corward guy..
2006-11-27 00:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋