She is very young (13) and she likes to take her clothes off and show off her sectretive areas. What should I do to tell her that she needs to stop?
2006-11-26 16:30:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow... 13 years old and already stripping and showing her private areas. Are you her mother/father or just a family friend? I would have to say that the parents need to discipline her, set and give her boundaries before it's TOO late. Stripping sometimes leads to prostitution and prostitution sometimes leads to drugs/alcohol and rape. PREVENT THIS NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! She is 13 years old, she is still a baby for god's sake. She doesn't want to end up pregnant. There is something that happened to her or something she has been through or seen for her to think it's alright to show people her body in such a disrespectful manner. Talk with her... maybe let her watch videos of strippers who have been through a tough life. Of course you would have to find them but they are out there. If you care about this friend of yours, you will do whatever it takes to prevent this. She is too young and doesn't need to be taken advantage of by anyone...
2006-11-26 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends is obviously in dire need of male attention and she may even be hurting inside. It usually has to do with a lack of a healthy relationship with her father, or no relationship at all. Her behavior is self-destructive and she needs help. She may also have been molested as a kid. I would lend her an understanding and listening ear as well as some professional help. Many strippers are just hookers looking for easy money, and others are support a drug habit. You need to ask the right questions to find our what's eating her and driving her to self-destruction. Girls are naturally timid about their bodies in front of people in general. Her parents or other relatives should hear about her behaviour and some prefessional help should be sought.
Good luck.
Mr. M on "obsessed with stripping."
2006-11-27 00:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a chance your friend is being sexually abused in her hiome or someone close to her, discuss this with your schoolcounselor,they know how to handle this.
2006-11-27 01:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋