Someone just broke my heart. She really mean alot to me. Now that shes moved on,(which wasnt a very good seperation) my ex is back in the picture. He hurt my a while ago but now hes back and wants to prove himself. I never stopped loving him but she made it easy to get over him. That made it so much easier to fall for her...im sooo confused....WHAT DO I DO?
2006-11-26 16:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by ticklemetiti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure its ok...however that's not going to solve anything & u will feel bad, very, very qucikly.
If your ex already hurt you b4, u need to try being just friends... what IS the RUSH?
U really need to be single and surround urself with good friends to grieve, cry and recover.
U NEED 2 HEAL!!
2006-11-26 16:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not good. It's called a rebound relationship. You're transferring your emotional baggage from the first relationship into the next one. You usually don't see the new person for who they are, rather, just an extension of the ex.
In my opinion, tell ex-boy that you need some space. If he's really into you and wants to prove himself to you, then he will respect your wishes. Truthfully, I think his ego is hurt. His ex-girl went with a girl ! ? ! What an ego buster that must be for him.
2006-11-27 00:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to figure out if you are straight or gay first.
using someone to run from the pain of a breakup can help but realize it is what it is, rebound. if you really love the guy then you shouldn't be confused.
2006-11-27 00:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by iliketodreambig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to take a break from relationships for a while.
Going from person to person doesn't give you a chance to evaulate what happened and why. And what you can do differently the next time.
2006-11-27 00:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY NOT OK TO PLAY WITH PEOPLE FEELING. YOU
NEED TO GIVE YOUR SELF A BREAK AND FIND YOUR SELF
BEFORE GETTING WITH ANY ONE/. BECAUSE IT SOUND
LIKE YOU REALLY DONT LIKE THIS PERSON BUT THE OTHER PERSON IS STILL IN YOUR HEART. AND THAT
NATURALLY BUT DONT HURT THE OTHER PERSON. WHEN
YOU DONT REALLY WANT TO BE THERE. THAT NOT A
GOOD PLACE TO BE IN THE LONG RUN.
2006-11-27 00:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to fill one hole with something else...let the wound heal first. Seems to me you're using her...or him to fill whatever void there is. Don't do that.
2006-11-27 00:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the best way just call me mr.rebound
2006-11-27 00:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya its fine...just go hav fun
2006-11-27 00:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by RCW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋