am i justifying my behavior on what he did?...
2006-11-26 17:20:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly...just grow up...I'm not tryin to be sarcastic in any way..lol. I use to throw things up in my husbands face just to make him mad...but then i grew up and i also let it go. maybe you're still not over what he did to you...but a big part of it in my opinion is the maturity level. Please take this as constructive criticism..in no way am I tryin to put you down...just tryin to "keep it real"
2006-11-26 17:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just stop .. it's that easy.. when you feel it boiling up... stop that thought by thinking of a stop red sign and redirect to a left turn like... I feel a little sad right now and need a little alone time or friend time.. go call a friend or step outside and then come back to the situation in 20 mins. or when you are done with the anger fit. don't justify that' s not justifying... that's hurting him and you
2006-11-27 01:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by jmilil 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. I have been through this as well. Just try to fully forgive him and if you do this, then you have not done so just yet.If you are still with him, it is for a reason and I'm sure it isn't to make him feel guilty forever. If you want to grow and move on with this person, you have to let the past go.It is hard sometimes but it is needed because eventually he will get tired of it.
2006-11-27 01:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard not to through it in his face cuz you're hurt by it and u are gonna stay hurt. If he tells u to get over it tell him to go to hell cuz u have to live the rest of ur life knowing that he cheated on u. And live with the insecureness of it he is doing it again
2006-11-27 01:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY BF DOES THAT TO ME TOO! ugh, it was a year n a half ago, u have to let it go!!! he hasn't done it in a long time, so he's not going to again. he feels bad enough that he did it. the only reason u prolly bring it up is because its the only thing that you have over him.
2006-11-27 01:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either you're gonna be with him and accept it and move on or don't accept it and let him go, i was in that same situation and i had to realize if i wanted us to be together i was gonna have to suck it up and go on cuz eventually he will get fed up with you throwing it in his face and just say f*ck it i dont want to hear this any more and leave so you really should make a decision
2006-11-27 01:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let it go, everyone does something that they are not proud of and others shame them about, but setting it behind u and forgive and forget.
2006-11-27 01:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jacoby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never got over it you tucked it away so it would eat at you for the rest of your life and have him by the balls for the rest of his you probably should have ended it right then and there would save you the dis trust
2006-11-27 01:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are still counting the days since the last time he cheated on you either you need to change your perspective or change your relationship
2006-11-27 01:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Wasabi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you told him that you have forgiven him? If you have, you need to not be throwing it in his face. He will resent that he cannot believe what you say and no one wants old stuff thrown back into their face after they have supposedley been forgiven.
2006-11-27 01:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by The Nag 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋