A friend of mine confessed he wants to be with me and leave his wife. I recently ended a marriage a couple of months ago. What to do?
2006-11-26 17:23:33 · 23 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
plain and simple if you are trully ready then go for it but with your divorce and everything you dont wanna rush
2006-11-26 17:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by taby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run girl run! Any man that pulls what he did is nothing but trouble. Marriage is a big commitment and he apparently does not take his responsibility seriously. If he was your true friend, he would have never put you in the position that you are now in with him! You must end your friendship now. It will only be disasterous if the pair of you carryon. If he doesn't love the woman he is married too, he will never love you anyways. Like I said....RUN!!
2006-11-26 18:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well do you like him?
Because if you do, think about what he is about to do. If he plans to leave his wife for you, don't you think he can do it again?
But if you don't like him, then tell him to do whatever he wants to, and let him know that it still doesn't change the fact that you and him will stay the same--friends.
2006-11-26 17:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question is: do you want to be with him? Hope you didn't end a marriage for that reason only? You may be by yourself!
2006-11-26 17:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO!! He is married and you are just divorced. Neither one of you are ready to start a new relationship. He needs to focus on either working out his marriage or ending it, and you should not be involved in either one.
2006-11-26 17:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell his wife and realise he isnt a friend but another guy trying to get in your pants
2006-11-26 20:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. The fact that he wants to leave his wife to be with another woman speaks plenty about his character.
2006-11-26 17:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok 1st, talk to your friend and tell him to discuss where their relationship is in their partictual relationship 1st. you dont wanna just jump in there and then you get hurt in the end. make sure this is what he really wants to do andi ts not outta being upset at his wife, or something that just came to his mind. :) just have him talk to her, and you talk to him, and find out what's really going on. in the end, i dont want you to get hurt
2006-11-26 17:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by shadow_princess2569 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything - tell your friend to seek counseling - it's not very wise to "jump" into another relationship especially after divorcing recently - nor when one is in a marriage that's not going well....
2006-11-26 17:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not act on this notian. I have had a simular situation with this there are a lot of things to consider when this kind of thing comes up?????????? some times this can cause a lot more heart ache than you are ready for,
2006-11-26 17:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by sptech1994 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋