i feel like he's always one up on me cuz he cheated and got to keep me.....can i ever even things out, i'm getting sick of treating him day in and out.
2006-11-26 17:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to ask yourself, "who is really one up?"
is it him for cheating, or you for being the mature one at the time and forgiving him?
Think of it in a different way. I'm sure you'll see who is really "one-up"
2006-11-26 17:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can not. It will just become a bigger problem. I had this problem. I wasn't trying to cheat but I guess after he cheated, I was hurt and tried to confide in others. He found out and felt like well, I need to get even-so we went on steady hurting one another over and over until we realized it was useless because we still ended up together.We were young but two wrongs don't make a right. Also, it will not help you feel better about it.Don't stoop to that level or let his actions control your decisions-especially ones you will regret later.That is what I had to learn.Besides, if you are the bigger person you always feel better because he can't throw unfaithfulness in your face.So you always have something over his head.Cheating-Getting even will only make you feel bad.
2006-11-27 01:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WELL U NOW TO MAKE THINGS EVANIF U ARE GETTIN SICK OF HIM THE BEST WAY TO EVAN THINGS OUT IS THAT U BRAKE UP WITH HIM AND ALSO HAVE U EVER TRYED TO SEE IF HE IS STILL CHEATING AN U BREAKING UP WITH HIM WILL NOT JUST MAKE THINGS EVAN IT WILL PROBLY BRAKE HIS HEART ANDIF HE WILL LEARN TO TREAT U NICE THAT IS IF HE COMES BACK FOR U WELL IF THE ADVICE I SAID U DONT THINK WILL WORK "(DONT TRY IT)"!!!
2006-11-27 01:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by q_mastr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that if you are planning on keeping him. It doesn't matter that he cheated on you, if you cheat on him, he'll probably dump you. They think it's okay for them to cheat, but if you cheat, then they go crazy.
2006-11-27 01:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is up to you. my man want to do it to even the score. but it really wont fix anything. because you will always bring up that he did it first, even if you do the exact same thing to get back at him. you have to just let it go. u'd rather waist time finding ways to get back at the one you love than just let it go and have good, happy times together? personally, id rather be happy.
2006-11-27 01:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are u with him if u want to get even?? if u forgave him that's great!!! but if u cant let it go, and want to get even then maybe u shouldn't be with him....2 wrongs dont make a right.....it may make things worse.....
2006-11-27 01:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by angelickatie21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, just remember the word...KARMA.
2006-11-27 01:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by FlyingHi007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God your immature i think you need your relationship card revoked....
so my adive GO AHEAD! Blow his pops!
2006-11-27 01:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get him lost & out of your life!
and f u think t'was nt enuff, kick his balls!!!
2006-11-27 01:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by pit_bulldog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would be dirty and if you dont mind being dirty then I say go ahead
2006-11-27 01:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋