i have a boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. i slept with another guy. i love my boyfriend to death and i really really dont want to tell my boyfriend what happened because it was only one night and i know that i wont do it again .. my only problem is my conscience is killing me soo bad i cant stop thinking about what a bad girlfriend i am. what can i do to forget about what i did.
2006-11-26 18:18:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think differently and try to relax, he has been with other girls as well, so don't worry.
:> peace
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2006-11-30 15:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is God in you when you say your conscience. Ask God for forgiveness and guidance for what to do. Pay close attention during and after your prayer to any occurences because you will get your answer. If you really want to know....sex out of wedlock is dangerously wrong. Be very careful. Do you think you will get urges like these when you are some man's wife? How did you meet the guy? Did he know that you were seeing someone else? What would your boyfriend think if you were honest? How long are you gonna let this thing go on? Do you think coming clean now will fix things?
2006-11-26 18:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend to death, why did you sleep with another guy? "I was drunk" isn't an excuse. You had to actually, consciously make the decision "Yes, I'm going to cheat on my boyfriend". It wasn't "accidental"; you didn't mistake the other guy for your boyfriend in the dark; he didn't trip and fall and land inside you. You *are* a bad girlfriend. Not for cheating, because that's about the worst thing you can do, but for making it worse by not telling the truth. Your guilt is only going to get worse if you don't tell him. Tell him. If he forgives you, it's more than you deserve, and if he doesn't, then the relationship is over (which it probably is anyway).
2006-11-26 18:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by supensa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him hun. in the past 2 and half years i guarantee you there are things he has done that you dont know about. I know you feel like you're gonna taint a long term relationship but people are people and your guy is better off not knowing. If you dont tell him you two could go on having a long lasting healthy reltionship but, if you tell him it will be tainted and he will end up doin something to make it even. So just let it go. Was it some good dik at least lol.
2006-11-26 18:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy_soldier79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the benefit in telling your boyfriend? You will hurt him thinking this is the way to make you feel less guilty. That would be selfish. You will have to live with this guilt and learn from it. Love your boyfriend enough NOT to tell him UNLESS you have contracted an STD that you might past to your boyfriend. If you find yourself sleeping with other people in the future, then you need to sincerely reassess how much you truly do love your boyfriend if you choose not to be faithful to him.
2006-11-26 18:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't forget about it. You shouldn't have done it, and you know it. If you don't tell him, you risk him finding out later and of course that would be awful in so many ways. If your conscience is killing you so bad you should confess. He might forgive you! But if not and he dumps you, you will have learned a valuable lesson (sorry to sound so Sesame Street-ey). I just hope you used a condom and won't be transmitting anything to your poor bf.
2006-11-26 18:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by heehaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to make yourself feel better is to confront him. It will be really hard but will be the only way you can live with yourself. practice what you are going to say in a mirror or with a friend and if he truly loves you then he will forgive you. although he may need some time. but dont you think he has the right to know? wouldnt you want to know? im sorry you are being tortured with this but that just means that you have a good heart. good luck.
2006-11-26 18:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by baby_cakes_2758 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once upon a time there was this guy who was so amazing to me, he might as well have been an angel who fell straight from the sky - an angel with a five inch tall mohawk and a great smile sent to make me laugh, teach me to loosen up, and let me know that i am loved....i was only able to be with him for a short time, then he joined the army and i never even got to say goodbye :( i think about him every day and hope that he's okay but i know he probably is okay, because after all he is an angel...
2016-05-23 08:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him what you've done. That's a sure way to have him leave you and even if he stays, he won't trust you or he'll throw it back in your face, probably more than once. He may also justify cheating on you. What to do instead? Every day, do something so incredibly sweet for him. This way, you'll start feeling better because your behavior will match your feelings again, and he'll feel really loved and special.
2006-11-26 18:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but i don't think you love your bf to death if you slept with someone else . it serves you right to have a guilty conscience . doesn't matter if a one night stand . you did it once he will think that you can do it again knowing that you are capable of cheating .
2006-11-26 18:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you in on how guys are. They cheat on their wives and girlfriends all the time. Then they turn around and tell their wives and girlfriends what they want to hear and never admit to messing around.
I just think it's sad that women are so much more faithful to lying, cheating jerks who take great pleasure in playing them for fools. Don't let any guys know I let you in on this though because they would consider me a traitor and hunt me down.
2006-11-26 18:27:35 · answer #11 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋