She and I have been friends for 2 years, overcome many issues, and spend alot of time together. Recently she has been saying and doing some thing that make me think she wants to be more than friends. I'd be willing to give it a shot if that is how she really feels. What is the best way to ask so she would feel as comfortable as possible being open yet it wouldn't make things too awkward? Should I question what she means by some of these things and then say "how do you really feel about us?" or is there a better way?? Thanks.
2006-11-26 18:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by tipple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres no better way than to be direct. You should ask her how does she really feels about you guys becoming more than friends, but before you ask her tell her that you don't want things to be awkward for her when she answers and to know that no matter what she says you guys will still be best friends and nothing can change the cool relationship you have between each other. Whatever you decide to do good luck and hope things work out fine between you guys.
2006-11-26 18:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by vilikinia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the best thing to do is ask....have it out in the open and if you guys are trully friends...there wont b any akwardness....i doesnt hurt to ask...at least you'll have the answers to ur questions
2006-11-26 18:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by JuJu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm u have to ask yourself if you really want her to be your gf. And are you prepared to lose her as a good friend if things did not go well (as in when you ask if she wanna be ur gf) and drop her hints like i like this girl and describe HER as the girl you like. yeah and maybe in return she will confess that she likes you too! (=hopes this helps!
2006-11-26 21:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by jt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should give it a shot ask her the question !Good luck
2006-11-26 19:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been doing the same thing as that girl with my best friend and I'm not sure if he get the message or not. what was she doing that made you get it?(pinewood_girl@yahoo.com) but yeah totally ask her i wish he would ask me!
2006-11-26 18:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by D-Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you should take her out to eat... ask her.." hey lets go out to eat" then go out to the movies.. after that if its cold give her your jacket.. when you drop her off.. give her a good hug.. then look straight at her eyes then slowly kiss her...then that should kick it off..
2006-11-26 18:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by JIPP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask question like that.
In other option is:
Try talk about future about if got partner...... later ask her, if you're the one.
2006-11-26 18:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋