Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

i have been with my boyfriend 4 years but i have dreams about another man who i have had a fling with a couple of times. i feel like i need to choose but cant decide i feel like i love both of them. i want them both in my life but i know its wrong. i feel so bad.

2006-11-26 20:06:48 · 18 answers · asked by danielleveale 1 in Singles & Dating

My 1 year anniversary is coming up for me and my girlfriend. Everything is going perfect with us and I love her. I've been thinking about what to get her for along time. I finally found something that I think she will like, but I'm not sure if she will. Thats where I need some help. I have been thinking and I want to get a star named after us. I mean am I just wasting my time. Women would you think this is sweet or just weired? Please I need some help. Thanks

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Thats not the only thing I would be getting her. I mean I also plan on taking her to the place where we had our first date. Along with naming the star after us. What do you think? Should I or shouldn't I do the star thing????

2006-11-26 20:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm about to give up, I've been having suicidal thoughts a lot lately, why is it so hard for me to get a girlfriend?, why do I struggle?, I'm not fat, why do us guys have to make the first move & do all the talking?, I don't consider myself that ugly, a couple girls have told me that i'm not that bad looking but they are ugly girls who said that, & they aren't fat either, almost everyone loses their virginity before they are 18, having a girlfriend after age 18 isn't fun anymore, it's not cool like it was in high school, people start talking about getting married, my life sucks

2006-11-26 20:05:45 · 11 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

they attract to another sex easily, any sentiments? they accept their coomiments

2006-11-26 20:05:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear nothing about her and if I inquire, I am told "its none of your business." WTF?

2006-11-26 20:04:42 · 7 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 20:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not gonna get to detailed here but, this guy I work with is very nice and he always smiles at me whenever he passes by. He's treated me to dinner a few times, but I'm confused. I would like to start a serious relationship with him, but I'm afraid to mention it to him because someone with his credentials would never take someone like me seriously.

2006-11-26 20:02:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

intently at guys?Is there something they find attractive about him,or do they just want the guy to look at her because she's an attention whore?

2006-11-26 20:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in luv with this girl, but it turns out that we're related. here's how: her dad's dad & my dad's grandmother were brother and sister. so how am i & my girl related?! plz help me out here... this is driving me crazzzzy!! would there b any harm to our kids in the future?

2006-11-26 20:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by scorpio31181 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 20:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by tinamarie3marietina 1 in Singles & Dating

girls what do u check out first on a guy an why an what matters the most to youll

2006-11-26 19:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by suze_hall21 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 19:58:16 · 5 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i just met. we are going to go to a party this coming weekend together (a couple kinda thing). I am not sure if she likes me, but i like her. After the party, i would like to invite her back to my dorm room but i probably still wont know if she likes me. How do i ask her back in a non threatening way that could (but doesn't have to) lead towards an intimate situaton. i hate to call it a "line" that gets her to go with me... i just want a non-threatening way to test the waters.

2006-11-26 19:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by bob w 1 in Singles & Dating

do u never feel the need of just wild hot S E X ?
i mean..
without anything else, just for fun or for to be wild !
or it is just a thing tht happen to men?
and... if yes! It is often or rare... and what would u like? (how u make it know to a man?
ps sorry about my english

2006-11-26 19:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Two of my flatmates are having some sort of relationship, but they have not told me. I walked downstairs a while ago and they were 'busy' in the kitchen, I just turned around and went back to my room.
I know it is none of my business, but for some reason it has made me really angry. I have shared personal stuff with both of them before. He and I are good friends, she and I are good friends, but I feel like they are deceiving me. I don't really mind if they are seeing each other, I just hate the idea that they are lying (I have given both a chance to mention it, but they didn't).
I know they don't have any responsibility to tell me everything, (and I don't automatically tell them everything either) which is what makes this feeling so bizarre, I don't know where it has come from or why. I just know I am angry and very uncomfortable around either of them (they act like nothing is happening, and they have no idea I know). Any ideas?

2006-11-26 19:51:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it right to call him by his first name when were in church or by calling him reverend_____?

2006-11-26 19:51:29 · 31 answers · asked by karrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the best ways to turn a woman on?

2006-11-26 19:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by orange peel 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever watch that show "sweet sixteen" where those gals get
every single thing they want!! Is this a good thing or bad..and why?

2006-11-26 19:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family

My friend has this best friend who is breaking up w/ her. My friend is Kim and Kim's friend is Meggy. Meggy is becoming a cool kid now.... It's really hard for Kim. Please answer! Soon Kim won't have a fieldtrip partner anymore!

2006-11-26 19:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend are stuck in a rut. I desperately love him, but recently we have been arguing so much. We're both going for/starting new jobs, buying a flat together and I have some medical issues going on as well. We have a holiday coming up which is now at the wrong time and I am so tired because I'm not sleeping.

It's got to the point we haven't made love in over a week and I can't see it happening anytime soon. I can't 'prepare' a romantic night in as we're living with his parents, so what can I do? I'm so hurt at the way we've been acting towards eachother and worried we're over. We're giving it one more shot.

I know the problem is me, because I'm finding it difficult to let go of the pain so we can both move on and start to like eachother once again. Any ideas?

2006-11-26 19:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls ever forgive and forget or do they always look for revenge?

2006-11-26 19:49:46 · 13 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife wrote on a piece of paper that she had this dream where her first love called and since she never picks up the phone i picked it up and gave her the phone. they started talking and he said he was waiting outside. they left with our son to go to a park and played. she mentioned that she felt good around him and that she could be herself. we've been through alot and gone through marriage counseling. im changing as a person and so is she. i just wanna know if dreams mean anything?

2006-11-26 19:47:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 19:45:45 · 9 answers · asked by basheer a 1 in Friends

I am a 38 year old married mom of 6. I love my husband and I have tried to talk to him about this. He is 12 years older then me and isn't interested in sex anymore but I am. There is this guy who has show intrest in me and he is 14 years younger then me, I am finding it very difficult to say no. I don't want to say no because that how I feel but because I am married and love my husband, I don't know what to do. I can't keep going on like I am dead can I? Any advice?

2006-11-26 19:44:06 · 24 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a really giving person. Even though my life is chaotic with running a business, raising a 5 month old. and just dealing with the daily stresses of life I continue to put myself in a hole by helping people. When I have no time at all to finish what I need to do with my family or business people ask me for favors which can be very time consuming, Sometimes more then four hours at a time. I don't expect anything in return for helping family out but I am starting to get annoyed by people that I help not at least acting appreciative. I know that none of my friends or families would spend hours at a time helping me with trivial things. Why can't I say no and just worry about my own issues and family? Why are people so unappreciative? For example: (fixing peoples computers, looking for flights, research cheapest prices on web, buying a crib in the classifieds etc....) There is a lot more then that involved but I won't get to much more into it.

2006-11-26 19:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1 in Family

a relationship built up so strong over a period of time. is distance really a factor? i live in california and i have a boyfriend that was sent all the way to missouri. opinions please.

2006-11-26 19:43:16 · 14 answers · asked by ambieandambuh 1 in Singles & Dating

many times and say many bad words to me,and even i caught him he still deny dat he cheats,i broke with him but he still begging,and crying for me to come back to him.he said he wil change becoz he really loves me.wat should i do,should i believe him?

2006-11-26 19:43:07 · 23 answers · asked by precious 1 in Singles & Dating

We'll get into a fight, and things get so heated up that I just get quiet and start to cry, the problem is my boyfriend then gets even angrier that I'm crying and makes fun of the way I cry (making crybaby sounds) and insults me...calling me a *****. He's ALWAYS cruel to me when i cry, what should I do? I don't know how to get him just to back off a bit, why does he seem to get angrier? and so mean?

2006-11-26 19:41:11 · 21 answers · asked by Bridget D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 19:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 19:39:17 · 16 answers · asked by faustina_gui 2 in Singles & Dating