Do you ever watch that show "sweet sixteen" where those gals get
every single thing they want!! Is this a good thing or bad..and why?
2006-11-26 19:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh I wish I could answer that politely but I can not find the words....
2006-11-26 20:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you I grew up being spoiled. I learned the hard way that you can't always get what you want in the real world. Once an adult, I had to learn to be an adult. I now have my own responsiblities and pay my own bills. Yes if I do really need something I get the help. But mostly it's all up to me. So I think it can be a good thing cuz it's something you can honestly learn from and take actions on dealing with things in life. But all our right some do end up being more then just spoiled. And they're not emotionally stable in life...and our some kind of trophy. I know I've seen it too. So hopefully this all makes sense....but like I said not all stay spoiled thro life...some do learn a valuable lesson that somes with it. Hope this helped too.....
2006-11-27 05:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoiled girls or boys. It doesn't matter. They don't grow up they just grow older. What usually happens to anything that is spoiled is that it rots into a mass of decaying putrefaction. Of course it's bad to get everything you think you want. Prolonged self satisfaction and satiety leads to moral decay and spiritual annihilation culminating in nervous breakdowns and/or suicide.
2006-11-26 20:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The never learn go out with the same loser guys and end up pregnant and alone. Unless they have inheritance then they remained spoiled and always get there way because their parents never took the time of day to discipline their child.
2006-11-26 19:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answerer is dichotomous. Spoil ed--pampered or soured the individuals these words to describe them are ambivalent; outer personality Vibrant inner personality hollowed.
2006-11-27 01:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by gerry h. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep-- I've seen it.
Now that I am 39, I can tell you that life either teaches them to be grateful (less likely) or they become more bitter that life did not gtive them EVERYTHING they wanted (more likely).
Many of these woman become trophy wives to very rich men and tend to lead pretty sad lives emotionally.
I acutally feel pretty sorry for them-- they' never learned to appreciate the small joys that are not bought and paid for in life.
2006-11-26 19:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely a bad thing. They usually have unreasonable expectations with everyone, friends, family, co-workers, with customer service people, in their relationships. It could lead to a very sad and frustrating existence.
2006-11-26 20:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very bad because when they grow up they will expect to be able to get what they want when they want thats not how the real world works you have to work to get what you want. So they will just grow up to be brats....
2006-11-27 09:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by neko_kagzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spoiled girls at a point when grow change but thatt depends somtimes they dont in that case they suffer n make others suffer toooooo!!!
2006-11-26 20:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by fan#1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad...bad...bad.. they'll never be satisfied with anything and ending up hating everything, anything and anyone that crosses with them!! I saw that show before and I thought - "I'll never do that to my children, no matter how rich we are"
2006-11-26 23:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Shasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋