Do girls ever forgive and forget or do they always look for revenge?
2006-11-26 19:49:46 · 13 answers · asked by Alkaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
little girls look for revenge but, real woman can forgive but we never forget, we just don't let it control our lives if it is something silly and unimportant.
2006-11-26 19:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by crazeebitch2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Most Girls Will Forgive But We Will Never Forget. And Not All Girls Look For Revenge. But It Really Depends On The Girl. I Myself Usually Forgives But I Never Forgets. I Hope This Helps To Answer Your Question.
2006-11-26 19:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Little_Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...depends on the situation, what happened, and the girl. Forgiving is easier than forgetting, as is for everyone. Like I said, it really just depends on the situation and what happened. It goes both ways though! The question should have been, "Do girls AND GUYS ever forgive and forget or do they always look for revenge?"
2006-11-26 20:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by mommymommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a different reaction for every girl... Basically, I think that few of us really look for revenge. Almost all the girl pals I have would forgive but never or rarely forget. They'd forgive cause they love their men but will not forget cause, they love themselves and if from what they remember, their boyfriends has done so much wrong and bad things while their together its their "saved" reasons why they broke up.
2006-11-26 20:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls/women actually forgive and forget. Just because a girl fantasizes about revenge doesn't mean she would follow through, so don't make that judgement mistake.
If you think that forgive/forget is deserved by you but not forthcoming, you might want to talk to the person who may or may not be out for revenge. Alternatively, you might want to have major plastic surgery, dye your hair, change your name, and move to another country.
2006-11-26 19:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kazweg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive and sometimes forget..depends on what happened. I don't do revenge either. Actually, once I have healed from the situation I really look for some sort of peace. I hate having enemies!
2006-11-26 19:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They forgive but hurt takes a long time to forget. The revenge is away for her to hurt you like you hurt her. Talking and LISTENING is the best to do. Let her tell you what it made her feel like. Do not interrupt her just listen and it will help. You cant fix a hurt it just has to heal.
2006-11-26 19:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the spiteful type, i mean you'd really have to do something really really bad for me to want to take revenge. And if we had broken up under bad circumstances I would tll you too your face about how I feel about the situation then I would hear your side, possibly yell scream and cry but I would hear you out and then I would forgive you, no point hanging onto something that is damaging to the soul.
2006-11-26 19:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy really didnt mean it, yes we do forgive and if it was a small thing we kind of would forget. However! If the guy was selfish and didnt care about what he did eg wouldnt make it up to her, I personally wouldnt forgive and would seek for revenge!!!! Muahahahah!!!!
2006-11-26 19:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Scarlett H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the serverity of the incident, and the maturation level of the girl. I think that with most people, male or female, a hurtful incident is never completely forgotten. However, looking for revenge is pretty juvenile.
2006-11-26 19:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋