I'm about to give up, I've been having suicidal thoughts a lot lately, why is it so hard for me to get a girlfriend?, why do I struggle?, I'm not fat, why do us guys have to make the first move & do all the talking?, I don't consider myself that ugly, a couple girls have told me that i'm not that bad looking but they are ugly girls who said that, & they aren't fat either, almost everyone loses their virginity before they are 18, having a girlfriend after age 18 isn't fun anymore, it's not cool like it was in high school, people start talking about getting married, my life sucks
2006-11-26 20:05:45 · 11 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry about it - your only a young man! Im sure your vry cute and make girls laugh with a good personality. Not all girls expect men to chat them up- girls can be good at this too you know-there will be someone out there for you. You wont be lucky enough to escape the clutches of a female- lol
2006-11-29 07:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think of your life in the long-term...if you live to be 100, you still have 82 amazing years left. Losing your virginity is so trivial in the grand scheme of anyone's life. Be thankful for your health, loving family, friends, shelter to live under, etc. Some people don't have any of those things. Once you start acting like an adult, maybe girls will see that you're bigger than all that other teenage stuff...and I'm sure you'll find a worthwhile relationship.
2006-11-26 20:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by WonderingWanderer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, go out more often...I'm 18, never kissed, and the most incredible, I live in BRAZIL!!!!
Fact: I used to play MMORPG instead go out ( Nerd ) And now I discovered that if I be cool and have a friend that likes me I can get a girlfriend...But it's hard most of times depending of what are u looking for...
But dont worry, as people here says "all locks has its keys" =)
Sooner or later u'll find someone as i found, u just need to look more.
2006-11-26 20:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sturm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but be happy that your still a virgin now as far as waiting until ur married by all means if thats what you want to do go right a ahead but not alot of guy will wait. If your worried about your looks buy some new clothes excercise do stuff that makes you happy dont worry about the attention that you dont get i was in the same spot that you are things will get better trust me
2016-03-28 21:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting married??? i think that you need to stop counting the days that have passed.sure, alot of guys loose there virginity by the time thay are 18 i did! but it doesn't matter ,,don't rush it,,it will eventually happen,but my opinion to you is that try to make it special for your first time, special person,special place ,cause mine sucked and i wish it was different,you wanting to give up or suicide is just crazy,by the way stop thinking whats cool and whats not,just do what you feel is right.
2006-11-26 20:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by R.A. 1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out and take a breather. life isnt all about the numbers of girls you can bed and date, so chill and take it easy.
plus all the marrier that your still a virgin,that just means when you do meet that luck lady you can give her something you didnt to anyone else.
and your still young, (a couple of years older than me) but you have plenty of time to go searching. so stop with the thoughts and try. you'll find a girl:)
2006-11-26 20:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up...its really over-rated...I know it may feel important because its something you have never experienced before..but seriously....there is someone out there who is perfect for you...how is your approach??? I dont think this is something you should consider taking your life over hunny. Give it some time, I know several guys who didnt loose their virginity until they were 20+ years old....Plus us women these days are hard to please....and its alot of competition out here.....dont give up..Im going to pray for you!!!
2006-11-26 20:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would not do well in my culture the way you beleive things should be. First of all, sex is for marriage, so wait!!!! Be one who chooses the higher ground.
Losing it before marriage is something that you should be ashamed of, not being ashamed of waiting!!! The world has things quite mixed up.
2006-11-26 20:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol chill... it's okay if you've never had a girlfriend...well if it makes you feel any better i've never even had a boyfriend before, and i've never even kissed.
and, the right one will come along when the time is right. it's the personality that counts and not looks.
2006-11-26 22:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by ceecee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax man...
It's ok to not have one,the world doesn't just end like that you know...
And besides,dying in singapore is expensive.
2006-11-26 20:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by chilling_1ce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋