many times and say many bad words to me,and even i caught him he still deny dat he cheats,i broke with him but he still begging,and crying for me to come back to him.he said he wil change becoz he really loves me.wat should i do,should i believe him?
2006-11-26 19:43:07 · 23 answers · asked by precious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't believe him when he tells you he loves you. If he really loved you he would never raise his hand to you. He is just trying to manipulate you and make you feel sorry for him. I have seen this many times before and if he's hit you now, believe me he will do it again. Don't allow this to happen to you again, EVER !! Let him beg and cry all he wants but do not give in to him. You deserve better than him, just keep telling yourself that and stay away from him. Honestly if he really loved you he would never hurt you like that.
2006-11-26 19:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He says he loves you but expects you to endure him cheating on you and hitting you? That's not love where I come from. He says he'll change? Well hopefully he does for the sake of the next girl. If you take him back he won't change. You take him back and it just makes him think he can do that crap to you and get away with it. He has to face the pain of losing someone forever before he'll really try to change. There's no way this should be anything but OVER. Let the loser cry a while.
2006-11-26 19:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tom G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never return to a man who used physical violence against you. This is a deep rooted behavior which will not go away without psycological intervention.
Ask yourself why you would even consider reopening this abusive relationship? Were you abused as a child? Did you see your Mother abused?
There is some pathology or you would be running NOT walking away from this relationship. Most abusive relationships are co-dependent.
2006-11-26 19:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Norton N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like hell. It happened to me, and he would be all nice for awhile then it would happen again and again. I only regret I wasted 8 years of my life with that man. I could of had 8 more years with the man I am married to now. I can't count on my fingers and toes how many he had. Ended up with AIDS and is dead now. I buried him in 92. Every time he would say it won't happen again. RUN
2006-11-26 19:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're into being beat on, you need to leave his *** right NOW. No guy in the world is worth getting beat up for. In fact, he probably deserves alot more than losing you, but I would never propose somebody go kick this guys *** into a bloody pulp on this site, it would be wrong. F this guy.
2006-11-26 19:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
H.E.L.L NO.... He will never change and things can only get worse if you stay with an abusive guy like this... I've been down that road and there where always the promises that he would never hit me again and never lie and never cheat and it was all B.U.L.L.S.H.I.T!!!! Please be smarter then I was and stay away from him before it's to late and you end up fearing for your own life... that's no way to end up living.....
2006-11-26 19:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you STUPID, he HIT you, he obviously does not love you!!!! If he did he wouldnt have hit you and so many times before that!!!! You really shouldnt be asking this question, he's not good for you and for anyone else (eventually other girls will leave him, because of his behaviour, only they will not be as stupid as you, and give him millions of chances!!!!) LEAVE him!!!!
He's only coming back to you because your the only one that accepts his disgusting behaviour!!!!
You are soooooooooooo selling your self short!!!!
2006-11-26 19:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you believe someone who has treated you so poorly? While you're wasting time with this loser - who might, one day, cause you permanent injury or even kill you - you could be overlooking someone who will treat you with respect, love and understanding.
If you value yourself, others will, too...and if you act like a doormat, be prepared to be stepped on.
2006-11-26 19:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is abusive, get as far away from him as you can. Run, don't walk away, and never look back. If he refuses to leave you alone, call the police and tell them that you want a peace bond on him.
2006-11-26 19:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a frickin loser, S T A Y A W A Y from him. It's obvious he doesnt love you, so why waste yer time?! Find someone who really cares for you.
2006-11-26 19:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki Valentine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋