I'm not gonna get to detailed here but, this guy I work with is very nice and he always smiles at me whenever he passes by. He's treated me to dinner a few times, but I'm confused. I would like to start a serious relationship with him, but I'm afraid to mention it to him because someone with his credentials would never take someone like me seriously.
2006-11-26 20:02:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must admit it was a fantasy of mine of being whisked away by a lawyer when I started working there...but now it's just feeling weird.
2006-11-26 20:23:07 · update #1
He never really asks about me, his work is always on his mind...
2006-11-26 20:24:37 · update #2
He just invited me to hawaii for christmas, even if I'm getting used, I'm using him right back now.
2006-11-30 16:10:24 · update #3
he wants something............sex toy
2006-11-26 20:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Behind all good business is the receptionist! He must be intrested in you to invited you to dinner a few times. But, if he works in the same building or for the same law firm dont even think about starting something serious with him. If it didnt work out its not worth the heart ache and never mind the job discomfort.
2006-11-27 04:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has taken you out to dinner then he probably doesnt care if you are a receptionist. There is nothing wrong with being a receptionist, it is good honest work. But if he is making you feel less than you actually are then maybe you need to keep your eyes open. If you instinctively feel like he is looking down on you, maybe there is something to that. You dont want to be with someone you dont feel equal to because that could cause problems later. Do some soul searching and see if he is making you feel this way, or if its your own insecurities.
2006-11-27 04:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true
He likes you, why else would he take you out.
If you ever want to see his legal briefs you have to make a move and show him your interested. I assume your putting up a wall because you automatically think he is not interested. Just call him to your desk and tell him you had a good time at dinner and want to know if you two can go someplace a bit more intimate next time.
By the way I've dated many a receptionist and my "credentials" are a mile long.
2006-11-27 04:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO GIRL!!!!! It's so sweet when a guy of that credentials falls for someone who's doesn't have the same education as he is or he is lower than him in terms of education.
I'd be flatterd if I were you.
I'm serious. you're so lucky, go for it! We're all human beings, we're all equal.
BTW, why would something like that bother you, that you're just a receptionist and he's a lawyer? Are you a Filipina? Are you from the Philippines? lol
2006-11-27 04:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have more confidence! Lack of confidence is a turn off which is probably why he hasn't mentioned it. You are important. You are have a good job and obviously you are pretty and nice. Walk in to work like you own the place give him a big confident smile and ask him out to dinner! Confidence and the element of surprise gets them every time. Good luck!
2006-11-27 04:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by mysticeyes792006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly is interested in you, credentials shouldnt matter! If he thinks you are beautiful, have a great personality, but b/c you are just simply a receptionist wont take you serious, he isnt worth it. He obviously has some type of interest, I would ask him what he is looking for. Express your interest in him. You might be surprised. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 04:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all just because he is a lawyer doesnt make him any better than you, and if he is a decent guy who deserves you then he will take you serious if you tell him the next time you go out to dinner with him that you are ready to take it to the next level. If he doesnt take you serious then he probably isnt worth your time, and isnt good enough for you.
2006-11-27 04:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by tinamarie3marietina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen woman over 5 years ago I went to a party and there was this beautiful blonde there I seen her and fell in love with her her friends told me later that she felt the same way about me. I own and operate my own trucking/construction company and she was working at a burger joint to provide for her children and put herself thru school the background thing is unimportant if you have feelings for eachother you need to act upon them by the way I have been married to her for over 4 years best 4+ years of my life thus far
2006-11-27 04:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by dvnhrld2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a lawyer.
He specializes in screwing people and forgetting about them.
If you are worried about your status, go to school and raise your own status.
You don't want to go out like the easy secretary.
Another prettier one always comes along.
And he ain't trying to take you on for anything more than a fling at best.
2006-11-27 05:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you would fit perfectly hes not to good for you dont lack self esteem and go for it the maqn should always be in a better paid job that way he will feel secure in his relationship
2006-11-27 04:33:25 · answer #11 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋