Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

my bf & I dated almost 3 years. I don't talk to him at all & he's done some things that he shouldn't have done, it involves with another girl but nothing really bad atleast that's what he's told me. Anyways it's been 7 months since we broke up. When he and our friends and i get together or whenever he sees me he says hi, but i totally ignore him, pretend like i didn't hear anything or see him at all. However, for the last few weeks we had our friends "get together thing" again he didn't show up or he would leave right away. Why d'ya think he did that? well i know one thing for sure is that he tries to avoid me but why when he doesn't love me anymore (that's what i think anyway)? when he's confessed to me about the things he's lied to me about, i clearedly have told him that when i see him i'd pretend he's not there at all. it still hurts me a lot cuz i know that i still love him but i try to fight my feelings. shouldn't it be easier for him to see me anyways & not get hurt?

2006-11-25 07:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy who is popular, super attractive, exciting, etc., etc. Or an average guy? If you knew that the first type of guy statistically is 90% of the time a cheater and the second type of guy statistically is only 20% a cheater which would you choose?

2006-11-25 07:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by questioningly 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 07:47:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

y would u go out with a boy or girl, what makes them feel specail like they r the one to be with?

2006-11-25 07:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend now for a year and about 2 and a half months. since we've been together, i've noticed other guys looking at me more, and when i didn't have a boyfriend not as many guys looked at me. ex: me and my bf went to a fast food restaurant, and we were taking it [the food] to go, and the food was taking a long time in coming out, so after awhile of waiting up there, my bf told me to just go and sit down in one of the booths. so i did, and these two guys walked in, and looked at me, and kept on, and started smiling at me. it really unnerved me. so i got up and went to where my bf was standing at the counter waiting for our food, and told him what had happened, and he said that he couldn't do anything unless they said something.i'm just wondering? any ideas as to why?

2006-11-25 07:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by K.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

Today, my girlfriend called me and asked me , tomorrow if I am free, can we go for an outing? Then I told her.... yea.

Now let me know where should we spend our time? i mean ...... give some place.

2006-11-25 07:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it weird if the guy never wants to kiss you....but rather just wants to play with the peach fuzz above your lip??????

2006-11-25 07:43:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and they looked at naked women on the internet is that cheating I just want to know because my best friends husband looks at naked women.

2006-11-25 07:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by Hot mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone else notice how men are becoming less manly and how women are becoming more manly.

This has nothing to do with gays or lesbians.

2006-11-25 07:43:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yahoo is an American company. I have never asked a vulgar or obscene question or used vulgar or obscene words but my questions have some times been provacative and honest and Yahoo has knocked me off twice, the last time when I asked why so many Americans who have no problem discussing that it is normal that boys like breasts and vaginas seem to have impossibility to discuss how many girls (like me) just love penises and ejaculate and how that is normal, too. Why these double standards? What ever happened to the sexual revolution and acceptance of girls and women [also] as sexual beings?

(Thank God I am not American and live where sexually active girls and women are not so looked down upon).

2006-11-25 07:40:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a friend that is getting married in a month...we don't really hang out as much anymore but I still consider her a friend. I am going to be in her wedding and I am paying for her honeymoon hotel room and all of that. Her birthday was about a month ago and I was unable to make it because I had to watch my Nephew. She is not responding to any of my messages. So do you think that she has a right to be mad over something so small that I couldn't help? Or am I just a s.h.i.t.t.y. friend?

2006-11-25 07:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Friends

Specifically ways via text msg would help a lot!

2006-11-25 07:38:24 · 10 answers · asked by I am actually a Hot Dog 1 in Singles & Dating

I know my friend for three years. we flirt with each other, talk about sensitive stuff, deepest secrets.but we know that we r not in love each other. we have nothing in common. the only problem is that when i date somebody he ends up forcing me to spend more time with him. when i break up with a boyfriend, he shows me no sympathy. n i kind of get jealous n irritated when he talks to me about other girls. but again we don't want a relationship with each other. i like him very much as a best friend...often times when i hurt him, i get stuffy feelings inside n i end up crying. we fight n then again become friends. this has been happening for years. do you think we are not really bestfriends, but something else?

2006-11-25 07:37:27 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 07:37:24 · 4 answers · asked by dave d 1 in Weddings

what are those black things that go on your feet and they make you jump really high like a kangaroo i think they are made from the same material as helecopter proplelers

2006-11-25 07:33:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

all that we have been doing is hugging everyday, we have been going out for 1 month, how do i convince her to go farther in the relationship and makout or do something different?

2006-11-25 07:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl. one of my friends introduced her to me. now she thinks we are friends but i dont like her. she alwayse hangs on my arm and some people even think shes a lesbian cuz she alwayse touches people's hands and stuff like that. but she recently told me that im her best friend. now i feel bad for being nice. she alwayse follows me and i want her to leave me alone!!! what should i do?

2006-11-25 07:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by sparky_grl_772 2 in Friends

She doesnt ask for much and wont give me any idea, she is an awesome girl and i want it to be special..... Any ideas please?

2006-11-25 07:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Roger Roger 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a guy in my college who used to turn pink everytime he looked at me. He also used to look at me a lot. I started looking at him too and actually developed a crush on him. I thought he liked me too. So I shared this with a friend of mine and in response to this I was told to go and tell this to him(say that "I have a crush on you"). I couldn't say it so I wrote it down on a piece of paper. When he read it, he said "It happens, it's ok". I expected him to leave after that happened---but no, he sat with me for an hour and a half and talked about his family, friends his grades etc.(basically irrelevant topics). But kept staring at me occassionally and turning pink again and smiling. I said "Stop looking at me!". He said "ok"(we both laughed at this) and again after a few minutes we were looking at each other again. Before leaving he said "Dont worry, dont fret, it's ok" as he saw me tearing the paper on which I wrote to him-"I have a crush on you"/
..what does all this mean?

2006-11-25 07:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 21 yr old female and i have had a few dates with this guy. i thought he was keen but ... well, he's been very quiet lately. BUT when he does text me it's "darling" this and "gorgeous" that. I'm so confused!

2006-11-25 07:30:06 · 20 answers · asked by I am actually a Hot Dog 1 in Singles & Dating

...without the guys getting turned on about going to bed with them?

2006-11-25 07:29:25 · 21 answers · asked by punkyboygirl_24 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm already 17 and there is this boy in my class he is cute but I know him for only 1 month and he tell me he likes me, I mean I dont realy know him that well and I also never had a boyfried before. Somebody please tell me what to do?

2006-11-25 07:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Singles & Dating

Not looking for jokes here. What actually defines who is and who isn't?

2006-11-25 07:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by Mere Exposure 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there is a boy that I like, and he knows that but I don't quite know how he feels about me yet...I wanted to get him a Christmas present, and I wasn't sure what kind of gift would be appropriate for this type of "relationship"...is there any ideas?

2006-11-25 07:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by miss-kawaii 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a very confused person right now. my ex has a huge whopping asian fetish and has all this asian porn as well. we dated for 1 and a half yrs (both in college) and he was sort of a jerk at first (bc he's a rich spoiled azzhole-- i LOVE guys like that) but i managed to change him during the 8th month. that's when he mentioned marriage but i wasn't ready. anyway..while we were on and off, and he swore that i was too demanding or something, he ended up leaving me in the end for a hispanic girl (he's hispanic)-- it's a known fact that he dislikes hispanic girls, esp since he claims they tend to be (not always, bc i think latinas are gorgeous) hairy and frizzy-haired and he has bodyhairphobia/ thing for straight hair. could it be possible that i drove him to be afraid of asian women or something? i did break up with him a few times and he was sad and all that.... but still. he even told his mom in highschool that he would end up with an asian woman. and his family's accepted it. hmmmm..

2006-11-25 07:25:19 · 6 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 07:23:34 · 28 answers · asked by HP User 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 07:23:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sisters boyfriend is 29. Lives with his parents. Seems to have no future and yet she stays with him. Note he is a jerk and no one in my family likes him. We pretend to and it is hard. I am 19 and I moved out and I cant see myself ever wanting to move back. My sister is 23 and is living with me but cant pay rent so am kicking her out knowing her boyfriends parents will let her stay there. What I am curious about it how can you be 29 and want to live with your parents. Let alone want your girlfriend to live with you too. I can see my sister is followin in his path. She is not even trying to stay living with me.

2006-11-25 07:22:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you had to choose between love and studying in the most beautiful country in the world New York City to make your dream comes true? I chose the second one but i am not sure yet! Please tell me your opinions. Thank you in advance.

2006-11-25 07:22:12 · 35 answers · asked by music princess 1 in Singles & Dating

Fighting

2006-11-25 07:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by TRAMAINE F 1 in Family