How come after you've been dating awhile,other guys suddenly start to notice you?

Question

i've been with my boyfriend now for a year and about 2 and a half months. since we've been together, i've noticed other guys looking at me more, and when i didn't have a boyfriend not as many guys looked at me. ex: me and my bf went to a fast food restaurant, and we were taking it [the food] to go, and the food was taking a long time in coming out, so after awhile of waiting up there, my bf told me to just go and sit down in one of the booths. so i did, and these two guys walked in, and looked at me, and kept on, and started smiling at me. it really unnerved me. so i got up and went to where my bf was standing at the counter waiting for our food, and told him what had happened, and he said that he couldn't do anything unless they said something.i'm just wondering? any ideas as to why?

i wasn't scared, it was just...the way they were doing it, considering then my bf and i went and sat down in the booth i had been sitting in, and those 2 guys came and sat down in the booth right across from us. but i don't have anything to worry about i know---since my bf's 6 ft and football player. it just really creeped me out they way they were smiling and looking at me.

Answer 1

People are Jealous creatures we want what other people have. Women are twice as bad about this. When I am looking, there is slim pickens and don't get noticed as much. When I am out on a date, women can't keep their eyes off of me. I catch them all the time!!! Who wants someone that no one else does??? We all want what other people have!!!

Answer 2

For starters!! Girl, that's a compliment! If you've got other guys looking at you, you should be proud, not scared! I mean.. unless they're creepy and try to hurt you. Guys always want what they can't have. When they see you with your boyfriend, they know that you would be a challenge to get... it just makes you that much more fun.. even if they don't plan on asking you out. Plus, you may not have noticed it, but I'm sure that your confidence is pretty high when you're with your boyfriend. Other guys notice your self-esteem. that's just how they are.

Answer 3

happens to me all the time. I´ve been with my boyfriend over a year now and sometimes w get mad so we break up. I don´t find anybody, we go back out and boom a whole bunch of guys are after (including his friends) in my case i feel good when im with my man. That means im happy and i look good (atleast my face with a smile u know) but when ur single ur either trying too hard or u dont feel good coz ppl arent looking at u.

Answer 4

Good question because I have wondered that as well....since I have been married, I get hit on all the time by all age groups. Don't get me wrong, but when I was single I got hit on all the time but it seems to be more now that I am married...do they not see the wedding band? Sometimes, I think that these men must assume because I am married that I am unhappily married.

Answer 5

A lot of people get a lot more self confidence after they're with someone for a while. You've probly been noticed like this all along but you just never put yourself out there like you do now.

Answer 6

You are being paranoid hon, If the guys are starting to look at you, it may be that you finally started noticing them. They are going to look, It's called eye contact and if you look back, they can assume you are interested. If you glance their way and then turn away, they should assume you are not interested. Maybe you are a gorgeous young woman. Ever think of that?

Answer 7

Single girls scare dudes cuz a lot of them are mean so they're afraid to ask them out, but if a guy sees a girl with a boyfriend then he knows she is willing to be in a relationship. I personally wouldn't mess with another dude's girl but if they broke up then I would go for it.