i'm a very confused person right now. my ex has a huge whopping asian fetish and has all this asian porn as well. we dated for 1 and a half yrs (both in college) and he was sort of a jerk at first (bc he's a rich spoiled azzhole-- i LOVE guys like that) but i managed to change him during the 8th month. that's when he mentioned marriage but i wasn't ready. anyway..while we were on and off, and he swore that i was too demanding or something, he ended up leaving me in the end for a hispanic girl (he's hispanic)-- it's a known fact that he dislikes hispanic girls, esp since he claims they tend to be (not always, bc i think latinas are gorgeous) hairy and frizzy-haired and he has bodyhairphobia/ thing for straight hair. could it be possible that i drove him to be afraid of asian women or something? i did break up with him a few times and he was sad and all that.... but still. he even told his mom in highschool that he would end up with an asian woman. and his family's accepted it. hmmmm..
2006-11-25 07:25:19 · 6 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where do I begin?
First of all, your boyfriend is a racialist. He views women through a racial prisim - he sees all Asian women as the same, and has a fetish for them. And he has contempt for Latina women, who he also sees as all the same.
News flash - we're all people, and every person is different. Not every Latina is the same, not every Asian woman is the same.
He's an ignorant bigot, and has a lot of growing up to do!
Second, you say he's a "rich spoiled azzhole" and you "LOVE guys like that".
You have some issues, dear, and you have a lot of growing up to do too!
People are people, and it's wrong to view them as stereotypes.
If this guy is scared off of all Asian women just because he had a bad experience with one particular woman who happend to be of Asian descent (that is, you) then he's a racist idiot and God help him! He's going to have a very sad life.
You need to develop better taste in men!
2006-11-25 07:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all.i love Asian girls.and the only one i went out with went all wrong n that never put me off.u cant put someone off a whole race of people as easily as that
2006-11-25 07:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think love goes beyond the physique, beyond the race.
2006-11-25 07:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Weaam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he looked beyond the physical and found something within that turned him on.
2006-11-25 07:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by erin c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you Asian...than you ...just might have!!
2006-11-25 07:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might....
2006-11-25 07:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋