Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

Ok, i will get right to the point: What should i get for a 9-10 year old boy for the holidays that he might not already have, but will still like? WHat should i get for a 50 year old woman who is really easy going and care free? what should i get an older man who is fun but uptight? what should i get my father and mother? they are both care free and wont care what the get but i want to make it special! and what should i get a 9 year old girl who is very materialistic? a 23 year old who is also materialistic? what should i get an 80 year old woman? what would i give an older woman who lives w/ her daughter who is silly and old fashioned? what could i get a 29 year old woman who loves to party and be free? and finally what could i get two 30-40 year old men and their wives? they have always gotten me the nicest things and i dont know what to get! please be serious! the person who gives the best awnser gets 10 points and if they anwser my next question gets the 10 points no matter what!

2006-11-25 07:21:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am an 18 year old girl in India.

I have had a bf for 3 years now. We are very much in love and were waiting for my education to get completed. However, my parents found out about him and have told me to break contact with him as he belongs to a different caste.

To make things more complicated, they fixed my marriage for December 30, with some other man in a different city, without consulting me. They told me I HAVE to marry him or else they'll throw me out of the house and disown me.

I do not want this to happen as I love my parents...but at the same time I also love my bf ... please help. I dont want to chose between my parents and my bf but my parents are conservative and mean every word they say. It's the family honour versus my love.

2006-11-25 07:20:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with a guy for four years now - we've been living together for 3. I don't have any friends left due to moving away from them - so i hope u guys can help me out with some truthful advice.
How do I know if he has fallen out of love with me??

2006-11-25 07:20:27 · 2 answers · asked by alea_hc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

On a school day, when is the best time that i should go and kiss my GF? we r not that experienced and we just started kissing.

2006-11-25 07:20:25 · 5 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

I just think love is weak and it disgusts me. I always want to be strong and tough, like a dictator. Someone does something nice for me, and I say something mean to them and I love it. I want to be alone the rest of my life with no one with me. I have never loved anyone, not even my parents. I gave up trying to get a girl, and I didn't even ask a girl out because I view myself as stupid and unattractive, but everyone tells me I'm attractive, so I don't want to embarass myself. If some girl asked me out, I would just say no. I view everything as a battle, and I think being in love as losing a battle. I just want to hit everybody I see making out or holding hands. I would feel like yelling at a girl if she asked me out. I would say never talk to me again, or something like that. I would try to make her feel bad and make her not be interested in me. What is my problem

2006-11-25 07:20:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, theres this guy at my school and he's been liking me for about 1 year now. I have started to develop feelings for him, and somehow he found out. Before he found out, there was more eye contact going between us. But the sad part is, we never had a conversation before, since both of us are shy. Well here comes the problem, after he found out about me liking him, he doesn't look at me anymore. It seems like he barely notices me and i feel like I'm drifting further and further away from him. I've heard that you should play hard to get, this will make you more desirable. Is it possible that since i told him i liked him, i was less desirable? And could it be possible that he still likes me?

2006-11-25 07:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Shortii. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 07:18:47 · 45 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

2 of my GF's freinds say that they like me and both of them told me that i couldn't tell my GF, and they ask me what i rate them 1-100 and if i like them more than a friend, i don't really but they r really good friends and i don't want to be mean so what do i say?

2006-11-25 07:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 07:17:54 · 43 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

ITS THE DAY BEFORE THANKSGIVING AND I WAS HOPIN THAT I COULD SPEND THE TIME WITH MY FAMILY. BUT MY AUNT CALLS ME AN DTELLS ME THAT UNFORTUNATELY MY PARENTS LEFT FOR ANOTHER STATE THAT IS NO WHERE NEAR WHERE I LIVE..SSO FAR I HAVE NOT SPOKEN TO THEM AND THERE IS NO WAY FOR THEM TO GET A HOLD OF ME ...WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?? SHOULD I FORGIVE THEM AND PRETEND NOTHING EVER HAPPENED??

2006-11-25 07:16:40 · 5 answers · asked by mizz scandaliz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 07:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by trexen 1 in Singles & Dating

Thats what we are planning but since we dont live there, I dont even know how to start. Does anyone know Hawaii places that we can go to that have information on that. I dont need websites, i need actually streets or numbers. Also, I would like to know of some fairly cheap but NICE hotels. Thanks guys!! :)

2006-11-25 07:14:53 · 4 answers · asked by JULIA 1 in Weddings

I have a best male friend and we r close and care for each other Now he has a gf Am I still important to him? I called him on a saturday for about 3 mins but when i tried to call again he put phone down on me and sent a text saying he wasnt alone and calling twice in a day would make his gf suss I am offended as I have helped this friend lots We r friends and cant friends call twice in day? Also i am 27 years older than him so I dont think she would panic lol

2006-11-25 07:14:35 · 20 answers · asked by maryjane 1 in Friends

l had a very good friendship with my friend until Tuesday. What happened is l was supposed to walk home with her after school, but l had forgotten that l had promised some girls to walk with them coz l had to give one of them her money back, so we had to pass through the shops and l forgot to tell my friend.


She got really angry with me and l told her l was gonna call her when l get home, but then she texted me and said she doesn't think she'll ever speak to me again coz of that. l told her l was sorry, but she couldn't listen and up to now she's not talkin to me. lt's making me feel bad (l'm really hurt & finding it hard to forget about it coz that has never happened to me before) and l don't want that to interfer with my exams since l got mocks next week.

2006-11-25 07:13:50 · 7 answers · asked by chicho 2 in Singles & Dating

Hubby's friend is having some folks over tonight for his (friend's) bday. Hubby hasn't had time to spend with his friends in awhile. We are both invited but I just don't have the same interests as his friends. Also if we both go, we have to be home by 11 to let the dog out; if I stay, he can go for as long as he wants, and I can go out with my friends later. So I'm deciding to go or not. I have a jealousy problem and only want to go so that he comes home early and so I know what he's up to. So I know I won't have fun if I go. So I'm thinking to just encourage him to go happily and let him have a good time and TRUST him. However another part of me thinks I should start giving his friends a chance. Part of me says its not necessary to join them all the time and it would be good for both of us to go do our own thing. I am 99% in favour of staying in and maybe hanging with my friends later on. I think only my jealousy and the thought that I may regret a chance to get to know his friends.

2006-11-25 07:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm living in a loveless and sexless marriage; it's been 2 years since I've had sex, since I won't break my vows.

I don't know if I'm losing interest in sex (sure don't seem to have many rock hard erections lately) because I'm aging and have a couple of health problems or it's just a defense mechanism while I'm stuck in this situation.

It worries me because I don't plan on sticking to this celebacy much longer, but I sure don't want to find myself unable to perform if I ever do get the chance again!

2006-11-25 07:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think about her all the time, but I hardly ever get to hang out with her : ( We dont have any classes together so I cant see her at school, not for very long atleast. I only really get to see her every other weekend, when she goes to her dads house. She is my best friends step sister...So she goes to his house every other weekend when she sees her dad. I spend the night. Other than that we hardly get to see each other. I dont think she likes having guys over when her mom is home so we dont really do that. Its going to be 7 months before i get my license so I cant take us anywhere. Is there somewhere we could go to be alone, away from everyone else? or atleast away from parents?

2006-11-25 07:12:34 · 2 answers · asked by Supafly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies what size of penis do you prefer?

Please mention specific sizes and not merely "long & thick" for example.

Also can a penis be too short or too skinny?

Is a 5 incher ok?

2006-11-25 07:10:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends seriously all we do is watch movies together, and every now and then we go eat dinner, or hang out at someones house. This has gotten very repetitive and boring so any suggestions and ideas. PS. I dont need any suggestions for dirty old men okay thanks :]

2006-11-25 07:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 07:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Adrian S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bad idea or not?

I'm seeing this chick who is 4 years older than me, it's going great. I have digged her forever and it finally clicked between us.

But do older women in general think that there is no real future with a younger guy?

2006-11-25 07:09:23 · 22 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Singles & Dating

i hear all this bunch of stuff about the bleeding and the hymen being broken. and i'm getting scared. how much is it supposed to hurt when u have sex for the first time? why does it BREAK? does it heal or something? i have no idea. some one tell me please!

2006-11-25 07:09:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having an affair with my soon to be ex husbands brother in law. But I don't know how to deal or go further with the situation b/c my brother in law and myself have kids that are related. What or how could we begin to explain this to our kids (their cousins) or do we????

2006-11-25 07:08:21 · 9 answers · asked by poundcake1111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im independent, confident, and have been called attractive. i like guys who are confident of themselves but not overly confident. however, a friend told me that guys dont go up to me because they think im taken.but i'm not taken, and have never been since i rather have a quality guy than quantity. i asked my male friends about this and they said that if they didnt know me, they would have thought i was taken too. when i asked them why they would think this, they replied "idk i just would think that" or "because of your looks". my question to you guys is how would i get rid of this "taken" vibe without being desperate and find a quality kind of guy?

2006-11-25 07:08:09 · 11 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me the middle of Sept. because things just weren't working out anymore.We have three beautiful children together and me and him were together for 3 yrs. Anyways he left and at times he was a real a** towards me and the kids.I still have alot of love for him so I would help him out money wise whenever he needed it which put me in the hole cause I really didn't have money to just throw around.Anyways just last week he lost everything;his truck,job,he can't pay his rent for his new apartment so now he wants to come back.I know in my heart he's using me because he clearly didn't want to come back before but with his situation changing he knows I'll take him back.He says he always wanted to come back but why is he only mentioning it when he's desperate???What should I do, should I take him back or not??What makes it easier to turn away the one you love??Is he using me or does he really want to come back home,did he realize during this past holiday what family really means??

2006-11-25 07:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my ex boyfriend are still friends but his new girlfriend is possessive over him and wont let him talk to me because she thinks I am trying to get back with him. But I still talk to him because I believe that I can talk to him if i want!!!

2006-11-25 07:07:04 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Friends

he's always staring at me and keeping me after class to compliment me. hes known to find his students on myspace, and read their comments and stuff. I dont know if I should get help or what...or if its as creepy as I think it is.

2006-11-25 07:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by _heartbreak 3 in Friends

birth date : 07-04-1981. time 5.30 Pm. day tuesday. in my kundli right now rahu mahadasha is going on. in my kundli in 1st house sani & gurr is there & 5th house ketu is there, 7th house sun, budh, mangal.,sukar is there , 9th house chandra is there, than 11th house rahu is there. so pleases help me & also give me solution to make my condition better.

2006-11-25 07:05:57 · 11 answers · asked by Tanuja J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, here's the scenario. I found out(a week ago) that my boyfriend of three years was unfaithful to me a year ago. i confronted him of course, and he gave me his lame excuse(partially my fault). he was soooo sorry and apologetic and has been on "good behavior" ever since. But whenever he goes to work, and im not around him, thats all i think about is what he did. he really broke my heart. its been a week and i still break down and cry when i think about it. should i talk to him AGAIN and tell him how i feel? isnt he going to get sick of hearing my sobby story? I want him to know that he broke my heart. what should i do?

2006-11-25 07:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by courtnestarr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

body language

2006-11-25 07:04:41 · 25 answers · asked by cloudslips 1 in Singles & Dating