I just think love is weak and it disgusts me. I always want to be strong and tough, like a dictator. Someone does something nice for me, and I say something mean to them and I love it. I want to be alone the rest of my life with no one with me. I have never loved anyone, not even my parents. I gave up trying to get a girl, and I didn't even ask a girl out because I view myself as stupid and unattractive, but everyone tells me I'm attractive, so I don't want to embarass myself. If some girl asked me out, I would just say no. I view everything as a battle, and I think being in love as losing a battle. I just want to hit everybody I see making out or holding hands. I would feel like yelling at a girl if she asked me out. I would say never talk to me again, or something like that. I would try to make her feel bad and make her not be interested in me. What is my problem
2006-11-25 07:20:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hating love is better than loving hate.
2006-11-25 07:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
INSECURITY in a word and it is nothing to be ashamed of. your
fear of looking or acting stupid is quite common, and the cure is to place your self in an area where you can study, how guys and girls inter relate, see what you would be comfortable, and what is NO WAY. If you keep your fence around you, you really will end up being alone and bitter and angry for the rest of you life.I would suggest that you find a councillor, or life skills coach to assist you. I also admire your honesty, and out there feelings. This is the first time ever I have come across such an honest and forth write question. Most people do not have the insight as to what there problems are. you are able to list them, and that is half of the battle,if you know or name it you can do some thing about it. I really encourage you to talk to some one, as you have a load of potential, all you need is a small hand up. I do not normally ask people to email me but if I can be of help in any way please email me rkilburn410@yahoo.ca
2006-11-25 15:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn! you DO hate love. This is bad but I'm curious. Maybe you should think about the future? what if you'll never get to live again after this life? You probly don't care? Love is an uncontrollable emotion, and you have blocked yourself from it. So tell me what would happen IF u DID fall in love and you LOST the battle? Who r you fighting against, and who says you lost? What, is the whole world going to disapprove of you? I find this anti-love thing pretty amusing, you could e-mail me, answering these questions?
2006-11-25 15:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u hate love so much then stop thinking abt it and avoid ppl who are in love. Also, never make anyone feel bad cuz same thing will happen 2 u.
2006-11-25 15:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are scares of getting hurtr you have been treated bad someone you truseted that's the same concept tohitler so don't hate everybody
2006-11-25 15:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by wizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋