I am having an affair with my soon to be ex husbands brother in law. But I don't know how to deal or go further with the situation b/c my brother in law and myself have kids that are related. What or how could we begin to explain this to our kids (their cousins) or do we????
2006-11-25 07:08:21 · 9 answers · asked by poundcake1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I assume your talking about his sister's husband? I hope so, if it was your husbands B-I-L then it could be read as your brother. Which is even more inexcusable.
Your situation is not healthy (in either case) and is not going anywhere besides in a trash bin or on J. Springer show. Ditch both of them and work on yourself for a time.
Become secure with yourself before you add a man in your life again.
2006-11-25 07:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this relationship all together how sick are the two of you maybe sick isn't the word I should use SELFISH is the better word. How are you going to tell them kids that they are not just cousins anymore that the are step-brother and sisters, do you know what kind of damage that can cause to a childs emotional statues? Then did the two of you even stop to think about what is going to happen when they go to school and have to explain this to other kids, did you take into consideration how they are going to be teased? I mean I know it isn't incest, but to other kids it is not going to go over well and they are going to be put into a position to try and explain what the whole deal is. I think that the two of you are just SELFISH and need to stop and look at the whole picture and not just your actions for not being able to be faithful to the ones you married. Then you want to not tell them that is a great idea so later on in life they can be more confused about the whole situation. Use your brains
2006-11-25 07:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! I would say it depends on the situation, how old are the kids, are you guys leaving your spouses due to your affair or are you leaving/left your spouses for issues other than the two of you having this long term affair. Bottom line is that kids ultimately want to see ther parents happy. Like I said it depends on the situation. Being open and honest would be the best thing.
2006-11-25 17:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by juicydiva21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cruising for a bruising. Good Luck. And after the truth comes out you better learn to duck
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2016-11-26 21:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before you started sleeping with your brother in law. You also should have waited until you were DIVORCED.
2006-11-25 07:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know you are wrong for screwing your husbands brother in law. That is sad and I feel sorry for your kids.
2006-11-25 07:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by krystal s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... since one way you could be having sex with your husband's brother-in-law is to have sex with your own brother, this sounds icky to me.
2006-11-25 07:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and open!!
2006-11-25 07:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋