Me and my ex boyfriend are still friends but his new girlfriend is possessive over him and wont let him talk to me because she thinks I am trying to get back with him. But I still talk to him because I believe that I can talk to him if i want!!!
2006-11-25 07:07:04 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-25 07:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be a bad person but you can now be an acquaintance to him but you need to respect his new girlfriend.... And put yourself in her place. Would you want your boyfriends ex girlfriend thinking that its OK if they stay buddy's.. Only in the sake of children should this happen. But inadditon to you must be friends with and respect the new girlfriend. Its only right...
Have you ever heard that saying
Do onto others that you would want done to you... Karma does come back to haunt. Don't forget that.
2006-11-25 07:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u r not a bad person I am going through the same thing but it my ex's cousin and I talk to him on the phone but the question is do u like him?? if no : then just stand up to his girl and say " just because he has a girl who is a friend doesnt mean I am going to steal him I dont like him like that."
2006-11-25 07:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by kazarnicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person. You only need to be more understanding of their relationship. If you know that his girlfriend is jealous, you should limit the communication between you and him. You wouldn't want his girlfriend to beat you up one day, right? Or maybe he might break up with his girlfriend between of you right? You should respect the boy in this way if he has a girlfriend already.
2006-11-25 08:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't make you a bad person, but you do have to respect the fact that you are an ex, and this new girl is threatened by you. Sorry to say, but why should she trust you? She doesn't know if your intentions are genuine. Plus if your ex is not putting her in check about who he can or cannot have as friends, then you see where this is going right?????
2006-11-25 07:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the woman that I am I would still talk to him but to a limit because I would think about if it was me in her shoes. I am not insecure like that but if she is with him I would at least try to give her a little respect.
2006-11-25 07:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and that would make you a bad person why/how? just because you still want to talk to him doesn't mean anything, it means that you want to stay friends with him, his gf is probably just worried that you two might hook up again, she most likely just feel threatened. i say you keep talking to him because you're not doing anything wrong, and as long as you don't do anything that might make his gf feel threatened by you, then no worries. you're definitey NOT a bad person.
2006-11-25 07:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by blowthebrass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a bad person if you two are still friends and you are sure you dont want to get back with him. his new girlfriend has to realize that he had a life before her.
2006-11-25 07:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are bad...but maybe can you try to talk to him around her or something so she can see for herself that nothing is still going on?
2006-11-25 07:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the fact you care if you are means you're not! The new gf is just insecure. She'll get over it or he'll get over her. Good Luck
2006-11-25 07:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by ReginaY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a bad person !! but this doesn't mean that your friend girlfriend is wrong!! meke a relationship with someone else and
understand that you are just friends with her boyfriend
2006-11-25 07:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋