my bf & I dated almost 3 years. I don't talk to him at all & he's done some things that he shouldn't have done, it involves with another girl but nothing really bad atleast that's what he's told me. Anyways it's been 7 months since we broke up. When he and our friends and i get together or whenever he sees me he says hi, but i totally ignore him, pretend like i didn't hear anything or see him at all. However, for the last few weeks we had our friends "get together thing" again he didn't show up or he would leave right away. Why d'ya think he did that? well i know one thing for sure is that he tries to avoid me but why when he doesn't love me anymore (that's what i think anyway)? when he's confessed to me about the things he's lied to me about, i clearedly have told him that when i see him i'd pretend he's not there at all. it still hurts me a lot cuz i know that i still love him but i try to fight my feelings. shouldn't it be easier for him to see me anyways & not get hurt?
2006-11-25 07:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you both need to grow up a bit...he made the step by telling you what he did....and maybe when he see's you at get togethers he might just feel like it hurts you to be around him still, or maybe a bit of guilt......look it's been 7 months....be a bigger person, when he says hello or hi, be nice and say hi back.....It's obvious you have clearly let him know how you feel.....stop rubbing salt in the wound.........grow up.........move on..........
2006-11-25 07:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, babygirl, babygirl, babygirl. This is a sad game that women play. You act like you don't want him and, when he doesn't come around anymore, you're like "dam, I really love him, please come back" Now, GameGiver is not saying that you should get back with him. All I'm saying is if you want him, then you need to see if you can start over. Don't spite yourself by supposedly proving a point and then you end up disappointed because you acted like you didn't care and he finally moved on. Now, again, that might be for the best because I don't know him and I don't know you but, all I'm saying is that you should never play yourself.
2006-11-25 15:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by GameGiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still has feelings for you and has realised he made a mistake with the other girl. You two need to talk and get things sorted out. Ignoreing each sounds a bit childish.Sort of thing i'd do.
2006-11-25 15:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by EnJayPunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie The Break Up and you'll see what you are doing wrong. You should not have ignored him when he spoke to you. You're only hurting yourself. Next time you see him apologize for ignoring him. Thats just plain cold.
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2006-11-25 15:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Roll'n Bluntz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it is hard to tell what's in a gus mind. But i would think that he is hurt by your attitud towards him. Not that is a bad attitud, in fact, is good for you. This way U let him know that he should have had more respect for you.
2006-11-25 15:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋