There's this girl. one of my friends introduced her to me. now she thinks we are friends but i dont like her. she alwayse hangs on my arm and some people even think shes a lesbian cuz she alwayse touches people's hands and stuff like that. but she recently told me that im her best friend. now i feel bad for being nice. she alwayse follows me and i want her to leave me alone!!! what should i do?
2006-11-25 07:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by sparky_grl_772 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont want to be mean cuz she thinks we are best friends and she said she has never met a nicer person that me.
2006-11-25 07:37:24 · update #1
Well first try to be her friend. If you just want to get away from the girl then whenever she comes towards you got to some other of your Friends, pretend you don't see her. Find an excuse to get away from her without telling her. That's what I do when I'm in situations like this.
2006-11-25 18:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce her to some people you know that share some common interests as her. Then invite them over when you hang out with her, she may become friends with them. If she is still bothering you, just try to put some space in your friendship.
2006-11-25 15:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is partly your fault for not stopping it at the beginning. when these things happen you have to end them quickly, now she is used to hanging on your arm, so when you tell her to "get lost" she will take it personally and be hurt.
you're going to have to be honest but to do it in a tactful way and try not to hurt her feelings.
someone once told me that confrontation is a necessary part of life.
2006-11-25 15:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you mean and mean what you say, but don't say it mean.
Tell her that you uncomfortable when she touches you and hangs on you. Tell her you are feeling smothered and that you need time to spend by yourself and with your other friends. Tell her that you do not feel the same way about her as she does about you.
2006-11-25 15:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know how it feels i used to had that girl and everyone thought that we are a leisbo because she always held my hand .. EEEEEW I HATE HER she embarrassed me .. u should tell her stop holdin my hands and stop doing this tell her in the face that U HATE IT she will be upset but dont worry after days tell her that shes a good friend but u hate the way she act its easy believe me
2006-11-25 15:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Tell her just like you ask this question. Like what's she going do, beat you up? If it hurts her feelings she'll live and get over it.
2006-11-25 15:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Les Gramps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and say,umm I have someone I want to interduce to you and find a boy you know and say I got to go now.
2006-11-25 15:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kinda in the same situation and don't know how to handle it either. let me no how it works out. sorry i couldn't help
2006-11-25 15:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by snorfgoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a nice way, that you already have your own friends.
2006-11-25 16:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋