...without the guys getting turned on about going to bed with them?
2006-11-25 07:29:25 · 21 answers · asked by punkyboygirl_24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...well last week my girlfriends long term male friend came round for dinner and we went out for a few drinks afterwards. Whilst we were in the bar my girlfriend went to the toilet and he told me he "wanted" both of us! I went ape **** and we haven't spoke to him since...shame that everything comes down to sex. There seems to be no respect for two people just loving each other, why do people have to be so disrespectful?
2006-11-25 07:57:41 · update #1
i'm a straight girl and i have gay guys as mates and they're great ...
however if they started fancyiny my boyfriend and wanted to have sex with both of us i would be kinda freaked out to be honest ... i personally believe a relationship between two people shouldn't be invaded and that if you love your partner then they are the only one you're going to want to have a sexual relationship with ...
2006-11-25 08:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutly.
I am a straight guy and actually have a friend who is a lesbian.
I dont get turned on about the thought of sleeping with her.
Though to be honest even if she was straight she isnt really my "type" so that is probably a major factor.
Though I have been friends with some very attractive girls and though I have been turned on about the thought of sleeping with them I havnt acted on it because of the friendship and also because they already had boy friends.
So yes it is possible and perhaps it is slightly more difficult if you are very hot but I am sure even then it is possible.
2006-11-25 08:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many straight male friends... but you are right.. the majority of them have at one point or another asked whether I would be available for some hetro fun!!! I love guys... they are great fun and I feel completely at ease with them. I know they love me but they know I am the untouchable. I sometimes wonder whether that is the allure of the friendship for them... the sexy lesbian they can only fantasise about... I am cool with that too!
2006-11-25 09:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always a way to have straight male friends. The problem is that most men nowadays think ooo lesbians etc.
2006-11-25 08:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, I have two very good friends that are both commited lesbians. They are more open and easier to get on with than many of my straight friends who always think I'm trying to get into bed with them when I'm not.
2006-11-25 07:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by tucksie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello babe.
Im a lesbian myself and trust me thats men for you!!!! Ive met a few of them in my past and still do.
However it IS poss to have str8 male friends that dont wana get you and your girl inbed. One of my very best mates is a man and he has NEVER made a suggestion like that and never would. Hes always there for me and my partner and always will be. I have a few other str8 male friends and they do crack jokes about me and my girl @ times but i let them as they ARE only joking.
2006-11-25 08:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian and I have some straight male friends. As to whether they get turned on, I have no idea, but none of them have been in my bed. I'm a lesbian you see.
2006-11-25 07:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Trish D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can choose friends that are ok with the lesbian thing and avoid the immature ones that get turned on by it.
there are nice guys out there that respect women regardless of their sexuality. your part in attracting them is having the same mindset, that you respect men regardless of what they do in the bedroom.
2006-11-25 07:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by maggiemae821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lesbian friends...and i have no urge what so ever to see them getting it on. Anyone with a kind heart and simliar intrests can be friends....sex has nothing to do with it.
but, honestly...most men think about being with two women everytime there are two women in the room.
2006-11-25 07:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will always wanna fuk a girl, friend or not. Just be friends and friends are more likely to be asked to join in, so if asked to join then join in for a fuk !!!
2006-11-25 07:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by C-Dawg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋