Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I'm a 37 yr. old man..I'm turning into Victor Meldrew and it's the longest I've gone without a girlfriend so what are the symptoms?

2006-11-23 09:01:13 · 20 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

why can't people except the fact that in high school romance is sometimes unecessary and it feels good to be with different people sometimes.
besides sometimes the one your with can't make you smile like they used to not like people you've just met, so why not just date and commit to those you want to only?

2006-11-23 08:59:19 · 9 answers · asked by Midnight-Kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out my boyfriend had cheated because he told me. He said that he felt bad and that he couldn't look at me without feeling quilty. How have you found out if he was cheating and did you take him back? If you took him back, how did you learn to forgive him?

2006-11-23 08:57:04 · 20 answers · asked by Moore's Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 year old and a few of my friends have had sex.i didnt belive them at first and i know some of them were lieing but some of them really had done it.im not one of those people who want 2 wait till marrige.and loads of lads at school ask girls to give them a ******* and stuff.so there obviously at the stage when they want 2 have sex.im so confused bcos i dont want 2 do it now at 13 because im too scared but how old should i wait!!!!!?? help mee pleasee xox

2006-11-23 08:57:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Neon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now we are back together and in a good place. The issue I have is re: need. I used to tell my boyfriend that I need him---which made him uncomfortable. But now that my boyfriend is back--he says he needs me, can't be without me and I help him feel complete. This worries me because through the breakup I learned great strength and realized that we don't really 'need' anyone and that we are whole/complete unto ourselves. I'm not sure what to do now---as I love him but I don't want this to be an unhealthy relationship.
Some believe it is good and healthy to need your partner in a healthy relationship---others believe you should never need someone else cause that is dependency.
Any advice /suggestions? Is it okay to need in a healthy way? What do you think?
Thanks.

2006-11-23 08:56:01 · 8 answers · asked by C 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so @ a staff party on saturday i met the best guy ever. We shared a few dances, had some drinks and then hung out/talked a little bit. On monday i found out that he goes to my school! I saw him on tuesday too and he said hi to me. I REALLY want to get to know him better by actually talking to him during class but i wouldnt know what to say!!!

what could i say to him? while i flirt ahah like "hey great to meet you on saturday" see this is why i need help!!

2006-11-23 08:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by jamie b 1 in Singles & Dating

what can a guy do if he is still deeply in love with his ex long distance gf and now he finds out she is now doing sex chat online for money cos i cant support her, is that a good thing ie using her resources or not???

2006-11-23 08:55:02 · 11 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:54:51 · 43 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my rents wont let me date and i like a guy and he likes me. Should i go behind there backs or what?

2006-11-23 08:54:45 · 3 answers · asked by my mom ND dad 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bad habit of pushing people away, and I hate it, but I can't seem to help it. I like this guy, and he likes me, but I'm afraid I'll push him away, and I really really don't want to. What to do?

2006-11-23 08:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by x3lockandloadx3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:52:32 · 18 answers · asked by joeriv 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:51:07 · 7 answers · asked by rosemist 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a Mexican guy for about a month. We quickly became close, talking and seeing each other all the time. He has all the qualities I'm looking for. But then he announced that he felt immature and inferior compared to me; I have a degree, a teaching career, a house. He feels he has nothing to offer--and won't listen when I tell him it doesn't matter, we want the same things in life, and that I care deeply about him, my life's not that perfect either, etc. I can't seem to just get over him, even though it was only a month. What should/can I do?

2006-11-23 08:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by gNat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so @ a staff party on saturday i met the best guy ever. We shared a few dances, had some drinks and then hung out/talked a little bit. On monday i found out that he goes to my school! I saw him on tuesday too and he said hi to me. I REALLY want to get to know him better by actually talking to him during class but i wouldnt know what to say!!!

what could i say to him? while i flirt ahah like "hey great to meet you on saturday" see this is why i need help!!

2006-11-23 08:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by jamie b 1 in Singles & Dating

How fast should i take our relationship, weve been going out a week and have already made out and feel eachother. She leaves in January, and isnt a virgin, how fast should i take our physical relationship? What should we do?

2006-11-23 08:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is you ideal body type dating wise?

2006-11-23 08:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by ||BOOTyMEAT|| 2 in Singles & Dating

should I have an afair. and if so how do I go about it I am in my fiftys and have been married for 20 years I need sex and love but am not getting either.

How do I go about getting an e-mail afair with some one.

2006-11-23 08:48:36 · 20 answers · asked by paul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They won't even call here if they think I will answer the phone. I am never invited to their homes or when their dad takes them out to eat.

2006-11-23 08:48:35 · 10 answers · asked by debbie2243 7 in Family

My friend has been dating this guy for 3mths... before this he was seeing another girl for quiet sometime, she then finished with him. So him and my friend kinda got together and in time offically became an item BUT we have just found out that 1 nte he slept with his ex, it now appears that his ex wants bk and that he has been leading her on incase things dont work out with him and my friend, my friend has finished with him but is thinking of taking him bk. We have now found out that he was up her house a wk after him and my friend split and they slept together and was kinda telling his ex he would like to get bk but the day after put a love letter on my friends car telling her he wants her bk, he has also told my friend he doesnt love him ex and it was just sex bt I no thats nt true and its all just lies and my friend has spken to his ex and she has basically told her everything he has told her and nw his ex has told him to piss off and doesnt want anything else 2 do with him... so

2006-11-23 08:47:58 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating

were going bowling and we both like each other.

2006-11-23 08:47:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 08:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 in Singles & Dating

does, but if the other found out, that person might leave the other. But it is the type of secret that could harm the one that doesn't know.

2006-11-23 08:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by Boricua Born 5 in Friends

a man who cheats and leaves his wife after 24 yrs sayin he hasnt been happy for the last 8 which is a huge surprise for the wife who tried in vain to always keep the lines of communication open.........now he lives with his 21 yr old girlfriend and sees the kids on the weekends when he can........he makes the kids a part of his life even though he is commiting adultery as we are still married..........he feels no guilt or remorse no shame........ive heard people say he is going thru a mid life crisis.......thats nothing but an excuse.........its been 8 months and it is getting easier heartwise but i have alot of questions as to why....why did you find it nessacary to hurt me to this degree.......since this time he has barely said 2 words to me and when he does its usually very cold..........has anyone any advice or opinion on what i have written here....

2006-11-23 08:44:30 · 13 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i have meet ma soulmate..me and my boyfriend have been togetha for four months but since then i feel like we have known each other for years ..he knows when im upset wit him ..and when im wit him we connect like we are the best of friends..when we kiss sometimes i can feel him shake a bit..and when we dont talk for days i miss him like crazy sometimes i cant even sleep without hearing from him..obviously we have ups and downs but we manage to get over them quickly ..wat do u guys think

2006-11-23 08:44:29 · 11 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

liv in casper if u do put yes if u dont jst put no.

2006-11-23 08:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by LIL B 3 in Friends

why do guyzz tend to love a girl at first but as time passes, you tend to not love the girl as much as before?

2006-11-23 08:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Ana 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do? my best friend lauren i've known since 2nd grade. we were the best of friends. well we decided to be nice to a girl with no friends. named chandler. lauren talks bad about chandler behind her back. well any way. well lauren doesn't want to be my friend. she thinks chandlers the best. well whenever one kid isn't there the other comes to me. and they fight and talk bad about each other to me. but when thay are friends they just roll their eyes at me. I know a word for that. RUDE! anyway what should i do

2006-11-23 08:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Friends