should I have an afair. and if so how do I go about it I am in my fiftys and have been married for 20 years I need sex and love but am not getting either.
How do I go about getting an e-mail afair with some one.
2006-11-23 08:48:36 · 20 answers · asked by paul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a mistress everyone needs loving looking for an e-mail affair type in lokking for love someone will reply.
2006-11-23 13:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont have an afair cuz if ur wife finds out then she cant sue u for adultry. So its not a good idea. Just earn money and get a divorce or seperate if u cant divorce.
2006-11-23 10:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just do what is right in your heart, talk to your wife, tell her how you feel. I mean seriously, can you live with yourself in having an affair. I mean it is kinda sad that you are willing to stoop to this level. Divorce is not that expensive if you both can agree on what you want. go to a paralegal and see what they can offer. I also know that in most states the courts have a fee waiver for filing the divorce, so you won't have to pay the filing fees. Do the right thing and do not drag someone else that is innocent into your drama. Get a divorce
2006-11-23 08:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An email affair will give you a temporary confidence boost, it won't resolve the issue at hand, which is that you're in a relationship with a woman that doesn't love you. The relationship needs to come to an end...you don't have to pay for a divorce, why not just sell up and go your separate ways!? Divorce is free to those on low incomes.
2006-11-23 08:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You surely make those who are in their 50's appear as if they cannot enter into another relationship. Why did you ever marry someone who doesn't love you anyway and why have you allowed yourself to be humiliated in such a demeaning way? I think, though you seem eager to have sex, your dick takes longer than normal to be erect and it might be due to this frustration that your wife saw it fit to stop having it with you. I can imagine how she has put up with this for such a long time because it seems you are the problem and not your wife, no wonder you have allowed her to be promiscuous for the past 20 years because no sane man would put up with this kind of relationship.
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2006-11-23 09:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's sad but my only advice to you is you shouldn't cheat on her no matter what. You never know she might love you very much. It's obviously been 20 years of marriage try and talk to her ask why is everything going so down hill. Maybe you'll get answers you never thought you would. And if you love her just as much as you did when you proposed then try with everything you have and make it work. A marriage of 20 years just can't end over something like this.
2006-11-23 08:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by sneakie1001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she doesn't love you? Did she actually say that when she was NOT angry? There are lots of reasons you two have ran your marriage into a ditch. If you still love her, (you didn't say you didn't) then please go to this site I'm going to link below and read everything, start talking honestly with your wife, (I get the feeling from your post that you are a conflict avoider) and make an appointment with the Marriage Coach at the site.
2006-11-23 09:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Myrmaad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do the dirt on her at least respect the 20 yrs that you have had together, why not try a trial separation rather than having an affair, once you have the affair there is no way back and you are more likely to regret it.
2006-11-23 08:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some outside interests and I don't mean playing around with other women.
Keep yourself busy and you will be able to feel more settled. Live a good life and hope that your wife walks out and then she pays for the divorce.. If you have lived up to all the expectations of a husband then she cannot claim anything from you if she is walkng....
2006-11-23 08:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An email affair doesn't solve your problem. You need to talk to a marriage guidance counsellor. I think you deserve a divorce. Have you tried talking to your wife to find out why she's not showing you affection? Better to end a loveless marriage before you get too old and you won't have a second chance of love.
2006-11-23 08:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can afford a divorce. You believe you can't afford the outcome of a divorce and you are choosing not to get one.
It's not fair to your wife for you to drag this out. Just end it and move on. An affair is never the answer.
2006-11-23 09:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anon Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋