My friend has been dating this guy for 3mths... before this he was seeing another girl for quiet sometime, she then finished with him. So him and my friend kinda got together and in time offically became an item BUT we have just found out that 1 nte he slept with his ex, it now appears that his ex wants bk and that he has been leading her on incase things dont work out with him and my friend, my friend has finished with him but is thinking of taking him bk. We have now found out that he was up her house a wk after him and my friend split and they slept together and was kinda telling his ex he would like to get bk but the day after put a love letter on my friends car telling her he wants her bk, he has also told my friend he doesnt love him ex and it was just sex bt I no thats nt true and its all just lies and my friend has spken to his ex and she has basically told her everything he has told her and nw his ex has told him to piss off and doesnt want anything else 2 do with him... so
2006-11-23 08:47:58 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has been txting and calling my friend constantly telling her he loves her and wants her bk...bla, bla, bla!!!! he is no good for her and now she is thinking of getting bk with him, he has a terrible history for cheating and i wanna split them up coz she cant poss. get bk with him... what should i do??? I was thinking of making up that he was with someone else, what u think??? Im trying to be a good friend here coz I no him and he is a CHEATER!!!!!
2006-11-23 08:49:51 · update #1
she has been through hell and back and he knows this and he has still treated her this way... i cant stand there and c he streated like an idiot, i need to split them up coz she has already been so hurt and he WILL hurt her again, any ideas how i can do it x
2006-11-23 09:34:04 · update #2
well gurl u should encourage her not to go back with him cuz he aint good for her tell her to find someone else
2006-11-23 08:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell youf friend that she shouldn't trust it until she feels it in her heart that he is being truthful or is ready to be in a real relationship. If he is using the just sex, don't fall for that either.It should be just nothing. He is using his penis as a excuse and he probably do still care about her.Guys use that excuse. I know someone who did that. He kept telling his new girl that his ex was just for sex and that is why he couldn't leave her alone but when the two females talked they figured it was a lie and he cared for both. Now guess what? He is with that ex and left the new girl!!It is just him and his ex were having problems at the time and he was trying to confide in someone else but he knew it was more than sex-it was love. Guess what? I'm the ex.
2006-11-23 16:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blimey...........take a deep breathe hun.........
Sounds like this guy was on rebound and very uncertain of what or who he really wanted. Many people strive for attention from the opposite sex, and will do allsorts to get it so they feel better about themselves, due to insecurities. They often do not stop to think of others feelings, as long as they feel "wanted". Anyway, my honest opinion hun......this guy wants his cake and eat it!. It's a case of "if she doesn't want me, i'll try the other one" syndrome. He needs to be told to have time by himself and stop playing with peoples emotions. His ex has the right idea, maybe your friend should do the same.
Blessings
Soli
2006-11-23 16:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should quit while she is ahead. He has no business of sleeping with another lady while he is seeing your friend.
Mr Two Timer didn't know what he wanted? Of course he did! He wanted ex and was using your friend to make ex jealous.
This is just a ploy to try and get ex back. Tell your friend not to respond at all. All this "Come back I love you" is just drivel. If he loved her he wouldn't have put himself in the situation of sleeping with ex.
2006-11-23 18:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna be a good friend the only thing you can do is be there for her when things go wrong instead of trying to make things worse as you could end up losing a friendship over a bloke that isn't worth it so just let her get on with it.
2006-11-23 16:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is like a greedy kid who wants to get all the sweets even if he makes the other kids cry. But don't invent anything cos your friend will probably find out and blame you for losing the man of her dreams!
2006-11-23 17:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by judipod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r poking ur nose in ur friend's lovelife? The 3 crazy ones are all grownups, let them sort it out themselves.
2006-11-23 16:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A would stay well clear of him he doesnt know what he wants or care who he hurts there better off without him.
2006-11-23 16:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your right once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-23 16:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try discussing it with other friends on the playground on your lunch break tomorrow.
2006-11-23 16:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by loz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋