how old should i be when i loose my verginity??

Question

im 13 year old and a few of my friends have had sex.i didnt belive them at first and i know some of them were lieing but some of them really had done it.im not one of those people who want 2 wait till marrige.and loads of lads at school ask girls to give them a ******* and stuff.so there obviously at the stage when they want 2 have sex.im so confused bcos i dont want 2 do it now at 13 because im too scared but how old should i wait!!!!!?? help mee pleasee xox

Answer 1

I think you should wait until marriage, but since you don't believe that way, I'd say wait until you are 18..and if you're still immature then, wait longer

edit: I just checked your other questions, and I see you are also a 16 year old pregnant girl? TROLL.

Answer 2

Wow. Most people understand your urges. Don't give into them. You are the best judge of your actions. In my opinion, I would wait until you're out of high school. Sex isn't everything. At your age, the guys who want to have sex with you are not going to be the love of your life no matter how much they tell you they will be. They just want to do it for a while and move on to another girl. they will keep on doing this and will probably never end up satisfied.Don't risk getting pregnant and having the heartbreak of a lifetime because you can't wait. Be smart about this, think it through. Please don't let your friends pressure you into this. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, It is one of the most respectable qualities a person has. Once they lose their virginity, especially at a young age, they usually become different person for the worst. I hope this helps and I hope you will think it through.

Answer 3

First of all, don't give in to peer pressure. Many of your friends have screwed up and they just want you to be miserable with them. I bet you some of your friends wished they had waited. Also, don't believe what the guys at school are saying to you just to get in your pants, they'll say "I love you", "You'll do this if you love me", etc. If sex is THAT important to them, then the rest of you isn't.

Now, on to the age question... I'd say somewhere between 18 and 21 is a good age (if you absolutely can't wait, then at the veeeery least 16). If and when you do it though, make sure the guy uses protection and I'd follow that up with a pill. He better be worth it though, I had a couple of pregnant girls in my senior class, and believe me, they weren't very happy about their situation.

I personally waited till I was 22, but that was because I thought I was going to wait until marriage, and then I eventually changed my mind, and I can't really say that it was the best decision. Sex is overrated. By the way, here's a tidbit from Kama Sutra, don't remember the exact words, but they say that sex just for the sake of sex versus sex with someone you really love is like eating a snack versus having a feast. The bottom line is, sex is fun, but it's not that great until you find that special someone that you really truly connect with. I'm still looking myself, and I don't have sex that much, and it's OK. I'd rather masturbate than get a girl I don't care about pregnant.

Answer 4

OH MY GOD! Don't do it because your friends are doing it for the sake of losing your virginity. It's special to be a virgin and your friends will regret losing it when they have to face the challenge with another girl who is a virgin. ALL MEN I mean ALL MEN would love to settle down with a virgin if they can find one. But the ones who are just into sex will try to take that away from you. If you feel the pressure from your friends that you're the only virgin that's because they are jealous and so don't give in to that. And if you must lie to them that you lost it already so they don't bother you. But NEVER EVER LOSE IT for the wrong reason. And 13 is way too young anyway. Wait at least 21 and over and only if you found someone absolutely special and he'll respect you and find you very special because you're a virgin. Trust me and promise me! Ok?

Answer 5

Wait until you are comfortable and you are doing it for yourself. It isn't anything spectacular about it. Of course, it feels good with the right one but wait until you have found that right one and you are doing it for you and love not peer pressure. Believe me, The most precious things are given to those who WAIT.Besides, when you get older, you won't feel good about saying how young you were when you first had sex and if you have it too young, when you don't know alot you will end up with more sexual partners-something else you don't want under your belt. You will feel when the time is right.Be a leader-not a follower.Your virginity is the best thing you can give to a guy, wait until you find one that is worth giving it to.One that will be there after he get it; not one that will get your gift, brag, and then leave.

Answer 6

Losing your virginity... Some say it's special... I might as well be the odd one out.. What's special about having a physical relationship depends on the individual... Physical pleasure or the emotional love...

Losing your virginity is NOT a street cred thing... The right person, the right time??? You'll know the person trust me on that... The time well I believe that comes with the person and situation... Just don't get 'pushed' into it and give serious consideration about safety and health issues!!

Answer 7

believe me u wont like yourself after having it with the wrong guy and u are too young to know if a guy is right for u or not.the chasing is always interesting but when he sleeps with u,u wont believe it's the same guy.

y not wait till u get married by then u are old and matured,your friends will not tell u what they went thru cos they want u to do the same and pass thru the same situation,all they'll say it was interesting.your choice is in your hands but i say abstinence is the best "prevention is better than cure".
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Answer 8

I agree with most of the other writers. Wait til you're ready, don't worry about what your friends are doing. 13 is too young for most people, and would you really want to run the risk of getting pregnant? Just think of the impact on your life if that were to happen. No more hanging out with friends, your parents disappointed, friends shocked, boy scared out of his mind, no more school, a new life depending on YOU...and so on. Wait til it really means something.

Answer 9

i think that there isnt a perfect age as to when to lose your virginity. you should just make sure that u are doing it because you are ready and that it is something that you want to do. you shouldnt feel pressured into doing something. until the time comes that you feel ready and are ready to accept resposibility for your actions and what may come from it and will not regret anything then you should wait. theres really no need to rush youre only thirteen you have your whole life for that, and dont really need to put yourself in certain positions and all the consequences that may arrive with having sex. just pace yourself and take your time. only you can decide when you truly are ready.

Answer 10

you should be at least 18, a half grown child shouldnt even think about sex yet. you will feel like a true slut/whore when you are older if you have to say you lost your virginity at 13. and if you arent ready yet, then DONT do it. just because some of your friends say they have done it doesnt mean you should do it. they are crazy and will probably end up pregnant before they reach 15... would you like to be pregnant at 15 and have to get a job and support another human being ? youre just akid so just be a kid.