Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

ok there is this gurl i love with all my heart and she knows, but i know if she can make up her mind if she wants to date me or not. She was in a relationship with a guy for three years off and on and she says that she might still have feelings for him she said it would not be fair to me if we dated because she might still have feelings for him. what should i do. i love her alot and think about her all the time. Its like she is the one. i chould not live without her . so what do i do

2006-11-23 09:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by andrew h 1 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy that my friends and I party with every weekend. About 2 weeks ago we made out and slept in the same bed/cuddled. I was definitely pretty typsy. I had class with him a couple days later and it was really akward but i got him to be normal again and now we still have fun and hang out. Last night we hung out and were sitting on a couch and he has his arm around me and we were wasted and his friends almost ditched him so that he would have to stay over at my house and I am glad that he found out before hand. Hes really shy and I dont want him to think that I am a creeper. I just broke up with my bf of a year so I am not really interested in a relationship but I want to have fun with him and hook up with him sometimes but I dont know if hes interested. ahh I really dont know what Im asking. How do I initiate something like that without it completely freaking him out or getting rejected

2006-11-23 09:44:44 · 10 answers · asked by lambskin 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like you after you treat them like the $h!t they are?

2006-11-23 09:44:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 09:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by zaza* 1 in Friends

was it the one incident , the straw that broke the camels back so to speak, or a whole series of things?

2006-11-23 09:43:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got a text message from this guy I have been flirting with today and it said, " Happy Thanksgiving, I hope you have a really nice day." For him to be thinking of me on Thanksgiving it really blows me away. What do you think?

2006-11-23 09:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 09:41:44 · 3 answers · asked by Karen S 1 in Family

15 year old boyfriend for christmas?

2006-11-23 09:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-23 09:40:41 · 20 answers · asked by tilly t 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about taking my life. There isnt' enough space on this thing to explain the whole situation. I'm depressed over being alone on thanksgiving, i'm in the military and they won't let me go home or nothing, and when try to talk to people about these things on top of everything else, they shun me and tell me to not do it because "it would look bad on them". I already cut myself and like to watch myself bleed. Should i just go all the way and get my wrists too? The only reason why i haven't done it yet is because of one girl i love sooooo much, but it almost seems worth leaving her like that now......

2006-11-23 09:40:16 · 22 answers · asked by John C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a single man, no baggage looking for a long term relationship.
Serious replies only please.

2006-11-23 09:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by steve m 2 in Singles & Dating

....JUST A CUP OF SUGAR.......??
(I think she likes me the saucy seductress)

2006-11-23 09:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent ever really had a boyfriend, and when i'm around them and they touch me or something, i feel, a little uncomfortiable, but theres this guy that i like, and i just want to know if i sound ready to have sex....i'm going to be living with him, hes my b/fs brother, and i'm going to live with my best friend, and i'm going to be sleeping right next to him room! but i really do think i'm ready......if he wanted to.

2006-11-23 09:37:58 · 17 answers · asked by babyice201 2 in Singles & Dating

plz help me!! kk i had a dream ( im hmong so yeah cuz n our cultural dreams mean sumthing) well in my dream i wuz drinking beer with rice n my ex boifrwen wuz in mah dream wut does it mean?/ my sister says it means im getting married to him cuz its beer n rice but i dunno! help!!!!!!!

2006-11-23 09:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by && hOw dO i sAy i lUv u ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to call my ex and talk to him but not in my normal voice and those text to speech things seem to fake i just want to ask him something and its urgent though i dont want him to know its me someone help!!!

2006-11-23 09:36:43 · 19 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my bf for more than a year. We had a lot of problem but it's going ok and lately he started to talk about moving together. But I found out that he started to watch porns in the last few days. He hasn't been interested in them much and hasn't been watching them much, as far as I know. We have sex couple times a week and I do whatever he wants with him. So I was shocked to find out he started to watch them, and trying to hide it from me.

Does it mean that he's getting tired of having sex with me, or there's other deeper problems, or it's just normal?

2006-11-23 09:36:39 · 21 answers · asked by TC 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, the Christmas holiday season is approaching and I need some ideas. I am going to get my boyfriend presents but I want to do something before that...a surprise. The holidays don't mean a lot to him so I'm trying to find a way to make something or put together a bunch of little random things to make a cute surprise. In a not so great way of wording it, kind of like a "box of Christmas." Little things make him happy so I'm trying to come up with some meaningful thoughts from food, to a little Christmas tree or something totally different...any ideas?

2006-11-23 09:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Singles & Dating

had the perfect girl and now i lost her cause i was too possesive how do i get her back?

2006-11-23 09:34:51 · 16 answers · asked by nick d 1 in Singles & Dating

...nasty sexual thing you've ever done?

2006-11-23 09:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 09:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you make sure not to lose him in the meantime ?

2006-11-23 09:32:45 · 26 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically I had to enter a drug program for a while. She wrote me and sent me cards telling me she loved me and she was gonna be there for me forever and this and that. We talked of getting married after this program and all that. We never had a real arguement in two yrs together. Well when I got out she says it aint gonna work out and leaves with no explanation. I think she has new man and I wonder what happened to US because now it is all her. I still love this girls deeply but it doesn't seem to matter. I know she cares about me but won't let herself show it. She won't answer my calls or even emails. I think she is avoiding me because she feels guilty.

2006-11-23 09:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 09:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want my own cell phone but my dad wont give me it unless i give him a good reason.?
the reason cant be like to call ur friends or for emergencies .

o n i just turned 13



o n he said i can have a prepaid phone but i need a

2006-11-23 09:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

theres thise girl whos bin my friend for 3 years and i have had a masive crush on her for a long time now. we kid around alot and the makes flirty jokes with me but theres one big problem.
she has a boyfriend who happens to be a friend of mines
what the hell do i do

2006-11-23 09:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

Who told you?
Mine is my best friend, he's a boy, i got mad at him and he said "No, Sydney, I'm sorry, you know I love you, your my best friend!!".
It was so sweet, but his girlfriend got so mad about the love you part until we explained to her that we tell eachother that all the time meaning "love you like a best friend", lol

2006-11-23 09:30:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently found this girl's profile on tagged.com. We only talked once two years ago. However once I saw her tagged profile I sent her a message. Then I found her myspace and I tried adding her. I know she might not remember me but I'm gonna see what happens. Is this stalker-ish?

2006-11-23 09:30:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom died about a month ago and everyone took it really hard but not me. Now it wasnt out of the blue, shed been sick for about three years and they told us she was going to die. i was in the room when she died and it was sad and i cried but im over it now but no one else seems to be is there something wrong with me because i moved on so fast. i wasnt even sad for a week it was liek a day and that was it i moved on, is that normal

2006-11-23 09:28:57 · 16 answers · asked by lexy 2 in Family

My crush moved away like, two weeks ago and I was over him in two days. But then my religion teacher started talking about him in class and basicly opened up an old wound and rubbed salt in it and now I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do?

2006-11-23 09:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

i really need to know b 4 monday

2006-11-23 09:27:36 · 19 answers · asked by shaypa 1 in Singles & Dating