I have been going out with my bf for more than a year. We had a lot of problem but it's going ok and lately he started to talk about moving together. But I found out that he started to watch porns in the last few days. He hasn't been interested in them much and hasn't been watching them much, as far as I know. We have sex couple times a week and I do whatever he wants with him. So I was shocked to find out he started to watch them, and trying to hide it from me.
Does it mean that he's getting tired of having sex with me, or there's other deeper problems, or it's just normal?
2006-11-23 09:36:39 · 21 answers · asked by TC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just normal, he just wants to see other women naked (all men do) it's nothing to do with you. Offer to blow him while he's watching and it will bring the two of you closer together
2006-11-23 09:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably your bf just likes porn. A lot of people (man and women) do watch it to get (or stay) excited. Maybe he didn’t let you know about this because you find it strange... You should watch it and see how it works with you! Ask him! And watch it together…
2006-11-23 09:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey..He is MALE. I think you may be reading into this more than you need to, instead of being "shocked' why not offer to watch it with him, maybe the two of you could learn something new to spice things up? But as I said he is a man, he needs things away from you, doesn't mean he doesn't care, and besides, he is "watching" porn, NOT screwing someone else...so why worry?
2006-11-23 09:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by conniechung 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My gosh honey. i did not even end interpreting this and that i will already inform you that issues favor to be damaged off. each and every time he messages different women and talks to them the way he does its dishonest. once you're searching to marry initiate with dumping this creep. Porn isn't an situation. All adult men do it and maximum women too. All my married acquaintances admit to gazing mutually even as **** receives warm contained in the mattress room. yet as for this guy he doesn't chance you perfect, don't experience embarrassed he stuck you because he's scum for dishonest.
2016-11-29 10:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's little doubt that he's been watching porn the whole time you've been together. It's just one of the fundamental differences between men and women. Men like to watch; women like to talk about it.
2006-11-23 09:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUNEY thats normal for a guy every guy does that and dont worry porn isnt real sex did you no that. try having sex with him every night and for a long time too try making him feel manly by moaning and stuff like that and buy really really sexy thongs bras and and things like that. give him a B.J well i mean ask him if he wants one . try using chocolate syrup and let him lick it off you just to make it seem like the sex is better just try to seduce him as often as you can every week just dont get knocked up if any of my advice helps or things get better let me no at shinedown_11@yahoo.com
2006-11-23 09:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kalyn Loveless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
guys like watching porn it stimulates them. Compare it to women fantasizing while in bed with their man it pretty much the same thing. Men are very visual when it come to stimulation. That's why we like the lights on when we are having s e x
2006-11-23 11:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Tramp Collector 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he has always been watched porn but you just now found out. And guys watch porn...it happens, get used to it.
2006-11-23 09:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by LoquaciousFirehawk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-23 18:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its normal. Guys think about sex wayyyy more than girls do. If you had sex with him as much as he thought about it, youd proabably be dead. It happened to me. I just didnt like it because it puts **** on your computer and messes it up. Like spyware and adaware. You might try talking to him about it and tell him it upsets you and ask him why he does it.
2006-11-23 09:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by jessiebabie824 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋