had the perfect girl and now i lost her cause i was too possesive how do i get her back?
2006-11-23 09:34:51 · 16 answers · asked by nick d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her and tell her how much you care and how much you love her tell her that your sorry send her some roses try to call and go out only as friends for now.
2006-11-23 09:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by foxy_sexy_lesbian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try giving her some flowers. make her feel like she is a woman again. tell her that your really sorry for being the way you were and you will make an effort to change if you have to. but who is really to say what is perfect. everyone makes mistakes and does things to get on other peoples nerve. thats all apart of being human. you cant do anything about the way you are but if its going to make her happy then you can try to be less possesive and concentrate more on her. good luck with this.
2006-11-23 17:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change!
Stop being an *** and start trusting her.
Wait a little before trying to get back with her. Not to much, like 2 or 3 days max. After that start with flowers and stuff, but not to fancy. Then tell her that you admit your mistakes, that you know what you did wrong and that you can and will change and DO IT.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-23 17:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Andrei B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to work on yourself before you try to include her back in your life. If you have the confidence of knowing that you have value in her eyes, you would most likely not be in this situation. When people are possessive, it is usually translated to being very insecure or having a low sense of personal value!!
Good luck!!
If you waste your time in a relationship worrying about whether someone will leave.....when are you going to enjoy your time together OR apart??/
2006-11-23 17:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i lost my last boyfriend because he was to possesive though i cant live without him and i wish he'd come back and just say sorry and prove he's changed and maybe you could go back to her and let her know you cant live without her and apoligize let her know you've changed and she makes your life complete
2006-11-23 17:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The harder you try to keep her ,the harder she would try to break free,if you love her set her free ,give her time to reflect.If you mean the world to her shell come back.the pain of a broken heart is one of the hardest things to bear.dealing with the tumoil of emotions and facing the fact that ur relationship has come to an end can be difficult.but the most important thing is to learn how to accept what has happend so that you can recover,move on and avoid the same mistakes next time around.
2006-11-23 17:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by kiki_freelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like my son
you will always be possesive unless you work on fixing you first you have no chance on winning her back
show her what you are capable of, there must have been something she liked about you to begin with
you turn into a wuss now yer for ever screwed
every one is a liar until they proove themselves - stand up - man up
2006-11-23 18:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by FLH67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do some soul-searching. It's good that you realize you were too possessive. What is going to keep you from doing that again? You have to prove to yourself and to her that you are not going to be that way. Find a way to set ground rules that work for both of you and let her know you are willing to do what it takes.
2006-11-23 17:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it's okey there is mor girls out there. but if you want her only then u should tell her u won't get possesive with her again and u should make sure that doesn't happen.
2006-11-23 17:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't get her back because she knows what a possessive butthole you are. Find someone new, and try not to be such a possessive butthole.
2006-11-23 18:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋