How do you make sure not to lose him in the meantime ?
2006-11-23 09:32:45 · 26 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Win the lottery.
2006-11-23 09:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Even people who fall "head over heels" can sometimes wonder if there is more to life, or a better guy etc. Those feelings can be normal (unless she's dwelling in them). I don't know what advice to give her. She made the decision to get married and have a child. If he's a great guy then she should be putting her energies into making the life she has NOW better rather than trying to escape it.
2016-03-12 21:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do u want him to marry u so qwikly? Are you terminally ill? Whats the gr8 big hurry? There isn't anyone in their right mind that marries quickly, so you have to find a really dumb guy first, and the rest is done by a judge or a priest.
2006-11-23 09:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be considered deceitful. I mean if you think you may loose him in the mean time, why would you want to be with him at all? If there is no trust in a relationship, there is no relationship. Also did you know that a marriage is the hardest job that you will ever have?! Consider your future. You shouldn't need a man to be happy yourself. I don't mean to sound rude, but this just doesn't sound right. Think long and hard before you jump in and commit to anything.
2006-11-23 09:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all why are you in such a rush to get married? I mean if you need a green card or something, than money talks, but if you just "think" you "Love" him and want to marry him..I guess ask him..if you are worried about losing him though...he might not be the right one to marry, I mean if there is no TRUST what IS the basis of this relationship???? Hmmmmmmm
2006-11-23 09:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by conniechung 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're pregnant and very Catholic, or you'll get deported if you don't marry, you don't rush your man into marriage.
Once he believes that you are someone he can really spend the rest of his life with, he'll be ready.
2006-11-23 09:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by yishor 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my partner since 1997 9 years now, we ment while at college, we are not married, I think you should just be yourself he would'nt be with you if he did't love you, just keep having fun,
2006-11-23 10:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't.
if you've got retention issues, this is a very bad premise to even be considering let alone entering marriage with.
marriage won't cure anything about your relationshihp, you don't need it for either of you to decide to try harder and express more commitment.
all you need for that is good domestic relations in all areas of yoru living space and communication.
2006-11-23 09:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married doesn't stop people breaking up, it just makes it more expensive. If you think you might lose him, concentrate on how to make the relationship stronger, not on how to tie him down.
2006-11-23 09:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by judipod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong thing to be doing. Leave the poor guy alone and let him find someone who loves him.
2006-11-23 09:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...make him to propose you,don't be the one asking him to marry you,that's very bad for women in the eyes of the men..good luck!
2006-11-23 10:08:51 · answer #11 · answered by Georgiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋