why do guyzz tend to love a girl at first but as time passes, you tend to not love the girl as much as before?
2006-11-23 08:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Ana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because guys are stupid...they have "contest" between eachother & sees who can get the most girls...so jus move on
2006-11-23 08:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by tpoof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you're in love, a person seems perfect. When the infatuation passes, you start learning what the person is really like. Hopefully you like what you see and you are commited enough to that person to continue the relationship, realizing that no one is perfect. But if all that was there was looks, then once you get used to that person and find out what she's like, you loose interest, because there was nothing there to begin with. That's why love at first sight usually doesn't work. You are in love with looks and what you THINK that person is like based on those looks. A person rarely turns out to be as good as you'd thought.
2006-11-23 08:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think its "guys" per se. I have seen it happen from a man's perspective. Regardless... here are the reasons I have seen...
1) just fooling around (nothing better to do)
2) curious, doesn't know what he wants
3) revenge / bitter Ex Girlfriend (revenge against girls in general).
4) Missunderstanding (he thought you enjoyed/liked ___ and you don't).
I think it down to how people were raised and if they take other people's feelings into account as well as there own in general.
Not to point the finger, but if I am correct in assuming that you have had several guys who have done this to you, see what/where they come from and avoid it. If you find deadbeat guys in the library, check out Starbucks & vica veca.
2006-11-23 09:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by lunard55555 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You get comfortable with a person after a while and are just accustomed to how they are. I don't think the person loves you any less because you've been together for a while.If you feel that way, find something to do with him/her that you normally wouldn't do. It's not a creativity contest, anything you come up with should be good enough for the one who loves you most.
2006-11-23 08:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by X_YELLOWJACKET_X 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the girl - the longer the relationship goes on, the more you find out about the girl.
If there are things that you disagree with, time will magnify these things and can lead to a split.
If you are ideal together, these things will not exist and may these people live together forever.
2006-11-23 08:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anyways, I can't lie, when I first heard "Wanna Love You Girl", I was a skeptical on who Robin Thicke was but after I started to listen to him more and more
2006-11-23 08:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Strange Ball 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that sometimes they love them the whole time, but in the situation that your talking about, it's probably because sometimes they might just get bored with it, and tired of the same thing
2006-11-23 08:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl and i allways wonder that.. i think its because they either get bored or uninterested or they just cover up how they feel.. but I'm not sure
2006-11-23 08:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you get to now a person better so you simply find out that it is not your match
2006-11-23 08:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by marko s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i no what you mean this guy liked me for a day then went on to another girl then back to me and back and forth it is so stupid. well boys are like what they are
2006-11-23 08:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by my mom ND dad 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋