Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I'm turning 19 tomorrow (the 13th). I have a 3.8 GPA in college and I even work full-time. The apartment we're living in is under my name and I let her have more than half of my paycheck for utilities, rent, and whatever else needs to be paid, I only take out money to pay for school. The thing is, my mother is extremely controlling. She doesn't want friends calling my cell, or my even hanging out with them. Those are friends that she doesn't even know personally. Sometimes she makes suggestions and expects me to accept them or she'll get super pissed and then start yelling and/or never ends the lecture.

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2006-11-23 17:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I asked this girl out by giving a note to friend which gave it to her and yes I know it was Pathitc.I want to know whats the worst way to ask someone out.

2006-11-23 17:09:17 · 22 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Guy and girl hit it off huge. Things go great for a few months. Romance wear off, feelings fill in. As feelings grow, girl becomes distant. After some time, they talk, girl says she has always been like this but doesn't say why. Upon asking further, girl locks up. She is visibly shaken. Something very bad in her past. Things continue, hot and cold for a couple more months, but girl gets close, girl backs away. Guy pushes the issue, asks more Q's, gets no real answer. After much speculation, guy has a theory (and a scary one) about what happened to girl, why she is so scared to get close. Can he ask her, suggest he knows why to see if that will ease/erase the tension? It would be pretty serious, but certainly nothing she did. Just a TERRIBLE situation/experience.

2006-11-23 17:09:13 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 17:09:06 · 13 answers · asked by suhas_rex 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21yrs old and I'm still a virgin...It's just that I want to wait for marriage. I have alot of things going for me and I really don't want to worry about getting pregnant or catching something. Plus I want to give that to a special person who i love. It just seems that every guy i talk to just have sex on their mind. I want to have a good conversation about other things not just talk about how much he wants to bang me. I want a boyfriend but truth is that if there no sex, then there is no chance of that...plus if there is no sex im sure he's gonna cheat on me...and what are my chances of finding a virgin my age and who is willing to respect my descision.

2006-11-23 17:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by SEXYCHULA 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 17:08:10 · 29 answers · asked by tdude09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, there is this girl in my class, and she is conceited! ok lets name her girl #1. ok so girl #1 thinks she can get all the boys, but the boys Hate her guts! #1 doesn't care, she said as long as she wins one of the boys! #1keeps swearing at ppl for no reason and she has a BIG mouth! oh yeah she is a bully and if u fight back, she goes to the principle! she is tooth-face! oh yeah, we are all in
middle school, and all the high schoolers hate #1, they told me!
i need to diss this girl really badly! i need to make her cry! any ideas????

2006-11-23 17:07:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In the past when i was much younger being single never worried me. But ever since i crossed 30.. it sort of makes me wonder.. Does being independent woman a problem.. Or perhaps i have too many expectations.. I get asked alot of times by men.. But i don't wanna start dating anyone just because it gets lonely.. I do believe the right guy would come along.. but how long should i wait is my question..

2006-11-23 17:06:39 · 16 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Marriage & Divorce

romance

2006-11-23 17:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ink 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 17:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by volleyball chick08 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in one of my classes that is really sweet but is reallllly ugly...i gave him my IM because i felt bad for him, i try for the most part to look beyond looks and everything, i started talking to him online and am just not getting the right vibe...i think he thinks i like him more than a friend...how do i tell him i dont?

2006-11-23 17:04:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 17:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She told me she was in a series of bad relationships and she wanted to wait a little before she started dating again. I thought that she really liked me but now she seems to act different with me, know that Ive told her how I feel.So i'm not sure if she want to be friends or if she was telling the truth about her past relationships. I'm confused because a friend told me that he saw that she had some attraction towards me but sometimes I feel that she doesn't.

2006-11-23 17:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by arturo 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know why many girls like the badboys and asss holes and pricks. It pisses me off to one end. This one guy I know is very ignorant and rude to the girls, but some how they like him. I remember when I was in highschool many years ago, me and my friend met this girl at almost the same time. He was swearing and everything. He was a gothic type. His mind is always in the gutter, but some how the girl chose him. WHY! WHY! WHY! He even got to kiss her at the chess tournment that are school went to. He treated her with total desrespect. This guy was even into drugs at the time. I on the other hand was polite and kind to her. My friend also knows this one guy thats the same way, and he gets tons of girls. He's totally disrespectful and puts them down, not joking ether. He also sleeps around with many of them, which I don't feel is right. Im nice to the girls and I respect them like I should. What am I doing wrong. Do I have to turn into a total asss hole for girls to like me.

2006-11-23 17:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 17:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by ganesh dubey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I swear, weve broken up and gone back out like a hundred times. I really love him but i think i want to break up with him again. He's done things to me that i cant forgive. but im afraid that we will just get back together again. hes so pushy!! all this drama is really hard on me and my 14 year old daughter. any tips i can use to stop all this???? how can i end it all!!!

2006-11-23 16:59:43 · 15 answers · asked by justine w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-23 16:59:36 · 21 answers · asked by tdude09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

becasue im not sure if i do or not love this guy? and am i to young im 15

2006-11-23 16:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2 in Singles & Dating

I never had no desire to have sex,I had oppertunitis,but I never did,you think something wrong with me,some one feels the same?

2006-11-23 16:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a parking lot last and this lady hit my car, I went to get her info, and she asked me if I could deal with it without getting the insurance involved. So I agreed, and got an estimate, now she tells me I have to talk to her husband to get the money!! And what's worse is now she says that she is going through a divorce and that she can't pay the money because her husband is in control of her fianances, and she problem just sits around the house and has never worked a day in her life!! She left the number of her husband on my phone and told me to call him, like she is some child who can't deal with her own stuff. Why should I have to talk to her husband? I have a mind just to sue her lazy stay at home butt cause I have a job, and I support my family!

How do I deal with this so I can get the money from her and not have some random guy who I don't even know involved?

2006-11-23 16:57:10 · 20 answers · asked by Rose 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He has turned 41 and we have been married for 15 years. I am still fit and attractive and intelligent. He says he is no longer happy and that he has to go find happiness now. We have had problems in the past and have seperated a few times. We were going to counciling but he didnt want to go anymore. He said he needed someone who was more family oriented. He said he needed to find someone new and that I should too. This came after he had said he had wanted to try and work things out. We have been seperated and the counciler suggested that we live apart for a few months. I got an apartment and started to fix it up and make it look pretty. This was the firt time I had gotten new things and was starting to look forward to the move. We had disscussed him moving in after a few months and then he started to change. He acted weird out of the blue and said he didnt want to try anymore and he did not want to live in the town I moved to. He said it hasnt worked this lond so why bother. Im so lost

2006-11-23 16:55:58 · 26 answers · asked by Dark Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like u cain't stop lovin

2006-11-23 16:55:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked a boy if hes not talking to me. was that stupid of me to do

2006-11-23 16:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2 in Singles & Dating

help?? please be serious w/ ur ansers

2006-11-23 16:54:33 · 6 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 16:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by catchernkeeper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like u cain't stop lovin

2006-11-23 16:53:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who's turned on more by someone who plays hard to get, men or women?

2006-11-23 16:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my x never really cheated but I caught him ridding on a faris wheel with another girl.Now he wants to get to gether again.Should I?

2006-11-23 16:52:22 · 11 answers · asked by Wise woman 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I'm in a great relationship. It has been wonderful from the beginning. Since my boyfriend professed his love for me he has told me he loves me after every phone conversation, every parting, and just because. I always reply with the same and I too will tell him I love him without him telling me first. For about a week now I noticed that he only says he loves me after I say it first. Yesterday I didn't say it at all thinking he'll surely say it before we get off of the phone. He didn't. Then today we spent the day together. Everything seemed as normal as always. But, again tonight when we spoke before bed he again didn't tell me he loved me. It's almost like he is trying not to say it. Nothing else has seemed to change in our relationship. Does anyone have a clue as to why he could be doing this? We are both in our 30's but I feel like a teenager worrying with fear. I don't like it one bit! Could it really mean that he really doesn't love me anymore?

2006-11-23 16:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom is an addict and she want get help,well anyways . she was going to come to my house for thanksgiving, i didnt want to wait all day to go get so i said forget it, well my brother who is also a druggy, has been calling me be a jerk, and says stuff like why haven t i called to say happythanksgiving well no one called me what do i need to do shut them off or forgive them, i a christan so they like to down me, please help me.

2006-11-23 16:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by babylove 1 in Family