She told me she was in a series of bad relationships and she wanted to wait a little before she started dating again. I thought that she really liked me but now she seems to act different with me, know that Ive told her how I feel.So i'm not sure if she want to be friends or if she was telling the truth about her past relationships. I'm confused because a friend told me that he saw that she had some attraction towards me but sometimes I feel that she doesn't.
2006-11-23 17:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by arturo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i think you should pull your horses back a little.. Be a gentleman.. Stick around with her as a friend or close friend. Just chit chat with her a little while everyday.. Slowly, let her know about you and let yourself know about her. Sometimes if a relationship starts too fast, it will end fast too.. let her know you better or well, before proceeding to the next step.. time and your timing must work together well.. So calculate before doing any act.. by telling you that she needs time does not mean she's rejecting you, she just need some encouragement. Set some friends beside her and add yourself in too.. she wants to know you better before having relationship.. As i think she don't want to fly too fast, as if she fails and fall, she'll fall hard and painful.. Sometimes people worry about this point in relationships...
2006-11-23 17:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by teri_lqy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can do what she wants. But it doesn't make her a better person just because she wants to wait until marriage. I don't think it is good, or bad to wait until marriage. I didn't wait until I was married, but I waited until I found the person I wanted to marry. We also waited over a year and half into our relationship. I am so glad our first time wasn't on our wedding night. We were both clueless virgins, and it hurt so bad! Now my wedding night is going to be fun, and full of pleasure :)
2016-05-22 21:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably telling you the truth, that she wants to take it slow and just be friends for now. Let her know you understand and will be there for her if she needs to talk, etc. Give her time to figure it out.
2006-11-23 17:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One bitten twice shy.... give her time ..respect and some compassion not deadlines... get to know her a lot more...and let her into your daily life ..a little too.!!.. takes about 3 months ..plus ..before the relationship is where you want..maybe..
2006-11-23 17:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell ya this but when a girl says "friends" ya done bombed out. I am 51 yrs old and heard this term a long time
2006-11-23 17:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm, maybe she wants to get to know you and take it slow---JUST LIKE SHE SAID! Why do you need to try to read between the lines? It it impossible that she is just being honest and upfront with you?
2006-11-23 17:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just wants to be friends.
2006-11-23 17:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that there is someone else. & that you should stop working hard start working smart. Determine on your own if you want that girl in your life at all.
2006-11-23 17:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by greckel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs a little time to heal! so just wait until she heals.
2006-11-23 17:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Moonlight 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it some time and see.
2006-11-23 17:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋