Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

doesn't matter how long you stay with a person before getting married? does that help marriage to be successful? dosen't matter if it was 1 month or years?

which one is better, staying for short time or longer time before getting married?

2006-11-23 16:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She tells me she loves me with all of her heart, but she doesn't want us to be together.

I asked her to marry me, and she said yes, so I went ahead, and bought the ring, and now she says she doesn't want us to be together, she keeps telling me she loves me, but yet she won't give us a fair chance together, and that is all I am asking for.

There is nobody else on this earth that I will love more than her or ever want to be with again, she is the only one I want to love and be with, but she just doesn't care about how I feel.

If I didn't love her so much, I would just ask my best friend to marry me, and she would say yes in a heartbeat, but all she is looking for is a babysitter, so she can go out and have her nights of fun.

Any helpful suggestions as to what to do in this situation, or with the ring will be greatly appreciated.

Thank you!

There is nobody else on this earth that I will love

2006-11-23 16:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by dahorndogd013 4 in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a 3 year relationship w/ someone because there are no feelings there anymore. Me and my ex didn't have sex for 4 months.

I've been working w/ this one guy for also 3 years. We're both managers in the same company. I've never looked at him to be intriguing but we went to a going away party together and ended up kissing in the parking lot. Now I want more. He has a girlfriend of about 5 years, but that doesn't phase me at all. I don't want a relationship from him, just a little fooling around here and there. Kinda like friends w/ benefits. He has agreed on doing the same w/ out anyone finding out. I don't find it to be wrong as long as i'm safe about it. But is this wrong on either part?

Please only people 21 and older respond.

2006-11-23 16:14:50 · 23 answers · asked by natural blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I'm told all the time that there are guys out there that love BBW, well where are they??? I'm 34 raising two teenagers on my own, no support, work two jobs, own home and car, tired of being alone, I flirt and smile everything but throw myself on the floor, LOL. I know this isn't a dating sight, I live in a little town in Indiana and yes I'm looking for Mr. Right, not Mr. right now. Where can I go that's safe?? I'm tired of chat rooms and websites, I want to meet and talk to real men, face to face, I hate the bar seen, I'm a social drinker and I don't want a drunk like my ex. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! Thanks in advance, Kim

2006-11-23 16:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kim S 1 in Singles & Dating

the first time you take your lover ?

2006-11-23 16:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was working on her computer and found all these instanes messages from him and her

2006-11-23 16:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by ezzzz68 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 16:13:44 · 14 answers · asked by my2luvsJK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She left for 20 years and came back 2 years ago (when I called her to let her know Dad was ill). She's the baby of the family - since she's been back our brother died. She's always in financial trouble. When our bro died we both got quite a bit of money from him--I've still got most of it (I did buy a new used car!!), she blew the whole thing on a new car for herself and a truck for her hubby, even tho their house was in forclosure! She could've saved the house!! Now she's boo-hooing and and they're gonna move in with Dad and probably spend all his money!! I need to protect him!! I don't give a big rat's tail about inheriting anything--but I do need to make sure my Dad's taken care of and that she's not going to lose his house!! We both have POA.

2006-11-23 16:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by fallingstar 4 in Family

i recently moved from a place i've been living for 7 years (i'm in eigth grade, btw) and although i have made a lot of friends, and i hang out with them at school and eat lunch with them and everything, i do not have a best friend.
i dont have anybody go to the movies with during the weekend, i dont have anyone to confess my crush to....
because most of my friends have known each other since kindergartem and they are inseperable...
and my other friends are just hi-bye friends.
trouble is, i cant find anyone i would really LIKE to have as my best friend.
what could i do?
i mean, i cant advertise for a best friend, but i dont wanna spend my weekends immersed in boredom...

2006-11-23 16:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

black silk sheets and pillow cases...slippery, silky fun

2006-11-23 16:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is in the military and stationed in MS, he doesnt call me until 9pm, my time 11 his. When we do talk he doesnt have alot to say other than im so tired, im busy, im tired, blah blah blag
its teh smae thing everynigjt. its like hes not interested in me anymore, i try to tell him but he gets pissed. what should i do, what should i think?
we have 2 kids together and it doesnt seem like he cares to much about them either.

2006-11-23 16:10:50 · 20 answers · asked by renee h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in the midle school and i cant get a gf. What do girls like? How do i get one?

2006-11-23 16:09:16 · 20 answers · asked by therunescapeaddict 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 16:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by marlika h 1 in Singles & Dating

what color a gurl wears on her wedding day? what if thye made u wear pink...would u do it?

2006-11-23 16:09:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were having thanks giving super and my dog came and wanted somthin to eat so I gave him a spoon full of my aunts caseroll.
Well this woman has some long arm hairs and I guess it was in the casseroll.I didn't eat it cause she was the one that cooked it I gave it all to the dog.
Anyway He started coking and I thought that he was gonna be ok till he jus kept on and on.
When I went to see what was wrong with him he jus fell over and died.
I blam my aunt cause I saw the arm hair in his mouth!!!!!
Should I sue????????

2006-11-23 16:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 16:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by Chula 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This is an honest question so please do not responed unless you have valuable advice. My husband and I get along o.k. but we fight a great deal and I think he may be an alcoholic. He drinks all the time. I dont know when enough is enough. Is there anyone out there that has gone through the same thing. We also have a 1 1/2 year old daughter to worry about if we do break up

2006-11-23 16:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by CookFrNW 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is what happened: I have a friend. He's a boy and we had a fight. he, ynfortunately, blocked my security code on my cellphone and he feel sorry for that. i've been very to him because of what happened. he almost kneel in front of me 'coz he thought i will forgive him that way. then i can't help myself to think of him if he really do feel sorry for what he've done to cellphone and if he's okay. i can't manage to not to think of him if he will talk to me again after what i've done to him 'coz i didn't talk to him even he's talking to me. i wanted to tell and ask him somethin so i write a letter for him and him if he trust me since we've been friends for a long time now. i ask him if he love me as his friend and who's his crush. when he replied on my messge, he wrote there the truth and i was shocked coz he said i am his crush. i didn't think that it can happen so i ask him again if i given him the chance to ask me if he wanted me to be his gf but he didn't replied yet.wat shud i do?

2006-11-23 16:06:49 · 5 answers · asked by cool_girl 2 in Friends

My friend won't talk to me, or tell me why she is mad at me. But it is hard because all of my other friends are still friends with her, so i fell left out. Like they are choosing me over her! I dont know wut to say or do. Please help me...

2006-11-23 16:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

physically, whatever

2006-11-23 16:06:30 · 7 answers · asked by woah 2 in Singles & Dating

in boy/girl friend relationship, who gets the most fun out of it, who gets the most beneficial out of it. the man or the woman?

2006-11-23 16:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy who knows how too repair an engine, or a guy who knows how too cook and clean? (or maybe i should say does it, because its not that hard)

2006-11-23 16:05:02 · 10 answers · asked by Cody B 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy I been talking to, but it seems like he dosen't know what he wants. See every body in my family knows him, and he thinks if me and him start a realtionship and something happens between the two of us he thinks not only he's going to lose me but he's also going to lose the bond he has with my family. I told him that wont happen. Now he's saying he loves me and he wants me, but he can't be with me. Now evrytime I spend time with him I'm liking him more and more and I don't know what to do. HELP

2006-11-23 16:04:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am adopoted, lived in USA for 17 years, still learning American ways, but it is confusing with the words, slang, vocabularies, and I would like American guys to realized that I am a good woman looking for someone to accept me are there any men out there that would like to know me and except me for who I am?

2006-11-23 16:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me...please!

2006-11-23 16:03:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

girls opinion preferred... i love jessica, we arnt together yet... we are both 16... she sings to me sometimes, i luv it so much when she sings, its so beautiful, but she haz been a lil reluctant to sing to me lately... she hinted that she wanted me to sing to her when i waz reading the lyrics of a song to her... i have no problem with this atall, but i got a big problem! i really only can sing rap songs and thats normally like around a camp fire with friends and stuff... she duznt like rap! :( :( :( i realllllllllllly need help! i wanna sing for her, but i dunno wat to sing! ther are songs i kno that arnt rap, but im not sure if i cud do any good singing those to her :( iz ther a really ez to sing song that she will proly like? she iz a christian girl, i dunno wat to do!!! pls help!!! she might not mind me singing a rap song to her cuz im singin, but the only ones that i kno by heart are not somethin i wanna sing to her... :( help pls... girls pls especially, i dont have long!!!

2006-11-23 16:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there such a thing?

2006-11-23 16:03:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I went on a date with a really cute guy, we had a lot of fun. He said he wanted to see me the next day. I thought ok he travels a lot for work and he is only in town a few days a week. So anyway he calls and says he is near my house. I told him I wasn't comfortable with him coming over so soon. I suggested we walk to the beach which is really close. He then says if he can't come over then just forget it. I said fine. Can you believe this jerk? Do men really think they can get lucky that easy? I could not believe it. Tell me what you think.

2006-11-23 16:02:46 · 2 answers · asked by Stellar_Girl22 1 in Singles & Dating

Any tips on how can I really move on and let go of someone that I really really love? I've been trying but I think I need somemore help from you guys. I just want to let go of the feelings so I could start appreaciating other guys. I love him so much but I need help/advice on how to get over him.

2006-11-23 16:02:15 · 21 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Singles & Dating

ok laides say you wake up in a hole with now memorie of the night before, or whare you are now, how do you handle the situation

2006-11-23 16:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by guess where you are 1 in Singles & Dating