Any tips on how can I really move on and let go of someone that I really really love? I've been trying but I think I need somemore help from you guys. I just want to let go of the feelings so I could start appreaciating other guys. I love him so much but I need help/advice on how to get over him.
2006-11-23 16:02:15 · 21 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work out every day. It distracts you from feeling depressed or being full of angst. I did several pushups and crunches a day, and ran. Then, in time, it's not going to matter anymore AND you would have made yourself better physically.
2006-11-23 16:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Puggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that you may NEVER forget him.
Time will however make it easier to enjoy the company of other men. Sometimes a "rebound relationship" is neccessary just to get over the initial loss. But it is a very unhealthy way to go about it.
Try church. Regular outings with girlfriends. Do a self makeover. Try going new places seeing new kinds of people.
If you catch yourself doing a comparison with every date you go on back off from dating and regroup. It will take some time. Sometimes you have to hate the person (in a sense) It will help to give your self more credit for having tried every thing to make it work- And its their LOSS, not yours.
2006-11-23 16:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, some things are just not ment to be.
Whatever happened between you and that guy or what didnt happen, at the end, it was all destined to happen anyway. Just remember how great a person you are and how its him who lost something good. You need to let go and move on. I know its easier said than done, but you have to believe to be able to do this. Dont moap over something you had no control of, you cant control fate. There is somebody better out there for you and you will never find him feeling sorry for yourself at home. Go outside, experience life and remember that You are worth it. Your prince charming will be looking for you!
Good luck!
Peace
2006-11-23 16:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
just imaging your love has been very much true and when the other person is not able to get that fully, why the hell you are troubling. i know it hurts much when the most loved and trusted person just don't understand us. leave it. one man is not the world as the old saying. be relaxed. concentrate on other things. better avoid all the things that has happened before, and get into your work and study a lot of things. especially some self confidence things. don't indulge in any other activities. this is the time for you to know who is true and how strong you are. i know you can.
be merry, and live life fully
goodluck
2006-11-23 16:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by prdoure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres only 3 ways
1. Replacement
2. Drugs
3. Time
2006-11-23 16:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should spend time with friends and date a lot of different men (that does not mean sleep with a lot of men, just date.) This will distract you and you will get a lot of great qualities from many different people. Also, make time to pamper yourself. Get a manicure, pedicure and massage. Stress can make you look crazy and you wont meet someone new looking haggard!
2006-11-23 16:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by amoroushotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. It's hard to accept now, but as time goes on you will feel better.
Go out with your friends, do something for yourself like join a health club, get a new hairdo or manicure.
2006-11-23 16:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously doesn't love you as much as you love him or you wouldn't be in a state of worry and wonder. love yourself as much as you claim to love him and accept nothing less than you deserve. never compromise that for anybody. the worst thing to do is to sit and ruminate get out an do, either something for yourself or will people who genuinely care about you. Everything you need is inside of you and no one is more deserving of your love than yourself, period. Besides if you can't love you why should anybody else?
2006-11-23 16:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with a girl- I just can't forget her. I just make myself available, take risks when I think it might be worth it. I guess be thankful, however, that at least once in your life you met someone unforgettable like I did.
2006-11-23 16:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice is get over him already. you know we human beings are funny. in your question you already have the answer i don't know why you're looking for validation from other peaople. all we'll tell you are the things we ourselves we'll never do. if you want to do something why are you wasting your time asking questions you already have anwers to. let go already and start appreciating
2006-11-23 16:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by the a.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋