i recently moved from a place i've been living for 7 years (i'm in eigth grade, btw) and although i have made a lot of friends, and i hang out with them at school and eat lunch with them and everything, i do not have a best friend.
i dont have anybody go to the movies with during the weekend, i dont have anyone to confess my crush to....
because most of my friends have known each other since kindergartem and they are inseperable...
and my other friends are just hi-bye friends.
trouble is, i cant find anyone i would really LIKE to have as my best friend.
what could i do?
i mean, i cant advertise for a best friend, but i dont wanna spend my weekends immersed in boredom...
2006-11-23 16:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey man I know how you feel. Sometimes it's rough, especially weekends, like you said. What you have to do is accept what you have and make the best of it. That means you have to become more independent than you already are. Find things to do on your own. Either get involved with organized activities or just go out and do stuff by yourself. The less time you have, the less time you'll spend wishing for someone to do something with. Eventually you will find that person. Just be patient, it might even take years, but in the meantime, you'll learn how to get along on your own, and that's just as valuable as having a best friend.
2006-11-23 17:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Spoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow I can relate... So here goes..
Looking for a best friend is like looking for a needle in the haystack.
Yeah, sometimes for others it might be easy but for some it isn't.
It takes a lot of patience and time. Well, first things first, try taking some time to talk to one of your new friends. who knows you might share the same interests and poof! Think positive.. Okey? ; )
2006-11-24 02:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Euxine08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have patience and wait for the right person to be your best friend. You will surely find him/her who is just the way you wanna be your best friend. Try mingling with more and study their minds....the more you talk and mingle the chances of finding the right person is more
2006-11-23 16:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sherine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you something, i was have a best Friend but at last she leave me because she have to travel, my hart was broken . so from that time i decided to not have any best Friend , and now i have a Friends and i go with them. so i advise you from my experience don't get a best friend because someday he will go and leave you a lone and in that time your hart will break.
2006-11-23 16:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by roro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT TAKES TIME TO DEVELOP FRIENDSHIPS> start talking to someone who you like at school. See if the person also likes to do what you do. Go on from there.
2006-11-23 16:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get to no them more on the weekend call one of them ask them to go to the movies wit u or just get a boyfriend that'll help
2006-11-23 16:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time i recently moved here from michigan i thought i would be miserable but i found plenty of friends good luck
2006-11-23 17:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too i don't have a friend to share my problems my friends are my sister's best friend so i talk to my self
2006-11-23 19:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by mona z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋