Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

which is better for dessert? i love to eat vanilla pudding and lick the spoon clean...over and over again

2006-11-23 16:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example if you're having a sleppover what are some good questions to ask?

2006-11-23 16:01:17 · 11 answers · asked by sassydiva12 1 in Friends

Here is my situation. I'm a 27 year old male. I've been married for two and a half years; together with her for six years. The problem is we have never had sex as long as we've been together. We've fooled around until she gets off but does nothing to reciprocate. She claims she is "scared" of sex but will not see a psychologist. While I love her very much and otherwise our relationship is fine, I find myself discontent enough to the point where I have met people online for sex. Obviously I am not happy in a sexless marriage because I wouldn't be doing that if I were. We never agreed to this before getting married and anytime I bring the topic up she starts a fight and I end up having to apologize. She knows nothing of my affairs and thinks everything is just fine between us. I am unhappy but have a hard time justifying leaving her just over sex. Does anybody have advice? I very badly want to leave and end this while I'm still young, but don't want to hurt her. What can I do?

2006-11-23 16:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by Slim B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-23 15:58:48 · 16 answers · asked by marlika h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you do! why do you and what do you believe cause karma?

!!!!just wantin to know what people say!!!

2006-11-23 15:58:06 · 25 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

guys what do you mean when you tell a girl you like them, you have dreams about them (like real deep dreams if you get it) but then you say you just want to be friends. I know this guy I like him he says he like me as well but he says he just want to be friends first he was saying he was having deep dreams about me everytime he sees me he gives me compliments he also said he likes me because i want to get to know him but then he also throws out there that he just want to be friends then on top of that he pops up with a girl and when i asked him did he have a girl he said no shes my wifey, so is this him trying to get me jealous because i don't show my feelings or what because he has me thinking that he has mixed emotions so plz someone help if you don't know then just don't say anything thank you

2006-11-23 15:57:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think spanking gets better results....umm, hmm...much better results

2006-11-23 15:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 15:56:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hes 9 years old. I find that punishment escilates his temper, but my wife babies him and my daughter confronts him.This seems to be breaking the family apart. He says "i hate you" and tortures the family to the point of my wife crying on daily basis.
Please Help me...its just that i don't want to take this to the point of doctors and such.

Thank you so much.

2006-11-23 15:56:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jo jo 2 in Family

2006-11-23 15:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are they still around, what's up with the friends with benefits

2006-11-23 15:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy last Thursday. It was like love at first sight. I spent 24 hr with him during the week end. It was awesome, he kept telling me on we were the same etc...That was Sunday afternoon.
The good thing is when I left Sunday night he asked me when he was going to see me again and we talked about on Wednesday night. As I was missing him, I left him a message on Tuesday and Wed morning, then I sent him an email (on Match.com). He replied to cancel Wednesday night date and asked me how was my schedule for next week. What does it mean?
He never called me but he desactivated his profile from Match, I had just reactivated mine because I was pissed. The next day he reactivated his...What does this mean?
I have not replied to his mail yet. I am really into him and I want him to feel the same. What shall I do? I need a good strategy because While we were together he kept saying how happy he was, how spectacular I was..He even asked me to go with to the Super ball. I am so LOST..

2006-11-23 15:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my girlfriend and I were walking down the street. She asks me if I would spank her if she cheated on her. I said olny if you wanted my too. She confesses that she has been seeing someone else. But i do not get mad. She asks me if she need me to spank her. I said its optional, olny if you want me too. She says that she needs a spanking. We walk into her house, we go to her room. I tell her to wait there. She asks to be spanked nude. I say ok. I tell her i'll be back in 10min. I return to her. She says that she wants me to undress her. I unbutton her pants, pull 'em off and take off her panties and shirt and bra. I ask her how hard, and what should I spank her with. She says 'til my butt is red. I tell her ok. She asks me what position she should go in and I say lay over the couch. I give her 31 swats then her butt is red. She tells me that that was mean of me and I should apologies. I tell her its what you wanted. The rest of the day she keeps her clothes off and doesn't talk to me

2006-11-23 15:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by Aaron A 1 in Singles & Dating

me....black stilettos, thigh high nylons with a black garter

2006-11-23 15:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it normal to get diss by a girl when u talk to her about going out

2006-11-23 15:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

Well,he thinks he's all that,cute,personality,but he's a weird guy.
Ok our frst date he took me to the movies,and this was our first date now,He puts his arm around me.Well I didn't mind that so I jus kept watching the movie.
Well he desides he's gonna try and eat my face off!!!!He jumps up and jumps on top of me trying to kiss me!I didn't know wtf he was going so I punched him off!
I got up and left.Then he calls the next day and wants to take me to a party,he apolojized for what he did the night befor,so I said I'd give him two more chances then its over.
Well he came by and picked me up,and we went to the party.When we get there theres people dancing and drinking and jus hanging out.He tells me he'll be right back with a few drinks,so I sit and wait for him to come back.
It was like 11 and I was a little tipsy so I asked him to take me home well he's drunk out of his mind.
He gets up and goes to where the guys were singing,and takes the microphone and starts cusing every body!

2006-11-23 15:50:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

Well ok so I know most of u are gonna say im “over-reacting” but im not she said it with her own mouth. she said tht she hates me. I mean I kno im not perfect. im messy I procrastinate so on but.. still ya kno it hurts. im only 13 but still. the thing is. when im with my mom I can never see my good points because it seems to me shes always pointing out my bad ones. im startin to feel really down. how do I get myself to not care wut my mom thinks, WELL not “not care” exactly but to not care when she points out all my bad points and stuff. cuz its hard. please help me out. all advice appreciated.

2006-11-23 15:49:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-23 15:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok... I've been dating this guy for over a month, things are going really great and we spend a lot of time together. I trust him, he's a sweet guy and has not given me a reason not to. When we first started talking neither one of us had time for anything serious but we was not sleeping together either, just hanging out. I worked too much and he was going through a divorce. Now since I don't work and his divorce is final, things have changed for the better. Everyone that knows all the details say that it's getting serious wether we want to admit it or not. He even just made plans for us to be together on New Years, meeting his friends, & me him and his bro hang out too. He checked his mail over at my house tonight, no biggie but I just so happen to notice that he had a yahoo addy & I pulled up his messenger profile after he left and under his hobbies it said "like to f**k"... he hadn't logged in since last year but should I be worried or do you think it's something of the past?

2006-11-23 15:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by rayne 2 in Singles & Dating

i have known this grl since the 6th grade but we just met again during the 12 th grade. for some occasion i met her and now she wants to hang wit me. i like her but i noe she doesn't like me but for some reason she wants to be near me. i just realize that she had just gone out of a relationship.

please help me

i really like her

- oregon boy

2006-11-23 15:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is always with some other girl (flirting)...

2006-11-23 15:49:05 · 22 answers · asked by Lamamiboricua 1 in Friends

I am married...

2006-11-23 15:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Gracy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Wanna be w/him. He has so much 2 do & he loves me.

2006-11-23 15:48:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If he says he doesn't ever see anything permanent with me, then he turns around and says, well maybe there could be something permanent with me... then he says he just wants to take it slow, what am I supposed to think? He's blowing me off right? He just wants me for sex? (We have slept together, but we don't do it every time we hang out with each other. )

2006-11-23 15:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okayy, I'm a pretty easy going chick, nice, loveable (i think), smart and such, but when it comes to guys its like i hit a brick wall. I've been with a lot of guys and i've made mistakes (2 pregnancies-none of which resulted in me having children) just like everyone. About a year ago i realized that i need to get a grip and stop fooling around. Alot of guys hurt me and now its hard to let a guy get close to me, for fear of being hurt. I know not every relationship will end up in ruins but it seems that way. Since a year ago ive dated 3 guys. None of which lasted more then 4 months. I now look for more in men: no drug users, alcoholics (drinks now and then are fine,but not daily),or guys who come off as total idiots.But I'm starting to think that maybe i shouldnt have such high standards, cause maybe i will never find someone to be with, but i want someone who treats me with respect etc.Am i wrong for not settling for less then my expectations?Or should i learn to deal with some faults?

2006-11-23 15:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been having problems with my family and I don't know what to do I have almost came to the conclusion that they hate me and I have almost decided to run away! How do I get out of this problem?

2006-11-23 15:47:36 · 8 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family

2006-11-23 15:47:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you like more about the guys?????? what do i need to have to get a gf????

2006-11-23 15:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the deal... I'm 24. I met this guy 1 month ago. He is 37. We clicked... started dating... Have only went 1 day without seeing each other. We do everything together. I was having alot of personnal problems, he helped me get through them. He's wonderful! He's by far, my best friend. Well, now I'm going through a hairy custody battle. My lawyer advised us not to have him around my daughter when she is with me (on weekends). He totally understands and keeps his distance. He'll call several times a day to check in or to see if I need anything. He is just 150% understanding... I love him with all of my heart!! My question... How do I show him how much his love and understanding means to me? I've never had anyone show me this much care and respect. I tell him that I love him and I thank him for his support but I don't feel like that is enough. Any ideas or things I could do??? Please help me..... Thanks!

2006-11-23 15:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Bangin To The Beat 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm pretty sure I know who the father is but I'm having a big problem. My fiance was travelling on business for a whole month, and I got a little lonely.

I ended up hanging out with some African American friends and one of them got me pregnant. I'm pretty sure I even know which one.

My problem is that I really want to marry Hershel, he's a lawyer, he's a nice guy, and he's really well off. He has a great house and 3 nice cars, and always buys me lots of wonderful gifts.

The biggest problem is that he hates black people and is always using the n-word. When I use it it's because they are friends.

All I want to do is just make sure the baby comes out white so he thinks its his. How can I make sure my baby comes out white?

2006-11-23 15:44:54 · 31 answers · asked by unbrainwashed_christian 1 in Marriage & Divorce