ok... I've been dating this guy for over a month, things are going really great and we spend a lot of time together. I trust him, he's a sweet guy and has not given me a reason not to. When we first started talking neither one of us had time for anything serious but we was not sleeping together either, just hanging out. I worked too much and he was going through a divorce. Now since I don't work and his divorce is final, things have changed for the better. Everyone that knows all the details say that it's getting serious wether we want to admit it or not. He even just made plans for us to be together on New Years, meeting his friends, & me him and his bro hang out too. He checked his mail over at my house tonight, no biggie but I just so happen to notice that he had a yahoo addy & I pulled up his messenger profile after he left and under his hobbies it said "like to f**k"... he hadn't logged in since last year but should I be worried or do you think it's something of the past?
2006-11-23 15:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by rayne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him knowing I was "snooping".
2006-11-23 15:54:04 · update #1
in my opinion, you have nuttin to worry about...if u trust him then i think everything will be fine...guys will be guys...they always write those type of things...they r just guys!! it'll be fine! dont worry!
2006-11-23 15:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really base ANYTHING no that one statement. It could have been a joke, it could have been a friend put him up to it, maybe he thought he was "showing off," or maybe it was just a last "joke" since he wasn't using it any more. If this is the only thing that's worrying you, you don't have much to go on. Trust works BOTH ways in a relationship.
2006-11-23 23:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by rollo1603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would be concerned. He already got divorced once showing that he may not take committment to seriously. Add that to the "hobby" you found and you may have found someone who thinks from below the belt.
2006-11-23 23:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry, you said he has given you no reason to think anything, then don't borrow trouble. Enjoy your relationship.
2006-11-23 23:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him point blank if he wants an exclusive relationship or just casual sex. Listen to what he says, then decide if that is what you wamt or not.
2006-11-23 23:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by nurse41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you worried about? he hasn't logged in since last year. and what guy doesn't like to f**k? although i wouldn't be so crude about it.
2006-11-23 23:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it
it's probably no biggie
2006-11-23 23:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be worried
2006-11-23 23:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋