Okayy, I'm a pretty easy going chick, nice, loveable (i think), smart and such, but when it comes to guys its like i hit a brick wall. I've been with a lot of guys and i've made mistakes (2 pregnancies-none of which resulted in me having children) just like everyone. About a year ago i realized that i need to get a grip and stop fooling around. Alot of guys hurt me and now its hard to let a guy get close to me, for fear of being hurt. I know not every relationship will end up in ruins but it seems that way. Since a year ago ive dated 3 guys. None of which lasted more then 4 months. I now look for more in men: no drug users, alcoholics (drinks now and then are fine,but not daily),or guys who come off as total idiots.But I'm starting to think that maybe i shouldnt have such high standards, cause maybe i will never find someone to be with, but i want someone who treats me with respect etc.Am i wrong for not settling for less then my expectations?Or should i learn to deal with some faults?
2006-11-23
15:47:51
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