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Okayy, I'm a pretty easy going chick, nice, loveable (i think), smart and such, but when it comes to guys its like i hit a brick wall. I've been with a lot of guys and i've made mistakes (2 pregnancies-none of which resulted in me having children) just like everyone. About a year ago i realized that i need to get a grip and stop fooling around. Alot of guys hurt me and now its hard to let a guy get close to me, for fear of being hurt. I know not every relationship will end up in ruins but it seems that way. Since a year ago ive dated 3 guys. None of which lasted more then 4 months. I now look for more in men: no drug users, alcoholics (drinks now and then are fine,but not daily),or guys who come off as total idiots.But I'm starting to think that maybe i shouldnt have such high standards, cause maybe i will never find someone to be with, but i want someone who treats me with respect etc.Am i wrong for not settling for less then my expectations?Or should i learn to deal with some faults?

2006-11-23 15:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I'm going through the same thing. And I know someone who went through it and is happily married now. So that makes me optimistic. I guess what I'm saying is NEVER SETTLE... Don't u want to b happy.

2006-11-23 15:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by brit_m 2 · 0 0

These are not high standars honey ..no drug users, alcoholics (drinks now and then are fine,but not daily),or guys who come off as total idiots.But I'm starting to think that maybe i shouldnt have such high standards, cause maybe i will never find someone to be with, but i want someone who treats me with respect .

Its what you deserve, what every woman out there deserves. Do not settle for less, you have a future to think about!! Do you really want an alcoholic raising ur kid, while your changing nappies hes out getting drunk?

No!
Do u want a drug addict raising ur child? No!

It seems to me you are looking in the wrong places. What i have learnt is if you meet guys in a bar, then they are very alcohol involved generally. So try and find one through mutual friends, join a gym and check out the guys that look after themselves!

2006-11-23 15:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok to tell u the truth i sound a little like the guy u r lookin 4 i dont i drug and drinks now and then r all right it not hard 2 find a guy like me u just hav 2 look in the right place 2 find him and when u do i hope that u treats u right and makes u happy :)

2006-11-23 23:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by reefert23 2 · 0 0

What you expect is normal and worldwide i have seen girls expecting the same giving equality to them and respect their feelings. only thing is some of the male only understand it. there is nothing wrong in your expectations. but be sure next time you don't get into a wrong thing. Try to get a person who treats you as yourself and loves your high and low

2006-11-23 16:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by prdoure 1 · 0 0

You should continue to uphold your standards.
Alcoholics and drug users are worthless.
Keep looking and you will eventually find the one for you.

2006-11-23 15:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0 0

no you need to keep looking for the one who will complete you
and treat you right. there is nothing wrong with high expectations

2006-11-23 15:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 1 0

no don,t lower your standers Therese a guy out there for you just give it a chance and don't think every guy is going to hurt you

2006-11-23 15:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by wolf 2 · 1 0

Never Settle....... You will regret it someday. Go for what you want and be Happy.

2006-11-23 15:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Todd F 2 · 0 1

come over to my house sweetie, i will treat you like a respectable woman if thats what you want.........

2006-11-23 15:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

faults should not exist in a relation. your partner's "faults," should be characteristics, that you love. if not, than you should not be going out with them.

2006-11-23 15:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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