Well my girlfriend and I were walking down the street. She asks me if I would spank her if she cheated on her. I said olny if you wanted my too. She confesses that she has been seeing someone else. But i do not get mad. She asks me if she need me to spank her. I said its optional, olny if you want me too. She says that she needs a spanking. We walk into her house, we go to her room. I tell her to wait there. She asks to be spanked nude. I say ok. I tell her i'll be back in 10min. I return to her. She says that she wants me to undress her. I unbutton her pants, pull 'em off and take off her panties and shirt and bra. I ask her how hard, and what should I spank her with. She says 'til my butt is red. I tell her ok. She asks me what position she should go in and I say lay over the couch. I give her 31 swats then her butt is red. She tells me that that was mean of me and I should apologies. I tell her its what you wanted. The rest of the day she keeps her clothes off and doesn't talk to me
2006-11-23 15:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by Aaron A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you didn't spank her long enough - 31 swats isn't much. If she sulked but still didn't get dressed, it sounds to me like she was angling for another spanking. Maybe next time you could take control a bit more - not keep asking her what she wants. And otk is a much better position - more intimate and satisfying for both of you.
As for the cheating - could well be that was just a pretext she dreamed up so she could ask you for a spanking.
2006-11-23 20:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Many individuals and couples have fetishes of being spanked and to give spankings to others. This can be male or female, many people incorporate spanking with sex, and may use this to arouse each other during sexual acts. Most likely she is interested in this fetish you may overdid it. What ever she said to you it was her playing a role of the bad girl who deserves punishment.
2006-11-23 15:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good spanking is KEY in a sexually relationship. I thought U knew!
2006-11-23 15:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I spank my girlfriend I give her 60 swats and I make her say thank you for spanking me daddy on my bare bottom.
2014-07-17 20:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh dear...ur girlfriend has some serious issues.she is just milking for attention my friend.im a girl i should know.keep going on like this ur heading down destruction.A healthy relationship can not be sustained based on games.
2006-11-23 16:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_freelove 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think it's odd that you spanked her because she cheated on you...!! And secondly i think it's odder that she told u to and you didn't get mad at the fact that she cheated on you
2006-11-23 16:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
spank her until she cant handle anymore then she will like it better
2014-10-15 13:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bill H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up. and then years later you are a pervert or a psychotic killer or she is and you blame evryone else but yourself. for that kind of behaviour, you'll pay just wait and see.
2006-11-23 15:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by the a.m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... when a girl says that she wants go get spanked its in a "playful" way. not an acutal spanking!!
2006-11-23 15:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
WTF hmmm i think u like spanking fess up now lol. well if that really happened i think something strange is in ur water lol
2006-11-23 16:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋