I met a guy last Thursday. It was like love at first sight. I spent 24 hr with him during the week end. It was awesome, he kept telling me on we were the same etc...That was Sunday afternoon.
The good thing is when I left Sunday night he asked me when he was going to see me again and we talked about on Wednesday night. As I was missing him, I left him a message on Tuesday and Wed morning, then I sent him an email (on Match.com). He replied to cancel Wednesday night date and asked me how was my schedule for next week. What does it mean?
He never called me but he desactivated his profile from Match, I had just reactivated mine because I was pissed. The next day he reactivated his...What does this mean?
I have not replied to his mail yet. I am really into him and I want him to feel the same. What shall I do? I need a good strategy because While we were together he kept saying how happy he was, how spectacular I was..He even asked me to go with to the Super ball. I am so LOST..
2006-11-23 15:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
#1...Gotta play hard to get. Men love a challenge. Do not make yourself so readily available. DONT call him...Make him call you. No "last minute dates".
#2.....If you do have another date with this man...watch for signs he might be married...something fishy about this one...I am willing to bet he is attached somehow....(sorry, you might not want to hear that)...just keep this in the back of your mind hon...
Good luck
2006-11-23 15:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 23:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just need some time to himself so ask him whats been going on, but don't oush him
2006-11-23 23:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon to tell anything... you never know what is going on on his end and how screwed up it may look on your end... don't worry about it and go out with him again.
2006-11-23 23:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you...just go out with him again, and see how he treats you.
2006-11-23 23:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why has this question been up in a different form?
2006-11-23 23:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by mostinfamous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋