OK, I'm told all the time that there are guys out there that love BBW, well where are they??? I'm 34 raising two teenagers on my own, no support, work two jobs, own home and car, tired of being alone, I flirt and smile everything but throw myself on the floor, LOL. I know this isn't a dating sight, I live in a little town in Indiana and yes I'm looking for Mr. Right, not Mr. right now. Where can I go that's safe?? I'm tired of chat rooms and websites, I want to meet and talk to real men, face to face, I hate the bar seen, I'm a social drinker and I don't want a drunk like my ex. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! Thanks in advance, Kim
2006-11-23 16:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kim S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the just go out and do things you like part. that is the best way to find people that like the same things you do. You can even try the personals section in your local newspaper. and unlike the one answer on here, don't drop the BBW. If i was looking for a girl, and she ended up no putting that she was thin on a personals, she would be disappointed when i told her that she wasn't attractive. Be proud to be who you are and trust me, there are alot of guys that like gals like you....hell, I am in a poly relation ship and have been with several BBW's. I just love them
2006-11-24 02:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by rrrctraptor31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really appreciate your hard work and the way you are getting along with your responsibilities of two daughters and two jobs, Kim I dont think you can find someone on this site...because what I personally make out from your message is that u r looking for some safe and long relationship..Peoples are very cheap sometime u may fallen into wrong hands...and regret later on...Just take good care of your self...and seriously If u want to talk and share something U can rely upon me....my id is rajesh_sharma94@yahoo.com...I will always respect your dignity and boost your moral always...
2006-11-23 17:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by YUVRAJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny that you say you can't find men that like big beautiful women. Because I'm having the same problem w/ men looking for skinny beautiful women. I think it's all in the attitude and the personality. Obviously there's something we're doing wrong. Maybe throwing ourselves at men hoping they will respond in a good way is the wrong this to do. I think that a man is more attracted to the girl that just sits at the end of the bar w/ one of her girlfriends just chatting, or the girl who goes to the bookstore just to get books about misc. things. They find that to be more intriguing than a girl who tells her whole life story in 1 hour. Because then they don't have anything to ask later on.
2006-11-23 16:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by natural blondie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the BBW things seems like you are trying to warn someone that you are beautiful and heavy, drop the "BBW" its not needed should an ugly white man label himself "UWM" sounds silly, dont judge yourself. just be you, if the chemistry is right, then size, looks, money etc should not even matter. try a date site like match.com, be totally honest, what and who you are dont blow yourself up to be some mountain biking, camping, etc etc, you've seen the ads. if your a couch potato with a foot fetish say so, or whatever. next forget about the ex, the next poor guy you date will be under a microscope if you dont. and not to sound rude, if your just looking to get laid, be upfront skip the dinner and the BS that goes on. and if your looking for Mr forever, then make your first meeting a casual thing, in your everyday clothes, no makeup, everyday hairdo (ponytail) let him see the "plain" you first, this is who he will see everyday for the rest of his life. Save the "dressing up" for big dates, it will be a better treat for him and you this way. Just be you
2006-11-23 16:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by dbj2086 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Hoor mentioned in the Qur’an The word hoor occurs in the Qur’an in no less than four different places: (1) In Surah Dukhan chapter 44, verse 54 "Moreover, We shall join them to companions With beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 44:54] (2) In Surah Al-Tur chapter 52 verse 20 "...And We shall join them to companions, with beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 52:20] (3) In Surah Rahman chapter 55 verse 72 "Companions restrained (as to their glances), in goodly pavilions." [Al-Qur’an 55:72] (4) In Surah Al-Waqiah chapter 56 verse 22 "And (there will be) companions with beautiful, big and lustrous eyes." [Al-Qur’an 56:22] 2. Hoor Translated as Beautiful Maidens Many translators of the Qur’an have translated the word hoor as ‘beautiful maidens’ especially in the Urdu translations. If hoor means ‘beautiful maidens’ or girls, then they are meant only for the men. Hence, what will the women get if they enter Paradise? 3. Meaning of Hoor The word hoor is actually the plural of ahwar (applicable to man) and of haura (applicable to woman) and signifies a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a good soul, male or female in paradise and it denotes the intense whiteness of the white part of the spiritual eye. The Qur’an describes in several other verses that in paradise you will have azwaj which mean a pair or spouse or companion which means you will have spouses or companions pure and holy (mutaharratun means pure, holy). "But give glad tidings to those who believe and work righteousness, that their portion is gardens, beneath which rivers flow. Every time they are fed with fruits therefrom, they say: "Why, this is what we were fed with before", for they are given things in similitude; and they have therein companions pure (and holy); and they abide therein (forever)". [Al-Qur’an 2:25] "But those who believe and do deeds of righteousness, We shall soon admit to Gardens, with rivers flowing beneath – their eternal home; therein shall they have companions pure and holy: we shall admit them to shades, cool and ever deepening". [Al-Qur’an 4:57] Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes. 4. Women will get something exceptional in Paradise Many scholars say that in context, the word hoor used in the Qur’an refers only to ladies since gents are addressed. A reply that would be accepted by all types of people would rather be the answer given in the Hadith when a similar question was posed that if a man gets a hoor, a beautiful Maiden in Paradise, then what will the women get? The reply was that the women will get that which the heart has not desired for, the ear hasn’t heard off and the eye hasn’t seen, indicating that even the women will get something exceptional in Paradise.
2016-03-29 07:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How funny. My name is Kim S. (Kimberly Simmons) and I AM a Big Beautiful Woman. May I say I applaud your excellent taste! You go, brother!
2006-11-23 16:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by kimmunism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are out there and wondering where to find you, you sound like you have a wonderful sense of humor i think go to places you love and dont go to just pick up places you wont met him there ask people at your work? where to go becuase they are local , good luck !!!!!
but i have a feeling you wont need it:)
2006-11-23 16:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not many guys will talk to any woman without a pic but i happen to be a guy thats likes bigger girls.
2006-11-23 16:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ronnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to bad you live in Indiana and drink
2006-11-23 16:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by sickand tired 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like mail me or IM me and tels find out abt each other
2006-11-23 16:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋