2006-11-23 17:08:10 · 29 answers · asked by tdude09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I acutally don't believe in sex before marriage...I feel that your virginity is something special and priceless...once you lose it theres no going back...so why not wait and do it with someone who u love and will spend the rest of your life with...plus u don't have to worry about being or getting anyone pregnant or catching any diseases...
2006-11-23 17:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by SEXYCHULA 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well there are a large percentages of marriage end up in divorce due the sexual fustrations in the marriage. Like everything, sexual skills have to be practiced...there is an art to making love. Practice does make perfect in all things including sex. Sexual experience is a key to pleasing your partner and increases desirability for each other. Hopefully you and your spouse have some skills before saying I DO. Sexual fustrations is not a solid foundation for a sucessful marriage. If you want to keep a happy home...people have to learn to keep a happy bed. Just some advice.
2006-11-23 17:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people have a religious reason for not wanting sex before marriage, then I respect their right to that belief.
However, I personally know three women who "saved themselves for marriage", only to find that their husband was fairly uninterested in sex even after the marriage. Eventually (years later), each one of them found out that her husband was secretly gay.
The average male today is reluctant to wait until marriage, and may even break it off if things don't start to happen once you get engaged. Only men with strong religious beliefs, or very little interest in heterosexual sex (like my friends' husbands) are going to meekly accept the wait without an argument.
All three of those women went through a lot of heartache (and months of anxiety over whether they had contracted any diseases). You can bet they wished they hadn't insisted on waiting.
2006-11-23 17:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage depends up the desires of the people involved.
More important than that, it's best to know the sexual/medical history and personal background of the one you get involved with. A great relationship doesn't hinge on sex alone anyway. There should be enough to the relationship to make it last, regardless of which choice you make.
2006-11-23 17:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why of course! A good marriage requires a good sex partner. Partners need to practice for perfection before the event !!
2006-11-23 17:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. (What kind of a question is that?) (Wo)Man has practiced prenuptial sex since the invention of marriage. The only new thing that Victorianism, Islamism and American neo-Puritanism brought into the game is that people feel a bit ashamed of what they nevertheless continue doing.
2006-11-23 17:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hans C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-23 17:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, because i do not plan on getting married, and If I ever did, i pick to keep in mind that he's properly worth protecting. i will't marry someone who might want to finally end up sucking in mattress. sex is substantial to save a courting going and strong
2016-11-29 10:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's too much to ask for sex after marriage.
2006-11-23 17:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are old enough to take the responsibilities after that, you can go ahead. It is the believe in Sex or not, it is the responsibility or not?
2006-11-23 17:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋