I never had no desire to have sex,I had oppertunitis,but I never did,you think something wrong with me,some one feels the same?
2006-11-23 16:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No there is nothing wrong with that,And I do understand this.Because since my divorce 10 years ago,I have not had sex either.I often wonder if I will never have it again.This is not how I want my life to be.But I have been hurt bad,really bad.And if I were to remarry...It would have to be forever..and I don't think I can get that guarantee.So I stay alone.. :> (
2006-11-23 17:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by quietthoughts777 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have alot of issues that have not been resolved around your wife leaving you. It appears it hurt you ver y bad and you loved your wife dearly. You are so afraid to put yourself in a vulnerable position like an intimate relationship that you shy away from it
you are completely normal you've been hurt by a women and you don't feel like you could take the whole thing happening again. I will pray that you will come to a place where you can realize that your wife may have left but that doesn't mean you should live a life without happiness. Many a man and women deal with this situation on a daily basis consider some therapy talk about it
to a professional that is the only way you may come to that place for you to find love and joy again do not live in a bubble if you have an opportunity take it but take it slow.
2006-11-23 19:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms as quickly as I initiate up it we play around approximately as quickly as each and every 6-8 weeks. we've 2 infants and the two artwork. She claims she feels uncomfortable approximately her physique (no reason to) and is purely too drained. She additionally mentioned she desires extra romance to place her in the temper. I easily understand her concerns and attempt to handle them. With infants this is complicated to romance her the way i might prefer to, yet I attempt. whilst we do get intimate i think like i'm molesting her. She lays there expressionless together with her hands at her sides likely waiting for the full element to be over. we've been useing the silver bullet and he or she seems to savour it, yet would not instruct it. She infrequently kisses me back or touches me. i admire her and have the prefer to make issues extra useful yet she would not look fascinated. i flow to mattress maximum nights thoroughly pissed off because of the fact i'm bored with being given the chilly shoulder. She hops into mattress and is many times asleep in 15 seconds and that i lay conscious 0.5 the night. talking has no longer helped
2016-10-17 11:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Nothing wrong it is the guilt of past.
Forget about wife now and feel free to enjoy life. You should try to have sex relations with some one you like which will help you to
come out from your past guilt . The past guilt is stopping you from sex. Sex is one of the major part of human life.
Pl.enjoy life
Dr.Mojo
2006-11-23 17:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female and although i like sex and love. i too haven't been with another man after my divorce and im doubling your time of 8 years its not that i don't want to. and not like you where i don't desire it. Just very cautuios of men now and want a real true blue guy not that stuff again.
2006-11-23 19:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to let the past just be that the past. move on and find a real woman seems like your wife didnt waste no time pal you deserve better than whoever she was and dreams really come true in fact try it you have wasted.8. years now and find a woman with morals . good luck from us all here. ?
2006-11-23 17:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think that you may still be hurt over youre wife leaving. But she has moved on so you try to, I know its hard when you love someone.
2006-11-23 17:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're not attracted to anyone you interact with, then you just aren't attracted. maybe there's some underlying issue...but it's still a part of you. just work on accepting that part of you and move on.
2006-11-23 17:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's anything wrong with it. Those feelings will come back to you in no time at all. :)
2006-11-23 17:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I only wish you will meet somebody someday that will make you very happy in your heart and in your bed.
2006-11-23 17:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋