Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

2006-11-22 01:27:42 · 21 answers · asked by cap_sensi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We had a great thing going for a few months, she got distant, said she should be alone for a while. I can accept that. But she texts me all the time still, talk and see each other occasionally and things aren't awkward (but I can still feel the chemistry so I know it's still there and she's still interested). Quick question (and hope there's a simple answer) how do I keep myself around this girl just enough to keep "the fire" tended but not too much to fall into "just friends"? It seems I am walking a very fine line.

2006-11-22 01:27:30 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm still in love with my ex but he broke up with me on october the 13 and he told me that maybe later on the future we could get back together, he was still talk to his exgirl while he was with me what should I do

2006-11-22 01:27:22 · 1 answers · asked by lovelife 2 in Singles & Dating

Like many overseas students, I'm doing a part-time job in a food store. A girl, working at background, comes from the country of mine and knows one of my friends. I noticed there's a serious problem between us since beginning, and she always brushed me off when I tried to talk to her. A while later, I found out she's spying on me thru a lady who works with me at front. She distorted all the facts I told 2 the lady and spreaded rumor around the store. 2 days ago, the friend we both know sent me a link of her blog and I was shocked when I saw there's a-whole-passage long comment about me. She tries to pick up every single linguistic mistake I made when I talk 2 other ppl. She even thinks I'm showing off my English when I greeting ppl in the store. And last week, she passed me and said "F***, I wanna kill you" when there's no one around us. I'm really pissed off by being unfairly judged and humiliated. Should I translate what she wrote (into English) and hand it to the manager? Thanks!

2006-11-22 01:27:08 · 11 answers · asked by avril099 1 in Friends

i just found out the my husband was cheating on me. i confronted him about it.. and he told me that he made a mistake but that he loves me and that he wants to be with me.. i don't know if i should give him a second chance, we do have 2 kids.. tell me what to do....im a fraid that if i let it go he'll do it again... we have being together for 15 years...

2006-11-22 01:26:54 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 01:26:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so the fighting between my boyfriend and i has been going on since around july.....so its not exactly only of lately that this has been happening....and we have tried solutions to our fighting and nothing is working....even though they are just little fights they all add up.....neither of us are sure what to do anymore....but when we are alone we get along sooooo well....but even in classes we fight like its our job....please help.....i dont know if i should end it of it that would only make things worse for myself....

2006-11-22 01:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 01:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by zeizei 1 in Friends

From what I hear, if some women could smell themselves down there, they will change their attitude. Please women, feel pity on us and give a lot more.

2006-11-22 01:24:18 · 18 answers · asked by sum1 1 in Singles & Dating

, Baby-Sit Sibling, Load Dishwasher,

2006-11-22 01:23:53 · 6 answers · asked by mystar2525 1 in Friends

I have a few important things to tell you, and I don’t know the best way to bring you my message. I am no good at conversations and the mail is too slow, so I am emailing you. I think I will be best understood this way.



I don’t know where to start, but first I want to thank you for the kindness, generosity, and attention you’ve shown me over the past 2 months. This has been a very special time, and I have enjoyed getting to know you and experiencing the pleasure of your company.



It would be selfish of me to pretend that we do not have a few differences. I have been honest with you in answering all questions, but some facts remain unsaid.



Several times over the course of getting to know you, you’ve mentioned in your outlook for the future that one goal you’d like to reach is to get married. For the purpose of total honesty, I cannot continue to refrain from telling you that personally, I currently have no future interest in becoming married and/or living with one

2006-11-22 01:23:08 · 19 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im with this guy and we have a 3yr old son. Hes been married in the past , Ive never been married but I want to marry this guy but he wont even talk to me about it. I dont want to feel like im pressuring him. What to do??????

2006-11-22 01:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by little_gizmo2004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my now husband for 6 years. We just got married 1 month ago, well..he has never really been very affectionate towards me. The last time we kissed was our wedding. We've never held hands... nothing like that, especially in public. Yeah at first, it bothered me, but then i learned to accept that maybe he just isnt "cuddle type" but then today i found his old photo album and he was with this girl that he met 8 years ago in flordia (one of those vacation flings) anyways, in all the pics, he was so affectionate with her, kissing her all sweet, just being the way ive always wanted him to be with me. so i told him about it and he just said i was being too emotional and stupid. What do you think? I'm his WIFE shouldnt he be like that with me?? not a fling?? how else should i express the way i feel?

2006-11-22 01:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by yahoocraze 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is just out of curiosity. How many of you would cheat on your spouse if there was absolutely no way for them to find out? I mean it was foolproof, you were guaranteed the wouldnt find out? and for the record, i wouldnt.

2006-11-22 01:19:29 · 36 answers · asked by yensenm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friends bf. I dont care if I hurt her, I just dont want to get hurt. I slept with her last 2 bfriends and that was great fun!!!
Do you think I should do something evil to make him split form her. I could call her mobile pretend to be someone else and tell her he is having an affair!!! YEAH GREAT IDEA .... WHAT DO YOU THINK....

Im young and VERY HORNY

2006-11-22 01:18:59 · 32 answers · asked by billy j 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a brother who has been with me since I was 7 he is adorable, i love him so much, then I have my sister, who winges ALL the time, its really annoying, she never wants to spend any time with me! this makes me kind of like my brother more, is this fair, or at least normal?

2006-11-22 01:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lucy A 1 in Family

i knw a boy frm 2 years hes my best friend n a family frend 2...i dunno when i fell in love with him...hel already commited at this time...but his gf is a big problem for all....shezz very irritating...every1 dislikes her all v friends...even he getts very irritated by her...bt he cant leave her casue she keeps on threatning that she will tell his family about them...n if that happens then its gonna b a big scene...i loev him...n he knws tht 2....bt vr still...best frnds....i dunno wht 2 do...v r very close 2 each other...bt i dunno wht should b done of r relationship....wht do i do ppl???

2006-11-22 01:18:26 · 9 answers · asked by rocking s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 01:18:03 · 13 answers · asked by zeizei 1 in Friends

It was brought to my attention by a co-worker that my sister-in-law, who works in our office, is having an affair with one of the tenants of our building. I am having a difficult time being civil to her. I will not tell my brother, it would devastate him. They have been married for 10 years and have two children. Should I let my sister-in-law know that I know, or should I just let it drop?

2006-11-22 01:17:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have suspected for a while but as of today I'm 100% certain he's cheating on my mum. The fact that we're going through a horrible time individually in the family, my brother having cancer in his 30s, my sister going through a painful divorce and myself having recently been sacked makes his actions feel all the more treacherous. I fear a face to face confrontation because it might give him the chance to choose to move on with his "other" life, something that I feel, under the circumstances, he doesn't really deserve. Am I being selfish? Telling the rest of the family feels like adding more to their current misery. I want that other woman to leave him alone and my dad to come to his senses. What should I do?

2006-11-22 01:15:57 · 24 answers · asked by A_lega 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a serious problem with my husband looking at porn. I do not think it's okay to fantasize about doing things with other women. I don't do it about other men! I have even left the house for 3 or 4 days and stayed in a hotel b/c I caught him looking at it on our computer. He used to even download it on his cell phone. I've told him I have an issue w/it, but I think b/c he sees it as innocent he will go behind my back and do it. It's to the point where I have spy mechanisms set up on our computer! I haven't caught him in a long time, but am I normal to feel this way, and is ihe looking at it b/c there's something wrong w/me?

2006-11-22 01:14:26 · 31 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i did something out of fun, but my good friend reacted strongly towards it, to the extent that he wanted to hit me.

i refuse to apologise because it was done out of fun, and not with the intent to humiliate or anger him on purpose.

so now, he wants to confront me physically the next time we meet because he knows i will react when provoked and he wants a fight.

how do i approach this situation?

2006-11-22 01:14:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a tall, slim girl with a proportionate body, long brown hair and big green eyes, an artist, is smart, but intense, a loner and quiet, not athletic, a little socially awkward

or

a shorter, huskier girl, with shorter brown hair and brown eyes, manly-looking, tomboy, athletic, outgoing, popular, always with friends, is very comfortable socially, but is a little immature and gossips?

2006-11-22 01:13:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would ano one notice I was gone?
Have I helped anyone?
( just a curiosity thing)

2006-11-22 01:11:22 · 7 answers · asked by hummingbird 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 01:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by angelasmall32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I started ignoring him which helped...but hes starting to ignore me too after a while.....

2006-11-22 01:09:14 · 11 answers · asked by lola2008 1 in Singles & Dating

well where do I start... myself and two of my best mates are kind of stumped, we cant seem to find guys to date. we arent your typical girlie girls but we are feminine. we have a lot of male friends and they dont understand why we are all single either. we like to go out and have a laugh and are quite intimidating I guess as we are quite bubbly and have the attitude "we dont give a crap like me as I am or not at all" we get on with every one and not to be vain but we arent ugly. all of out male friends say we would be the perfect girlfriends as we go out have a laff, we arent possesive over men. we arent klingy women. what are we doing wrong someone please enlighten me

2006-11-22 01:08:01 · 35 answers · asked by rhiannon g 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a thought.

2006-11-22 01:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 01:06:30 · 12 answers · asked by blaaah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 01:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by Amy L 3 in Marriage & Divorce