Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

2006-11-22 01:05:10 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Singles & Dating

I'll never understand human nature...

People will fall head over heels for those they meet on the internet and in chat rooms--people whom they've never seen nor heard, people who could be lying about their true intentions, age, identity, marital status, and (most of all) previous criminal record...

Yet men who have the nerve to approach women in bars and clubs get written off as overbearing freaks ("I don't even know you, I just met you five minutes ago so why would I give you my phone number you a--hole?")

At least when you meet a guy in a nightclub or bar, you know what he looks like, what he sounds like, how old he is, etc,. and are able to make a half-decent assessment of his character and worthiness based on outward appearances and first impressions.

Can someone explan this to me? ...cuz' I don't pretend to be an expert on the subject of women

(and in all fairness, men who apply this double-standard are equally hypocritical).

2006-11-22 01:05:00 · 9 answers · asked by Student 3 in Singles & Dating

If you could go back and time and change one thing in your life...what would it be? Just one thing that was within your ability to control, like a decision that you made, or something that you said. But just one thing, what would it be?

2006-11-22 01:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by Desiderata of Happiness 2 in Friends

I did not love this person, I'm not sittng here pining for him I just can't get over the cruelty. I broke up with a liar/cheater, everything was fine for a year then he told me he had changed, didn't believe him but liked him anyways. Told me he didn't have a girl, started seeing him again, stopped calling me, saw him in public he said yup that was fun but I have a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me I tried to tell her but she wouldn't listen, she punctured two of my tires. Now she's five months pregnant and they're living a happy life because she is the one for him. Why did he bother coming back at all, I know the answer. Angry at myself, disgusted by him, feel sorry for her. It's been almost a year and I still can't sleep some nights, resentment burning me up. I know I put myself here but I'm getting tired of this hate, counselling didn't make it better. I just feel like there is some sort of wrong and I wont rest till I right it. Any thoughts besides get over it?

2006-11-22 01:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by Nurse Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Many woman have to be shown what they would be missing before really commit to a relationship?

2006-11-22 01:04:20 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 01:03:21 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

if i start dieting today for 1 month and experience the feeling myself, how would i feel? will i have control at the end of the month?

note: I REALLY want to try it!

2006-11-22 01:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do i buy my girlfriend for christmas, limit of about £250? What would you like to see in your stocking on christmas day?! Thanks for your help girls....

2006-11-22 01:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by ShelfSideSpur 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

give suggestion how to get the perfect man .

2006-11-22 01:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

i knw a person frm 2 years...hes my best frnd...hes a family frnd 2....n i dunno when i fell in love with him...hes already commited bt his gf is a big problem for all even he getts very irritaed by her at tyms....i dunno if i should tell him wht i feel about him...i fear loosing him.....i knw tht he likes meh 2 bt his gf is abig problem....i dunno wht 2 do...can u pl help....

2006-11-22 00:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by rocking s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok..here it goes I work at night, lots of weekends and holidays. Now a new tradition has crept into our life called thirsty thursday.....her girlfriend and husband come over to my house and have cocktails weather I'm here or not.......she goes out almost every friday nite when I'm working......but we never go out on nites I'm off weather it's friday or saturday.......does anybody see a problem here or am I being selfish.....I haven't said anything and it's been going on for about 3-4 months.

2006-11-22 00:57:52 · 23 answers · asked by Monte T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now....and lately we have been fighting ALOT....over really stupid things....even our friends have been noticing it and alot of people dont wanna hang out with us anymore because they dont wanna listen to the bickering....we get along really well when we are alone....what should i do?....is it time to end it?.....how can i stop the stupid fights?

2006-11-22 00:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a Blind’s Wife runs away with DEAF and a DUMP see them. How DUMP will tell this Incidence to the BLIND?

2006-11-22 00:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex split with me for ne reason and now after 3 months she is talking nice to me but i found out that she's in debt for loans she had to take out afterwards, should i feel guilty for not helping her out now or should i just move on with my life and leave her to hers.

2006-11-22 00:56:27 · 43 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you deal with a spouse who 1.) Has a shopping addiction 2.) Won't admit it 3.) Won't go to cousiling about their problem....

When I tried to talk to her about it she became extremely angry and said Im just trying to controll her.... It has become a monthly occurance for her to drain and overdraw our bank accounts from shopping. We spent a year sacraficing to pay down her 8k in credt card debt so we could buy a house, only for her to turn around and amass 12k of of new credit card debt in less than 5 months! Im at my wits end... she won't get help. What should I do? Is it time to start thinking about moving on?

2006-11-22 00:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If your girlfriend is upset and walks out of the room, do you follow her? (This is hypothetical)

Why or why not?

2006-11-22 00:56:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend's bro is in the hospital, but i just found out and i dont no why. Should i help them in any way? Like making them a get well card or some dinner?

2006-11-22 00:54:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It is because you want to settler down, have kids , the next step, just happened why ? do u love the person are happy with them.

2006-11-22 00:53:25 · 28 answers · asked by revelationwannabe 1 in Weddings

Hi my step daughter is 14 and just told me and her dad she is bi,and she has none since 7th grade,she is very immature,they have some kind of support gourp at school for gay,straight people if you ask me i think it;s the school saying it's ok and all this emo crap what should i do.

2006-11-22 00:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by XoAngieXo 3 in Family

I’m confused about a girl at work. I was assigned to sit next to a girl at a new job 3 weeks ago. For 2 weeks, I didn’t say much to her. I’m shy that way, but last Friday, she got me to open up and we talked for 2 hours. The following Monday, we were moved to another room and were no longer seated next to each other. This is where things confuse me. I let her borrow my CD player and I bought her a packet of gum. I also made her a friendship bracelet. She said “Thank You”, but I don’t know what to believe as when she moved to a new desk and later left for the day, she left the bracelet on her old desk. She doesn’t talk to me anymore, unless I say something first, and just walks by me most of the time without even looking. I asked her if I did something wrong and if she’s ignoring me. She claims everything is fine and it’s just that she’s trying to focus on her work. She also looks tired, but she talks to other people. What’s the deal?

2006-11-22 00:52:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as i also never done but my friend want to do so ...so plz help me that i can help her

2006-11-22 00:52:39 · 3 answers · asked by dilpreet parmar 1 in Friends

We are pretty good friends. I know she likes being in my company

2006-11-22 00:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by klandard 1 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP ME.,

DEPRESSED

2006-11-22 00:49:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, for the past 3 years, I have been friends with this girl. She has had a boyfriend the entire time. Their relationship has been off and on, they argue and are rarely ever happy together. She goes off to college and thats where we start to get more than friends. I couldn't hide my feeling anymore so I told her everything. How i was crazy for her and how she was the most beautiful, perfect person in the world.

Although we never became a couple, we did go on dates. Kissed a few times, nothing really serious. Well, time goes by and we kid about getting married and having kids. Her friends and roomates are convinced that we are made for eachother. Everything is perfect.

So I thought.

She goes home from school one weekend. I try to make plans with her but shes just to busy. Of course im bumed out, but i deal with it. That monday, i recieve a phone call that she is getting back together with her ex. She said it was because she needs to get over him. I'm told to wait.

2006-11-22 00:49:16 · 11 answers · asked by Brent 1 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 15 and my brother is almost 16 and i had been seeing him running to and from the bathroom sometimes completly naked and wearing the loose boxer shorts and seeing his thing pop out alot. So I said something to him this morning and he said , we have been seeing each other since we have grown up, why now does it bother me, i said it doesnt really bother me its just different seeing you! He said how, and i was to embarressed to say cause i see his thing is bigger and pops out alot. He then told me dont look then! But sometimes I cant help to look cause its just there, and curious to me! Is thats so wrong? Has anybody had the same?

2006-11-22 00:49:04 · 18 answers · asked by karen t 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex says he still still loves me? then y say the time wrong?
my ex and i broke up a while ago. although he loves me. he says his heart is with me and always will be but his head at the mo isnt .
ed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. which i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the momnet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. the thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me

dont say move on cause we still love each other

2006-11-22 00:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me & my partner are due to have our first child in jan, everytime wer out this girl always trys it on with him, he tells her where to go but it really annoys me. I could tear her hair out but that would be stooping as low as her. what am i to do? shes knows the situation !!

2006-11-22 00:48:20 · 31 answers · asked by lauracaufield 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been dating my ex-girlfriend for 4 and a half years before she broke up with me a month ago. To complicate matters worse we own a house together. I have moved out to give her the space she needs right now. Basically, I hurt her very bad by not treating her the way she deserves to be treated. I got caught up with other things, like buying a house, instead of being thankful for having a wonderful girl. We are still talking on the phone, and she has said that she misses me and wants to keep the lines of communication open. I know I was wrong, but sometimes you don’t see things until it is too late. Does anyone have any ideas on how to go about getting a second chance with her, to show her things can be different and that I have realized I was wrong?

2006-11-22 00:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by KBcustom 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that most men who beat their wives usually would back down when a man of their size stands up to them. Are most of these men cowards who simply beat on those they can, but not on those who are equal to them?

2006-11-22 00:47:41 · 27 answers · asked by Enterrador 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has had a lot of bad luck in relationships. She has been used and mistreated by many men over the years. She loves hard and then winds up getting beaten up or either having her heart broken by no good men.

While we were out having lunch at our other friend's house we noticed that this one horse had his eye on her the entire day. He seemed very nice and truly interested in dating my best friend. Our other friend suggested hooking up her horse with my friend to see if they might be able to date and maybe even hit it off.

Should my best friend date a horse or should she continue to date men that abuse her??

2006-11-22 00:47:36 · 15 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Singles & Dating