It is because you want to settler down, have kids , the next step, just happened why ? do u love the person are happy with them.
2006-11-22 00:53:25 · 28 answers · asked by revelationwannabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't know why some people do, but I married my husband of 22 years for love, intimacy, friendship, companionship, to raise a family and grow old together. It's not always be easy, but we meant our vows and have been faithful to each other..
2006-11-22 00:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by what's up? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married because I didn't want to be single for the rest of my life. As much as I enjoyed being single for a while, I felt that, in the long run, the companionship of marriage would be more rewarding. I don't really want to have kids, but my husband does, so this is the motivation I need to have them (it would suck growing old without kids - it's just they're such a pain in the a** while they're growing up). Yes, I love my husband, and we're happy; so far as I can tell.
2006-11-22 04:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was in love with the man I married the first time. 14 years and 3 children later, I figured out that I just wanted to make my mom mad. She was always nagging me about him and I guess I was trying to prove a point to her. Turns out she was right. I know this sounds stupid but at 18 we sometimes do stupid things. I love my children dearly and wouldn't take anything in the world for them. I am now married a second time. My husband is the love of my life. He is my soul mate. Sometimes I wonder why things happen the way they do, why can't we find the right person the first time around? Stupidity is part of the answer I guess. I just wish me and my husband could have a child together. I am totally in love with my husband.
2006-11-22 00:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by asouthwell28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different people marry for different reasons. - some to have a meaningful life of stisfaction - some for continuing the generation - some because their parents insist - some becuse of their own (sexual) desires - some (people like you) without knowing why - and some other people to spoil the life of themselves (or of the spose).yet some others marry for social status and some others to cover up their secret dealings with frequents. Fine, my advice- if you are not yet married, do not get married till you get a satisfactory answer to your question.
2006-11-22 03:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by pootee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a formal way of showing each other and the world that you are committed to spending the only life you have together! Marriage is a way of showing that and celebrating it forever.
The same reason people celebrate their Birthday, Christmas, Birth of a Child etc.
Why would you celebrate the day you and your partner were born but not a formal day where for relationship was born?
2006-11-22 00:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we marry b/c well, I heard in a movie can't remember which..."we marry b/c there are so many people on this planet and our lives are so busy that we wan't a witness to our lives" Plus I love my husband and we knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with just the two of us. I can't even imagine being with another man, I wouldn't want to. That is how I know, that is why I told him yes.
2006-11-22 00:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We marry for right and wrong reasons; it takes some of us a few whacks at it before we get it right.
I'm nearly 40, been married a few times, and am finally marrying for the RIGHT reasons. And it's the first time I'm marrying because I'm in love!
We won't be having children, either.
2006-11-22 05:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we marry because it is built into us by society. Try to run for office with out being a "family man" and your chances of election decrease. And it is always assumed that unless you marry you have not really lived a full life. It is our belief in love that gets us to the altar, but it is companionship, and complacency that keeps us there.
2006-11-22 00:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like me marry because we want to share the rest of our life with someone we love the most.
2006-11-22 00:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by JT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we're groomed our entire lives to reach this "goal" of sorts.
I wouldn't recommend marrying without love.
May West once said...."I know that marriage is an institution, I'm just not ready for an institution".........*L* Truer words were never spoken!
2006-11-22 00:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋